If there is a God, I would think he would frown upon CTB. Put yourself in his shoes. He gives us the greatest possible gifts, that of self-awareness, life, and free will, and we just piss it away. Imagine buying your kid a cherry red Ferrari Testarossa and he took a sledge hammer to it. How would you feel about that? Would you just say, Oh well, it's your choice!
Put yourself in his shoes: seriously? He lets babies be born with horrible birth-defects who die soon after birth or worse live on to lead agonizing lives, millions of people die of diseases and other natural causes each year and you think there is a god and he actually cares about us?
You can't have it both ways: you can't claim free will exists and then allow for punishment for those exercising their free will. The very ideas of a god and free will are contradictory: if a deity made us and knows everything we will do then our will can't exactly be free, can it?
Life, self-awareness and (supposed) free will aren't gifts but curses. Being alive means you're subjected to suffering and death (your own and others you love), self-awareness means mental suffering (realizing one's own inadequacy and how vulnerable one is aswell as the fact that one is going to die someday which usually provokes anxiety) and free will (assuming it indeed exists) is a terrible burden that forces one to make choices with potentially very heavy repercutions. "We are condemned to freedom" as Sartre put it. There's a good case to be made that animals suffer less than we do and for the very absence of self-awareness and 'free will'.
If you really believe suicide is a crime against god what are you doing here? Shouldn't you be in a church praying for god's redemption and salvation from the evil temptation of suicide? If your goal is to convert people and steer them away from suicide at least be honest about it. First you pretend to doubt then you talk as if you actually know what god is, wants and expects us to do. You clearly are a believer on a mission.
This really is the cherry on the cake: "Would you just say, Oh well, It's your choice!" How effing condescending can you be? Thanks for the warning, truly. Also a nice parody on the pro choice stance on this forum.
The whole gift analogy is a classic religious argument against suicide. Regardless of whether there is a god it's clear that it's faulty: a gift that comes with strings attached isn't a gift. If one gives something away legally that means transfer of ownership meaning it's no longer the giver's business what the receiving party does with it. A gift you can't throw away or destroy without serious repercutions is most certainly not a gift but something that was merely borrowed.
Life isn't a gift, it's an imposition. It was forced upon us: there never was a choice to make about whether we wanted it or not.
A religious pro-lifer who pretends to be pro choice but warns us of the terrible consequences of suicide (god!): priceless.
According to you suicide is pissing away god's great gifts of life, self-awareness and free will (what a refreshing breeze of optimism: life is swell! pro life all the way!): classic religious condemnation of suicide not to mention supremely insulting to those who completed CTB (such dummies for throwing away such wonderful gifts). You are a troll. Go worship your hero on the cross somewhere else (ironically a 'suicide by cop/the justice system').
"Life without suffering would be hell": lmao. Factually this is a meaningless statement as there is no way to know what it would be like. More importantly the attitude that this is an expression of is again condescending: if you had actually suffered gravely you wouldn't be spouting such nonsense. People who are genuinly suicidal aren't so glib about suffering. You actually have the gall to claim suffering is a gift aswell (post nr. 35 in this thread)... Implying people should be grateful for their mental and physical afflictions. On this forum where there is so much suffering that people frequently take the only route open to them...
I'm having trouble not to swear at you right now. The supreme, cold-hearted arrogance... Your attitude is worse than shitty. Revel in your own masochism all you like but leave others out of it.
In a thread you started you made the following remarks: "The talk of how easy it is to CTB is leading me to believe that's the easy way out. Death is going to come for each of us soon enough with no help from ourselves. These dark thoughts are a vicious circle. I get depressed and think there's no way out but death, then wish to die, then get more depressed. I have just gotten deeper and deeper into despair. But when I step back and look at my situation, it's not as bad as it feels. It's bad, but people have suffered worse than me. I need to quit feeling sorry for myself and stop being afraid. ... Get up and fight dammit. Quit being a coward and fight. " ( https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/i-want-to-live.16775/#post-321119 )
Suicide is easy (I'ver never read that here btw), it's the easy way out, death will come anyway, some have it worse, there are reasons to live, dark thoughts are a vicious cycle, depression takes away one's ability to see clearly, get up and fight, suicide results from (temporary) despair...
Google 'suicide' and this is the sort of prevention tripe you'll find.
In that same post you claim you suddely saw the light after a few days on this forum. Yet you hung around, apparantly to teach us about the lord and the spiritual dangers of suicide aswell as the benefits of suffering. You joined very recently so after the whole media circus. In the thread I mentioned you offer 'help where I can. Sometimes we all just want to be heard and understood, and that's all that it takes' (yeah all that is needed to solve our problems is a good talk: that's all it takes to make everything go away, isn't it?). You started an 'honesty thread' (group therapy children: you actually called it 'therapeutic' btw and of course 'honesty' is a big buzzword in psychotherapy/the mental health system). Now this religious preaching and barely contained glee at the supposed fate of suicides.
It all adds up, doesn't it? Not_a_robot, Soul, Alchemist, LMAO Fockers and Spanishguy22 (see their comments in that thread) were right. I can't believe I actually fell for your Spiel.
You all heard it from the master's own lips so to speak: life is a Ferrari so go have a blast!