How do schools react?

[historiaegiptu]

Probably one of my worst fears is people at my school finding out. Im in art school and im part of lgbt so im the perfect combination of stereotypes. Ive heard about people making memes the last time someone killed themselves and i know i would become the joke of the year. Is there a way to make sure people wouldn't find out? Im not sure how it works in different countries but in my experience the staff really doesn't care about privacy. When i switched middle schools the teacher informed my (soon to be) class that my mother died of cancer. I didnt find out that everyone knows for at least a year and i still dont get why she did it and why she thought it was a great idea. Im scared the same thing will happen again. Im planning on doing it at the end of summer holidays so maybe that will help but Idk. I really dont want to put the responsibility of talking to my teachers on one of my classmates. I do have my supervising teacher and the school school psychologist messenger so im thinking of sending them a message. If anyone experienced a suicide death at their school please tell me how that looked like.

 

[Jadeith]

Is there a way to make sure people wouldn't find out?

No. Once you die, any private information about you or your family is out of your control. So, if even one person suspects anything, the rest will quickly if not straight up find out then at least make up relevant story.
The only consolation available is fact that you won't know about it and you won't face consequences of leaked information because you will be dead. Unless of course you fail one way or another. But then you will face the backlash for trying, not for actually dying. Different type of consequences.

 

[CrawlingInMySkin]

No. Once you die, any private information about you or your family is out of your control. So, if even one person suspects anything, the rest will quickly if not straight up find out then at least make up relevant story.
The only consolation available is fact that you won't know about it and you won't face consequences of leaked information because you will be dead. Unless of course you fail one way or another. But then you will face the backlash for trying, not for actually dying. Different type of consequences.

Aye, this one's right. In my experiences, there was a presentation they showed the seventh graders at my ms, about a high schooler who ctb'd. Wasn't there for it, so I don't know how they portrayed the information, or how long ago it was, but even if they don't do something like that, m8, the rumors... The rumors will start, no matter what you do. Doing it in the summer months might help though. Good thinking mate.