''Some advise''

[Max1714]

I feel like my family doesn't care about me. I have no friends, no life, no purpose, and no reason. I feel like shit every day of my life. Can someone say they care about me? Maybe some advice? Or at least that someone understands what I'm feeling." please i need something

 

[xeno112007]

One advice I can tell is: think of ctb. You believe you can exit pain by committing ctb. This shows you have some control over your life. So it's not completely hopeless there is some of your life you can control. So don't worry about it. You still have control. If you have some control over life change your life to something you like.

 

[Dingusguy]

I think you'll find a lot of people on here can reciprocate those feelings, you're with likeminded people here who won't judge you

I also think most of us do care about each other on here, at least I do. And that includes you

 

[omenalready]

we care about you, if you want to talk or just have someone to ask stuff on a daily basis you can always dm me, as long as i haven't found SN or N i'll be there for u

 

[morina]

I don't have advice, but I care about people here. I don't know any people here personally, neither you nor anyone else, but you have to have had a really shitty life to even end up here, which is more than enough reason for me to be empathetic.
And I understand what you are feeling, I feel the same things you are describing. If you (or anyone else reading this; hi!) want to talk, my DMs are open, though I am probably a boring conversation partner.

 

[Max1714]

You're all wonderful people.

 

[Kanau_Nano]

I have no friends either. I feel the same exact way as you pretty much, I really do understand. I care. I wish you didn't have to feel this way, no one deserves it. I truly hope you can feel better one day.

 

[JesiBel]

I see you're very young. First of all, please don't make any drastic decisions as a first option, or you'll find yourself in a vicious cycle of self-destruction. Don't harm yourself or fall into bad habits.

I think the hardest thing in life is loving yourself. When you achieve that, you no longer depend on the validation or affection of others.

Focus on yourself. You still have to discover yourself; your adult life and facing the real world are just beginning. Now, you create your own path. Forget about everyone else and think about yourself, your situation, and what you would like to do.

You are important and capable, take it slow, think calmly, and don't despair. A "perfect life", being loved by everyone and without problems, does not exist. It's all just appearances (generated and influenced by the media), don't fool yourself.

Don't do things to please others; never lose sight of who you are. Set achievable goals to start with, compete against yourself. You can't compare yourself to others because their lives and opportunities are different from yours, and it will only lead to frustration.

You haven't done anything wrong, and it's not your fault if others don't care about you. Society today is quite cold and lacks empathy. Most people seem like soulless or pre-programmed robots.

Don't let yourself be consumed by dark emotions or thoughts, CTB should never be your first option.

Perhaps you could visit the "Recovery" subforum. It's a more positive place, and the users are doing their best to get through this.

 

[Lextyle]

I see you're very young. First of all, please don't make any drastic decisions as a first option, or you'll find yourself in a vicious cycle of self-destruction. Don't harm yourself or fall into bad habits.

I think the hardest thing in life is loving yourself. When you achieve that, you no longer depend on the validation or affection of others.

Focus on yourself. You still have to discover yourself; your adult life and facing the real world are just beginning. Now, you create your own path. Forget about everyone else and think about yourself, your situation, and what you would like to do.

You are important and capable, take it slow, think calmly, and don't despair. A "perfect life", being loved by everyone and without problems, does not exist. It's all just appearances (generated and influenced by the media), don't fool yourself.

Don't do things to please others; never lose sight of who you are. Set achievable goals to start with, compete against yourself. You can't compare yourself to others because their lives and opportunities are different from yours, and it will only lead to frustration.

You haven't done anything wrong, and it's not your fault if others don't care about you. Society today is quite cold and lacks empathy. Most people seem like soulless or pre-programmed robots.

Don't let yourself be consumed by dark emotions or thoughts, CTB should never be your first option.

Perhaps you could visit the "Recovery" subforum. It's a more positive place, and the users are doing their best to get through this.

Sorry, but how do you know that OP is young? Caring about family is a sign of being "very young"? If OP said their age then sorry for this reply

 

[Burning_soul]

Sorry, but how do you know that OP is young? Caring about family is a sign of being "very young"? If OP said their age then sorry for this reply

Their profile says they are 18

 

[SoverignDreamer97]

"You can't please everyone; control the things you can control," Suncha says, for people are grass.

And as the grass withers, the flowers fade, the word of our God stands forever. (Isaiah 40:7-8)

 

[Lextyle]

Their profile says they are 18

Ah ok, nevermind then

 

[HeyBoogahJr]

I feel like my family doesn't care about me. I have no friends, no life, no purpose, and no reason. I feel like shit every day of my life. Can someone say they care about me? Maybe some advice? Or at least that someone understands what I'm feeling." please i need something

I'm sorry to hear this is how life has been feeling for you. With your family, and not having friends or a purpose in life. You deserve to feel cared about and loved.

I hear how desperate you feel and I truly wish that none of us ever have to feel like that. I'm glad you could come on today and talk about how you've been feeling, that takes courage.

If I had to say anything for advice it would be all the ways I learned how we might be depressed in a cool book I read.

Whether you feeling lonely and not have someone who can be with you.

You don't have a purpose that feels fulfilling or like you have control over it.

How much time you spend outdoors in nature.

Whether you have values that matter to you, instead of trying to fill the void with meaningless garbage.

Whether you can lift the burden on your shoulders if you talked to someone else about all that your feeling and the bad things happening to you and have happened.

Im here if you want to talk more about you feeling. I'll always be here to listen. :)

I have to live life, I hate the moments where no one can hold me, I wish for death often. I goto college, I goto hobby groups, I goto therapy groups, I go on walks, I try to grow and change, I talk to chatgpt about my feelings and how I can continue growing, there's sadly no easy way out and I'm drifting along until I finally have that big bad day and it stops or I finally meet the person or have a reason to live.

 

[Aflame5926]

Also is it actually a fact that family doesn't really care or you feel that they don't care?
this difference is is huge

Also based on your first post.
i agree on what @JesiBel said prior. CTB is for now not a step for you.
what you need is to find a group that can help and support. you asking for help not to CTB

i don't know if you had prior help or not but if you haven't maybe its time to try it or atleast with GP so you can get a referal.
probally the recovery guys might be even better then a therapist ngl

 

[PanaxMan]

I feel like my family doesn't care about me. I have no friends, no life, no purpose, and no reason. I feel like shit every day of my life. Can someone say they care about me? Maybe some advice? Or at least that someone understands what I'm feeling." please i need something

I'm in a similar boat to you as well. I've been homeless for a few days now and it's been a real shocker towards my younger self towards the way society has been driven so weirdly throughout my short life.

 

[Max1714]

Also is it actually a fact that family doesn't really care or you feel that they don't care?
this difference is is huge

They are not mentally capable of caring. There was a time when some adults made a joke implying that I should jump off a rail into a sinkhole, and my mum did nothing, even though she was right next to them. She didn't even talk to me afterward or give me any advice. All of my family know how I feel, yet they choose not to do anything. Like I said, they are not mentally there. This is a fact, not an assumption.