HELP!!!

[Enigmatic Sailor]

Uuuuuuhhhh why would you kill yourself? Life is a blessing and should be cherished. I recommend working out, eating healthy, getting enough sleep, taking vitamins and supplements, and taking excellent hygiene measures. Think of your life as if you're living in a snowglobe and if that snowglobe shatters; you can always find the real snow just outside, unless you live in Africa or something.

 

[Dot]

Never kill yourself while you're in a bad mood. It's an important decision and must be made with clear head.
So, just hang on and see what you think when the storm passes. Storms always pass.
Edit- I didn't realize this was humor. I was honestly just trying to help.

Is gd suggstn thgh.

 

[Anxieyote]

Have you tried taking a walk?? Just take a minute to go outside and walk around for 10 minutes, I promise you, you'll feel SO much better afterwards.

I was suicidal too, but after I went on a walk, it changed everything and my depression was completely gone forever!

 

[Rogue Proxy]

Take your pick. . .

 

[LADY007]

One small, but powerful tool I use is favorite music to calm down. It doesn't solve the problem, but it raises endorphins right where you are and they help.

Especially the positive 60 and 70's music ...Ambrosia, Earth. Wind and Fire, George Benson....uplifting!

 

[cambrai33]

Would you lighten up already? Don't you get that this type of humor is one of the few things keeping some of the people on here alive?



You know, that's quite an obnoxious thing to say to a survivor of incest who suffers from C-PTSD. Has your fucking father ever raped you as a child? Are you really accusing me of faking my suffering & joining this forum just to sabotage compassionate people?

Oh so we are playing the who has suffered the worst here now. You started the thread belittling anyone who reaches out to help. Not sure I said anywhere you were faking but you did post to get a reaction.

I don't invalidate anyones suffering especially yours which sounds horrific but I do wonder why helping people is so frowned upon, yes nothing might work for you but it might work for someone else, but you of course know that.

 

[motel rooms]

You just need to try the keto diet

Preach, girlfriend. An all-meat diet saved my life! #GayMeatSaves

 

[LADY007]

Take your pick. . .
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Oh right....it is the cowards way out until the person saying that ends up paralyzed or in pain for life...then they want to cbt.

 

[InezSerrano]

LISTEN HERE: your body is not you! you think that it is you? why? because you gain sensory data from that location in space? it is not, let go. this is all a nasty trick. accept complete detachment and you will become enlightened and absolutely fulfilled. you are the universe, you are god. do not let them lie to you. suicide is letting them win.

 

[cambrai33]

cuz hes likely one of the fuckos who drops lines like the ones in this thread on ppl

Go search my posts for those lines, I'm sure you will come up with loads of them, or maybe you won't….

It's called sarcasm. See? Even us suicidal people can have a sense of humor unlike yourself. Why so serious?

I have no emotion at all.

 

[avoid_slow_death]

I have no emotion at all.

If this is a truism, then why bother replying to mine or anyone else's posts In a defensive manner? Those without emotion cannot be reactionary because, well, to reply is to imply you give a fuck.

 

[demuic]

Oh so we are playing the who has suffered the worst here now. You started the thread belittling anyone who reaches out to help. Not sure I said anywhere you were faking but you did post to get a reaction.

I don't invalidate anyones suffering especially yours which sounds horrific but I do wonder why helping people is so frowned upon, yes nothing might work for you but it might work for someone else, but you of course know that.

Who is truly being helped by someone posting some platitudes on a suicide forum? No one's life is really going to be changed suddenly after hearing "it might get better, don't give up!!" or whatever. I assume most people here are suffering from problems that can't be solved by someone deciding to post some positivity thread, even if they mean well.

This isn't "help". It's emotional comfort at best, if actually genuine, sincere, and offered without condescension or expectation, and I and I think most people don't have a problem with things like that. But at worst, it's useless and aggravating.

This kind of "help" is offered to anyone expressing any kind of suicidal intent aggressively and constantly, without any concern for whether it is wanted or whether a particular individual will actually be benefited by it in reality, beyond fleeting feelings of well wishes.

As @hotelbeneathground has said, concrete help is what actually matters.

 

[cambrai33]

If this is a truism, then why bother replying to mine or anyone else's posts I a defensive manner? Those without emotion cannot be reactionary because, well, to reply is to imply you give a fuck.

Well I give a fuck about others just not myself. I believe in the point that whilst many don't want/cant be helped that some might be.

 

[Bedrock48]

Have you perhaps had a cup of tea and a warm bath?

 

[avoid_slow_death]

Well I give a fuck about others just not myself. I believe in the point that whilst many don't want/cant be helped that some might be.

Help me here. I am confused. I said in a defensive and reactionary manner. Which means that you are defending your viewpoint, which you state you care about, therefore you DO care about yourself. At least in the matter of defending your beliefs. A person who truly doesn't care about themselves could care less what I or anyone else thinks about anything they say or do. They are not reactionary in the least because it simply doesn't matter.

Have you perhaps had a cup of tea and a warm bath?

With or without bubbles? Bubbles help the blues.

 

[cambrai33]

Who is truly being helped by someone posting some platitudes on a suicide forum? No one's life is really going to be changed suddenly after hearing "it might get better, don't give up!!" or whatever. I assume most people here are suffering from problems that can't be solved by someone deciding to post some positivity thread, even if they mean well.

This isn't "help". It's emotional comfort at best, if actually genuine, sincere, and offered without condescension or expectation, and I and I think most people don't have a problem with things like that. But at worst, it's useless and aggravating.

This kind of "help" is offered to anyone expressing any kind of suicidal intent aggressively and constantly, without any concern for whether it is wanted or whether a particular individual will actually be benefited by it in reality, beyond fleeting feelings of well wishes.

As @hotelbeneathground has said, concrete help is what actually matters.

Fine, if you truly believe people can't be helped then you have a right to that opinion. I believe people have a right to choice be it ctb or otherwise.

Platitudes are annoying but offering to listen isn't imo, sometimes this is the only place people think they can be heard out.

Im not sure where I have seen this kind of help aggressively applied to anyone but appreciate you have been here longer than me

 

[Dot]

Well I give a fuck about others just not myself. I believe in the point that whilst many don't want/cant be helped that some might be.

Agree wth th imprtnce of hlping ppl.

Thnk sm of us wh repld 2 thrd - slf includd - r jst usng 2 vent/ mke humr frm frustratn of b-ing Cn as ppl wh r nt mture/capble enuf 2 knw our own mnds & chces & wh r infantilsd 4 feelng th wy w/ do. Thts hw hv viewd thrd n.e.wy.

Also possblity of nw membrs b-ing pro-lifrs 2 cm in & sve evry1 aftr C-ing n.y.t. artcle.

 

[cambrai33]

Help me here. I am confused. I said in a defensive and reactionary manner. Which means that you are defending your viewpoint, which you state you care about, therefore you DO care about yourself. At least in the matter of defending your beliefs. A person who truly doesn't care about themselves could care less what I or anyone else thinks about anything they say or do. They are not reactionary in the least because it simply doesn't matter.

With or without bubbles? Bubbles help the blues.

Ok so you are trying to invalidate me….

No I care about others not myself. I can defend a viewpoint without having emotion, it's argument counter argument.

You only look at this through the prism of your own life and experiences so I understand it might be difficult for you to understand

 

[Bedrock48]

With or without bubbles? Bubbles help the blues.

Bubbles all the way, you see if you go no bubbles a sad clown materialises and curses you with eternal depression. An easy mistake to make

 

[cambrai33]

Agree wth th imprtnce of hlping ppl.

Thnk sm of us wh repld 2 thrd - slf includd - r jst usng 2 vent/ mke humr frm frustratn of b-ing Cn as ppl wh r nt mture/capble enuf 2 knw our own mnds & chces & wh r infantilsd 4 feelng th wy w/ do. Thts hw hv viewd thrd n.e.wy.

Also possblity of nw membrs b-ing pro-lifrs 2 cm in & sve evry1 aftr C-ing n.y.t. artcle.

Thanks, that's the only point I was trying to make.

Its just turned into a punchbag exercise now, but as long as it's directed at me then at least someone else isn't on the end of it

 

[avoid_slow_death]

Ok so you are trying to invalidate me….

No I care about others not myself. I can defend a viewpoint without having emotion, it's argument counter argument.

You only look at this through the prism of your own life and experiences so I understand it might be difficult for you to understand

No, I care as well. In fact, I have helped numerous people over a span of decades. Not saying people shouldn't, simply saying your statements contradict one another and are not only condescending, but hypocritical as well.

Look, I don't know you and you don't know me. But attacking me initially for simply making a sardonic statement to alleviate the pressures I face in life is not helpful in the least. To either of us. So please, do us both a favor and choose a side.

 

[cambrai33]

cuz hes likely one of the fuckos who drops lines like the ones in this thread on ppl

This fucko is still waiting……

No, I care as well. In fact, I have helped numerous people over a span of decades. Not saying people shouldn't, simply saying your statements contradict one another and are not only condescending, but hypocritical as well.

Look, I don't know you and you don't know me. But attacking me initially for simply making a sardonic statement to alleviate the pressures I face in life is not helpful in the least. To either of us. So please, do us both a favor and choose a side.

Fair enough, we both have a right to an opinion, it doesn't need to be the same otherwise we just sit in our own echo chamber

I don't know what the sides are here but I will continue to choose my own path

Pressures in life are pretty grim for all of us, perhaps I just wish others don't have to share my ultimate fate and if they have another viable option they might take it.

I wish you no ill feeling

 

[Untetheredwill]

LISTEN HERE: your body is not you! you think that it is you? why? because you gain sensory data from that location in space? it is not, let go. this is all a nasty trick. accept complete detachment and you will become enlightened and absolutely fulfilled. you are the universe, you are god. do not let them lie to you. suicide is letting them win.

Leo Gura is that you

 

[Suicidebydeath]

But your death hurts my feelings! Please endure more torture for me! <333

 

[Rogue Proxy]

 

[viniboi9]

Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass it's about learning to dance in the rain

 

[Geturdone]

Would you lighten up already? Don't you get that this type of humor is one of the few things keeping some of the people on here alive?



You know, that's quite an obnoxious thing to say to a survivor of incest who suffers from C-PTSD. Has your fucking father ever raped you as a child? Are you really accusing me of faking my suffering & joining this forum just to sabotage compassionate people?

A bit of self a disclosure from an old man who is making an emotionless and rational decision to buy a bus ticket. My biological father died when I was three. My mother remarried a fellow who was evil incarnate in my book. While he never sodomized me he did other things that were sexually inappropriate (isn't that always an understatement) and it had a tremendous impact on my development. I feel no need to go into more detail. Here's my point, in my short time here I've read a good number of your post that I thought were quite funny. I've enjoyed your humor and quick wit. Today, with this post of yours, I really wasn't sure, and still not, whether you were be sarcastic or making an honest plea. I have a similar characteristic with my dark, morbid sense of humor. My wife, even after 45+ years of marriage couldn't always tell if I was serious or joking. In my case, the problem was (is) I'm not always sure either. If I can ever offer you an ear or a hand please PM.

 

[viniboi9]

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[Rogue Proxy]

*Ahem!* It's the CIIIIIRCLLLLLE, the circle of LIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIFE!!!



Damn, can't reach the death note...

 

[motel rooms]

Oh so we are playing the who has suffered the worst here now.

I simply responded to your dismissive claim that I'm just fine = that I'm lying about having C-PTSD & hypersexuality disorder due to CSA. I am not just fine just because I happen to use humor as a coping mechanism. You can't see what goes on inside my head. You seem to be under the impression that I'm some obnoxious, carefree, psychopathic fuck when I'm actually anything but that.

Who wrote this? Am I misquoting you?

I think you personally are just fine but you do give off a vibe that helping others should be frowned upon and belittled if it doesn't fit the specific narrative of what you think is right.

To be honest why does people offering help bother you so much or do you enjoy the thrill of people ending things.

What led you to conclude that I possibly get off on people dying? Do you realize how ugly that insinuation is? Did I call you a sicko? I never even called you a pro-lifer.

Not sure I said anywhere you were faking but you did post to get a reaction.

You said it by stating that you think I'm just fine. I posted it to get a reaction... You obviously think I'm prostituting my life story to score cheap sympathy points, that I'm on SS to collect fucking likes & win popularity contests. You so have my number! I spend my days worrying that @GenesAndEnvironment will never ctb & that he'll always have a higher reaction score than me. The fact that the fucker has 6(!) solutions is eating me alive, dude.

but I do wonder why helping people is so frowned upon

Who is preventing you from helping people? Who? Who is stopping people from leaving this forum & joining a suicide site where no frowning of any kind is allowed, calling a helpline or starting therapy? Are SS members being held hostage by a death-worshipping Svengali? JFC.