Yeah, I never really learned how to form social connections either. I think that goes for a lot of us on here. Incels go down the route of bitter and obsessive fixation with that issue, and I get that, because I experience it myself, but I also recognize that the approach is unhealthy.
OP seems particularly fixated on posting these sorts of questions. If you're actually good-looking, and can chat women up, why bother posting here???
My impression is that Chad is a more mainstream term now, compared to Stacy, although a lot of the terminology from the incelosphere has made it into mainstream discourse.