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hschaf

hschaf

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May 11, 2025
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How do I guarantee a closed casket funeral without barbarism? It's very important to me and I wouldn't really trust my family to respect my will
 
cemeteryismyhome

cemeteryismyhome

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Mar 15, 2025
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The only option I can imagine is making your own funeral arrangements, which unfortunately mean paying in advance. I did that, and was able to specify how I want things to go. I did it for my family so that all they will have to do is call the funeral people and they'll come, pick up my body, and handle everything. BUT... I guess my family could just decide not to call and to do everything their own way. That's the both weird and wonderful thing about being dead, for me. No longer a player in this world.
 
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bankai

bankai

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Mar 16, 2025
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you can leave a letter threatening them that you'll haunt them if they don't respect your wishes.
 
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polm

If I was your pet you’d take me to the vet
May 3, 2025
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Some kind of advanced directive with funeral home. They will close the casket before release. Unless burial is held you could opt for a simple cremation
 
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hschaf

hschaf

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May 11, 2025
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The only option I can imagine is making your own funeral arrangements, which unfortunately mean paying in advance. I did that, and was able to specify how I want things to go. I did it for my family so that all they will have to do is call the funeral people and they'll come, pick up my body, and handle everything. BUT... I guess my family could just decide not to call and to do everything their own way. That's the both weird and wonderful thing about being dead, for me. No longer a player in this world.
No good way to disfigure myself? Especially post-mortem, stupid as it sounds
 
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DoomCry

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Mar 5, 2025
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It's very hard! When you die you have no rights, you can only hope that your wishes are respected.
 
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