Sex before you ctb?

[TiredHorse]

I should've just left it as the last person I made love with in this world being the love of my life, not some meaningless hookup.

Wow. Yes. Amen.

 

[sadak_the_wanderer]

It's not an option for me. It has been many, many years since I was with anyone. It's one of the reasons why I am so despondent, though not the largest. It would be nice to have someone validate my existence, however briefly, by wanting me, but that's been put aside, like becoming an astronaut, as the dreams of a child.

 

[TiredHorse]

It would be nice to have someone validate my existence, however briefly, by wanting me, but that's been put aside, like becoming an astronaut, as the dreams of a child.

Ouch. Wow. Yes. You sure said that well.

 

[Fyrinne]

I wish I could have that kind of intimacy just to stave off the emptiness, the loneliness in the meantime.

I miss the feeling of looking into someone's eyes and staring into their soul. The passion of kissing them and losing myself in their lips, their warmth. I wish I could make someone feel that magic, that connection... I'd give anything for that feeling again...

 

[BlackpillAsshat]

I'm planning to have a threesome with 2 hookers before I die. Always wanted to know what a threesome's like.

 

[Dwellinglifeless]

Sex has always been... for others enjoyment, ..not my own.
I just, don't really care.

Sounds like you may be asexual

 

[Final Escape]

Most likely :)

 

[furax53]

it would be a pleasure to do before ctb but I do not have the strength

 

[Bart]

i don't feel like that anymore.

 

[Dwellinglifeless]

I lost my partner almost a year ago to the day now doimg one of the worst things I have ever done, if not the worst. (Not infidelity) and I have honestly lost all my desire to perform anymore. I have had three long term relationships, and a dozen other sexual partners in my life and done a lot of other experimentation with other things without graphic detail so I guess I'm not as bad as others on here apparently, but honestly the act and desire have dwindled. At times I feel like I may be asexual, but I feel extremely intense romantic feelings. I honestly have not gone a day without thinking of her since it happened, I cannot really bring myself to be with anyone anymore. I feel like as a society we put entirely too much on our sex lives. The current state of feminism is also putting a massive damper on many young men who are juat simply following perfectly normal urges. But that is a whole other topic in of itself.

 

[Shewaitsforme]

Ive been with 3 people since my partner died in May just to try feel something normal. None of them were enjoyable, just kept thinking of her and even now ill be sitting watching tv and a memory of us having sex pops into my head. Seeing sex on TV makes me upset most the time, sometimes makes me cry. I have no desire to try with anyone else now, intimacy just doesnt feel the same

 

[ReadyasEver]

I'm on the fence about this, I've been around awhile and a father of 2, married over 26 years, so it would be great and at the same time I have had a ton of great moments with my wife already.

 

[Crest33]

I will die a virgin. *sad face*

I could spent big money on someone. But don't know i I cloud do it and it might give me second thoughts about ctb.

 

[Xaphous]

Dateless virgin here so no chance for that.

 

[MAIO]

Sex is one of those things i still get some joy out of in life. Anyone plan on getting some before you ctb?

Idk I have like 6 girls on my phone who would. I don't really like any of them enough though. I mean I could also convince one of my friends who is super hot but she is married so I am not going to.

 

[bigj75]

Idk I have like 6 girls on my phone who would. I don't really like any of them enough though. I mean I could also convince one of my friends who is super hot but she is married so I am not going to.

most people wouldn't care but it's good you do.

 

[MAIO]

As someone who had sex. It's not that great. I know it's a strong desire of some people though. And I had the same desire to experience it at least once before I lost my virginity. Which actually didn't happen that long ago. I know many members here experienced a lot of rejection, which is one of their reasons to leave. And I understand that and I hope you find a chance to fulfill your desires. But I personally think sex is overrated.

I disagree. Sex is pretty great if you are in love.

 

[Fyrinne]

As someone who had sex. It's not that great. I know it's a strong desire of some people though. And I had the same desire to experience it at least once before I lost my virginity. Which actually didn't happen that long ago. I know many members here experienced a lot of rejection, which is one of their reasons to leave. And I understand that and I hope you find a chance to fulfill your desires. But I personally think sex is overrated.

I disagree. Sex is pretty great if you are in love.

Sex is great with the right partner, doesn't necessarily need to be romantic. You just need someone who cares, and is attentive to your desires, and you have to be receptive in return.

One of the most important keys to sex, is that you're there for the other person's pleasure, and they are there for yours. If you're only in it for yourself, you're just masturbating with someone else's genitalia.

 

[MsM3talGamer]

Only if Thor happens to come knocking on my door.

 

[Eily]

I never had sex with someone just for fun, so if I did, it would be someone I cared about deeply so my emotions would interfere with me wanting to ctb. If anything, I'd eat like a pig! With all my favorite foods and drinks. Play some games I like non-stop for a bit then ctb.

 

[Jiva]

I don't understand this post. Sex before CTB? I will have absolutely different thoughts (will be nervous, scared, sad). Absolutely i will not be horny. Sorry.

 

[therhydler]

I don't understand this post. Sex before CTB? I will have absolutely different thoughts (will be nervous, scared, sad). Absolutely i will not be horny. Sorry.

Exactly :/

 

[therhydler]

The only person I would want to have sex with is probably right now having sex with someone else, so, no

 

[Jiva]

The only person I would want to have sex with is probably right now having sex with someone else, so, no

It make me sad. Hugs.

 

[therhydler]

It make me sad. Hugs.

Thank you

 

[wishfulthinking]

Nope.

 

[Kitsunefox]

Forget the sex, Hell I wouldn't mind if a woman just said hello to me or a simple touch. Already tried a hooker, it didn't turn out as I thought it would be but all well. Guess I'll die a virgin.

Hello ;)

 

[Sasha]

And then there's me who'll die virgin.

 

[Philip]

And then there's me who'll die virgin.

 

[TooLate2582]

And then there's me who'll die virgin.

By choice?