Could you love an ugly person if their personality was appealing?

  • Of course, I can accept other peoples' flaws

    Votes: 53 39.3%
  • Hell no, I would literally rather kill myself than try to love an ugly person

    Votes: 7 5.2%
  • Maybe

    Votes: 37 27.4%
  • I would enthusiastically love an ugly person if they loved me back

    Votes: 27 20.0%
  • I could learn to love an uggo if their personality was lovable/compatible

    Votes: 33 24.4%
  • I would grudgingly accept an ugly partner, but never truly love them

    Votes: 6 4.4%
  • I do love ugly people, but only platonically

    Votes: 15 11.1%
  • I have loved many ugly people but they never love me back

    Votes: 10 7.4%

  • Total voters
    135
woxihuanni

woxihuanni

Illuminated
Aug 19, 2019
3,299
Once when I was very, very young I made the mistake of getting involved with an ugly. They were the ugliest piece of filth inside as well. I still feel dirty for it. Rarely I see someone so ugly as to remind me of them, and my skin crawls.
 
I’vehadenough

I’vehadenough

Elementalist
Sep 15, 2018
847
Elton John wasn't attractive andhe found love. Lots of it
 
stellabelle

stellabelle

ethereal
Dec 14, 2018
3,919
I'm actually quite impressed with the results of this poll. I checked off the first box.
I think there are a lot worse things in this world to be than "ugly" and it's all a matter of perspective anyway.
 
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Sweet emotion

Sweet emotion

Enlightened
Sep 14, 2019
1,325
Well let's be honest. The physical aspect of someone is what we all notice first. It's natural and there's nothing wrong with it. But when you get to know that person if they are ugly on the inside they become ugly on the outside. You don't even bother to look at them anymore because you're repulsed by then. Sometimes you'll meet someone who is average looking but their personality is so wonderful it makes you more physically attracted to them. And looks only last for so long. A lot of guys that j find attractive not people don't. I fell in love with Steven Tyler when I was 8 and I still think he and Joe zoerry are gorgeous. And then there is Jason Momoa. Damn that Lisa Bonet. Haha
 
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Heart of Ice

Chillin'
Sep 26, 2019
362
No one can. We are shallow creatures, after all.
 
CFLoser

CFLoser

I fcking hate myself
Dec 5, 2018
611
I can love another ugly person but I can't love the ugliest of them all.
 
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a.h

Specialist
Jun 19, 2019
356
I think that people can't love a person they think is ugly from inside or/and outside. But they can love a person who most people might see as ugly. If you love someone then he/she is never ugly but the most beautiful person in every way.

I have loved a person whose nearly all physical qualities are often seen as ugly/unwanted.
 
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