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m3i906

Member
Oct 21, 2024
42
I am so worried about the future. I am conflicted but certain at the same time? Overall, a whirlwind of thoughts and tribulations...
 
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bluejorvik

New Member
Dec 17, 2024
4
Can't sleep. Ruminating over everything that has gone wrong recently. Feel like I've wasted my potential, feel like a failure. Don't know how I can sit with these feelings if it doesn't get better from here. Feel like I can't catch a break from the universe. Wishing to be able to go to sleep and preferably not wake up. Tiny bit of me wants to keep trying but all my resilience is gone and I just don't know if I can take another setback
 
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CogitoMori

I won't be on as much as usual. Less alone time
Oct 21, 2024
408
I miss Jason. I miss being treated like a human being
 
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crayonscrayons

crayonscrayons

Member
Nov 14, 2024
44
i'm feeling really hopeless again
I'm also feeling like i'm a fucking dramatic bitch and I hate myself
my ultimate wish is for me and my friends to be so happy together and to be so kind and have fun and laughter
but that is all made up stuff for kids. that's not actually real. I will lose all these friends all over again. Forever.
I'm feeling like I was designed to be alone. I was alone for so many years, for 10 years I was alone, then finally I wasn't, and now i'm so scared again that I am indefinitely becoming alone again, and i know it is all my fault.
my heart is so hollow I can't do anything.

if I can't have that wish, then my other wish
is that everyone that ever knew me has to forget me
they all forget me
no one knows me
they don't remember me, or recognize me. I never existed to them.
then I can kill myself
then I can kill myself without the guilt that i'm going to hurt them
no place feels like home to me
I'm just so scared
i'm so afraid
I have a whole entire beating body
but my brain is just nothing but horror, even though it controls this all
I hope one day I can be normal

today I brushed my teeth after I woke up
I vacuumed a bit
I put some clothes away
I listened to some new music
I talked to some strangers online
this all kinda sounds good
but i'm just hoping my heart goes UP from here
because right now I have no idea how I managed to do all that
somehow, listing it has put a little bit of stuff there to fill the absolute deepest bit of the hole, but will it all last for long I don't know
 
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Electra

Electra

The relief of giving in to destruction
Jul 1, 2024
522
I'm feeling a little reluctant today, but at the same time I feel trepidation. Overall, undecided and going back and forth.
 
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Thisisnotaname

Arcanist
Aug 27, 2024
427
I'm not sure what to think right now, I hear a lot of things H24. Especially the fact that everyone in the neighborhood is talking about me.
During my last hospitalization at last Christmas a psychiatrist told me that it was impossible for me to hear through the walls and yet I am extremely convinced 😭
If this is real I feel that my last pleasure which is also my way to counter my survival instinct is not possible. At the same time... Most of the time they think I'm a cop 😂 I'll probably have to go through someone else to get what I need.
I also hesitate a lot to write what I live or what I really think because I believe that people know who I am here. At the same time I don't care a bit since I plan to change my strata soon. Fortunately I now have access to the sanctuary, which will allow me to still make a goodbye message with at least 3 months in advance of possible readings. But what will happen beyond that for some of my relatives? I don't know. I do care, but it will be beyond my influence.
I don't know, I mostly feel bad about the people that what I wrote could affect.

Child  s suicide by thatonegirludontknow d2z3449 3396086889
 
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Electra

Electra

The relief of giving in to destruction
Jul 1, 2024
522
Unsure. Some longing, a little bit apprenhensive, some anxiety. Waiting to complete the list.
 
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LostLily

LostLily

Why do I exist?
Nov 18, 2024
558
Hopeless,
I'm already at max dosage for my anti-dosage and my doctor can't up it any further.
 
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CTB Dream

CTB Dream

Injury damage disabl hard talk no argu make fun et
Sep 17, 2022
2,782
this rly awfl me no slf no any need euthnas
 
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Raven o(T□T)o

Raven o(T□T)o

New Member
Aug 17, 2024
3
My deterioration:

Troubles follow; they cling, they stay,
No matter the path, they find their way.
Control slips like sand through my hands,
A silent witness to life's demands.

You reap what you sow, the whispers say,
But what of the seeds cast astray?
Do they grow wild, beyond my view,
Or am I bound to this endless hue?

The scales are tipping, and the payment is due.
My life's out of balance, and I'm paying the price, too.
Voices scream, "End it!"
No, I scream back, "Stop!"
Pleading for silence, for the voices to slack.
But I'm sinking deeper, into this tar-black night...
Drowning, pleading, asking, should I let go?


Written by Rave
 
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render

render

how to say goodbye and mean it
Sep 3, 2024
76
sometimes i read old messages and it hurts more than any razor blade or hunger pang or ice cube ever could
 
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Electra

Electra

The relief of giving in to destruction
Jul 1, 2024
522
There's some lingering anxiety, a sense of anticipation, and a slight deviation toward breaking out of the routine.
 
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Sockeye Salmon

Sockeye Salmon

Student
Mar 28, 2018
133
I almost felt better today but then I saw someone far younger than me who accomplished far more things in their spare time than I did 5 years of college and I remembered that i wanted to kill myself again
 
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EvisceratedJester

EvisceratedJester

|| What Else Could I Be But a Jester ||
Oct 21, 2023
4,723
Well, I'm feeling good because somehow I actually did alright in my courses. I also somehow got an A- in cognitive neuroscience, which was surprising (the course is fun but it's also a pain in the ass). Looks like my ability to absorb as much information as possible during my last minute study sessions and bullshit my way through exams is starting to pay off.
 
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grungy自殺

grungy自殺

The hell is this?
Jan 9, 2024
149
despise life, can't be alright, happy, friends are barely worth reaching out.....

Hate shit
 
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CTB Dream

CTB Dream

Injury damage disabl hard talk no argu make fun et
Sep 17, 2022
2,782
this lif all awfl me pain sffr injury damage nobod knw nobod care this lif all nonsns
 
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Sockeye Salmon

Sockeye Salmon

Student
Mar 28, 2018
133
I feel like a drug addict without the drugs, if that makes any sense
 
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crayonscrayons

crayonscrayons

Member
Nov 14, 2024
44
i'm afraid of every little bit of motivation I feel
I don't trust it, I'm afraid it's pathological
it's driving me crazy, I shouldn't worry so much about it, because then I truly go insane and I don't get anything done
if I feel motiation to do something, anything, I should just go on with it.
im still afraid, but I just do it anyway. little things, like washing my face, or house cleaning. I shouldn't be afraid.
when I was less aware, I thought every feeling was for real. now, I think every feeling is for fake.

idc. I should just stop posting online, I feel rlly annoying. I should just read books, bc I haven't read enough. be a nomad for a while.
 
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madscotsman

madscotsman

Member
Nov 11, 2024
52
Pissed off, I'm pissed at these same four fuckin walls, the monotomy, im sick of this torment in my head, I'm sick of this stagnant bullshit, wasting away and smoking myself to death in a shithole apartment
 
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Electra

Electra

The relief of giving in to destruction
Jul 1, 2024
522
I feel hopeful that I can break through perfectionism and stop making every little thing a huge deal.
 
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Sockeye Salmon

Sockeye Salmon

Student
Mar 28, 2018
133
Just woke up. Haven't even gotten the chance to open my eyes fully yet and my day is already ruined and already feeling pissed off.
 
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0bsolete

0bsolete

Member
Sep 3, 2024
25
Obtained an Antiemetic today. First tried online but got refunded. Tried booking a doctor's appointment where I complained about headaches and nausea. Doctor looked over my medical history, I saw it flash up on the screen about how I have a plan to take my life. Not sure if he knew what I was angling for, but annoyingly he prescribed me Mirtazapine. He said nausea could be because of my anxiety. Said taking this would cause my anxiety to get better and then I wouldn't be nauseous. Thought I'd better get the prescription so as not to raise suspicion, annoying waste of money.

Eventually I just walked into boots, and said can I have some Buccastem M (Prochlorperazine) please. She asked me what it was for. I said I've been having a migraine and it's been making me feel sick. I lied and said I've booked a doctor appointment for the migraine but it's not until after Christmas and I don't want to feel nauseous over the holidays. I thought there might be more pushback from her or she would investigate my medical history, but she just bagged it up, I paid and left.

Feels a bit scary that I now have everything I need. In an ideal world I'd have a sedative, but I don't think it's possible in the UK. Although I've not properly looked into it yet…might be what I do tonight.

Considering a date of 31st / 1st. There's a ten-mile woodland circuit where me and my sister used to run around separately and time ourselves, when she used to live nearby. It was fun gloating about beating her time to only be beaten a few days later, it was a fun challenge! At the time I was trying to loose weight, so I think she was being sweet and keeping my motivation going by only slightly beating me each time. Think I'll go there in the early hours of the morning, walk half way around, go off trail and follow the comprehensive SN guide.

Although still having doubts. Part of me says "things could get better!" but then I've been hearing that part for a year now and I feel I'm in a worse position both physically and mentally since my attempt in May. I don't think things can get better, but that doubt remains, could just be survival instinct? Just feeling so tired and defeated.
 
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TheHolySword

TheHolySword

empty heart
Nov 22, 2024
1,083
I'm just sorry. I'm so sorry. to everyone I've hurt to get here. everyone I've pushed away because I thought I was soaring them the final pain. I'm sorry to everyone I'm going to devastate when it happens. I'm sorry this is who I am, I'm sorry this is what my life has become. I'm just. sorry. please forgive me.
 
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Promised Heaven

Promised Heaven

Eternally atoning
Feb 1, 2024
675
Christmas Eve is tomorrow. I genuinely want to be happy or at least prepared. I've been too swamped with work. I'm so tired to hype myself. I have a shift in an hour. I want to go back to sleep.
 
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Electra

Electra

The relief of giving in to destruction
Jul 1, 2024
522
I'm a little exhausted, and I can feel the energy levels slowly going down. Embracing full holiday spirit of doing nothing? Maybe. We'll see after the holidays I guess lol.
 
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CTB Dream

CTB Dream

Injury damage disabl hard talk no argu make fun et
Sep 17, 2022
2,782
this v sad see time mov mov noable doany
 
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gloomurai

gloomurai

"How Could I Have Changed?"
Dec 22, 2024
10
i dont know why i expect so much.. things go bad everytime i want to help myself. m=why do i feel awful when im "better"? why do i yearn for things that are unhealthy. I just want to say im sorry.
 
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kenma0

kenma0

𝔪𝔦𝔰𝔰𝔦𝔫𝔤 𝔶𝔬𝔲 𝔱𝔬 𝔡𝔢𝔞𝔱𝔥
Dec 22, 2024
39
i miss someone, but im starting to feel anger at them too. its weird. i feel betrayed and left behind, like our time together didnt matter to him. like he doesnt care what he did to me or how he treated me. i wish he knew how much i want to die because of him. i almost want to cbt just to make him feel a little ounce of regret for the treatment he gave me. i would never know if it would do anything, because id be dead lol, but if i end up a ghost, id haunt him. id ruin him. but i miss him and love him still. anyone else feel this? missing someone who destroyed you? its because of my self esteem. most people can move on pretty easily. people who love themselves, but im not one of those people. i love too hard. it sucks
i dont know why i expect so much.. things go bad everytime i want to help myself. m=why do i feel awful when im "better"? why do i yearn for things that are unhealthy. I just want to say im sorry.
i also yearn for unhealthy things. made me feel more than them being gone. why does this happen? who knows lol. sometimes i feel i dont deserve to feel "better" you know?
 
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fleetingnight

fleetingnight

incapable of shutting up
May 2, 2024
653
I hate coming in just to vent when I haven't been here/engaged with anyone's posts in a while...

...But, work has me so exhausted, I can barely do anything else.

If this is what it takes to survive, I don't think I want to.
 
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KrowaKovsky

KrowaKovsky

some varitation of hating it here
Feb 22, 2023
205
i called out of work today because i just couldn't do it today, mentally, and i also just couldn't make the walk because my crippled ass cant be normal. ofc i got plenty of "if you're feeling better later in the day you should come in! we really could use the help and your absence makes everything more compacted and stressful!" which made me feel worse about just not being able to mentally or physically today which makes everything fucking worse.

and here i am sitting at my computer just kind of rotting because i havent had time to myself for the last few months it feels, work till you drop i guess. i hate making other people suffer so i can have a break but considering i still work the rest of the week sans christmas day, i think they're going to be fine

i just want a break, i want to be able to come in, do my shit, then leave on time. im so tired of staying late because other people want to go home early, it's just a constant frustrating circle;

work > coworkers leave even though they arent done > end up staying late so things get done > get in trouble for staying late, repeat
or it's
work > coworkers leave even though they arent done > dont stay late & just leave at the time im supposed to > get in trouble
 
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