Can anyone hear Frank Sinatra?

[BPD_LE]

 

[pthnrdnojvsc]

Thank you all for your messages. I cannot deny that they touched me deeply.

I hope whatever the future brings to you, it is kinder and more gentle than what it is now.

Time to go now.

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Stan you did it your way.
Frank Sinatra My Way Lyrics:
[Verse 1]
And now, the end is near
And so I face the final curtain
My friend, I'll say it clear
I'll state my case, of which I'm certain
I've lived a life that's full
I traveled each and every highway
And more, much more than this
I did it my way
[Verse 2]
Regrets, I've had a few
But then again, too few to mention
I did what I had to do
And saw it through without exemption
I planned each charted course
Each careful step along the byway
And more, much more than this
I did it my way ....

 

[Goneforgood]

My heart is bleeding... Stan I'll miss you.....

 

[EmptyArms]

I apologise in advance, but I need to close Stan's account now. The thread will remain open.

That was a tough job for you. Well done. Hang in there.

 

[NitriteAnatomy]

 

[jgm63]

To @Jean4
Your posts on this thread are very beautiful.

What follows is my opinion :

Assuming Stan went ahead and was successful, then he is now moving on to the next phase of his life as a spiritual being (which is what we all are)
He will be set free from the many constraints of being trapped in a body.
He will be well looked after, and will be able to process the lessons of his life-just-lived.
He will be able to truly rest and heal.

Although there can be some sadness that he does not appear to be with us here anymore, we can be happy for him that he can take rest now, and prepare for the next stage of his evolution as a being.

If you love Stan then you can connect with him instantly by connecting with the feeling of love you have for him inside of you.

One way or another, we shall all join Stan sooner or later.
He has just taken the taxi before you on the rank.
After all, we can't ALL fit into the same one taxi, can we ?

 

[Quax]

I see his name crossed out....... shiiiit....can't hold the tears.....

 

[Jean4]

To @Jean4
Your posts on this thread are very beautiful.

What follows is my opinion :

Assuming Stan went ahead and was successful, then he is now moving on to the next phase of his life as a spiritual being (which is what we all are)
He will be set free from the many constraints of being trapped in a body.
He will be well looked after, and will be able to process the lessons of his life-just-lived.
He will be able to truly rest and heal.

Although there can be some sadness that he does not appear to be with us here anymore, we can be happy for him that he can take rest now, and prepare for the next stage of his evolution as a being.

If you love Stan then you can connect with him instantly by connecting with the feeling of love you have for him inside of you.

One way or another, we shall all join Stan sooner or later.
He has just taken the taxi before you on the rank.
After all, we can't ALL fit into the same one taxi, can we ?

Thank you for this, and I already connected and felt when he left this horrible planet.

Stan is at peace. I am happy that his life meant so much to so many. I tried to show him that. He was very stubborn and wouldn't listen.... but that was logical Stan.

I am glad that so many cared. It means his life meant something and we were important. Isn't that what we all are looking for? That we mattered.

 

[KiraLittleOwl]

I see his name crossed out....... shiiiit....can't hold the tears.....

It wasn't a self-ban though
Stan mentioned self-ban in his post

 

[Jean4]

It wasn't a self-ban though
Stan mentioned self-ban in his post

No. @SinisterKid banned him as protocol. My feelings are he left us before he self banned.

 

[jgm63]

Thank you for this, and I already connected and felt when he left this horrible planet.

Stan is at peace. I am happy that his life meant so much to so many. I tried to show him that. He was very stubborn and wouldn't listen.... but that was logical Stan.

I am glad that so many cared. It means his life meant something and we were important. Isn't that what we all are looking for? That we mattered.

That is very beautiful and wonderful.
You must be spiritually gifted to be able to tune in and sense such things.



P.S. I think you may have earned yourself some sleep (in which case I wish you a blessed and healing rest)

 

[Jean Améry]

This is sad indeed: the forum lost a prominent member. I appreciated his wit and his desire to help others. Here's to you Stan. Given the amount of research he did I'm sure it was smooth sailing and he's at peace now.

It's natural to be sad at the passing of someone we cared about. Natural and human but selfish none-the-less: we are sad not for the fate of ther person who died (how can death be an evil when it robs us of the very consciousness needed to feel pain and discomfort?) but because of the void that person leaves in our lives.

Sometimes I wonder why I still hang on when there are clearly good ways to leave this world as those who already left showed us. The thought of death is strangely alluring although ironically and paradoxically it's not a state one can experience. It's simply the end of everything: both good and bad.

 

[Boonks]

Rest in peace brother

 

[Squiddy]

I wish you peace

 

[pthnrdnojvsc]

This is sad indeed: the forum lost a prominent member. I appreciated his wit and his desire to help others. Here's to you Stan. Given the amount of research he did I'm sure it was smooth sailing and he's at peace now.

It's natural to be sad at the passing of someone we cared about. Natural and human but selfish none-the-less: we are sad not for the fate of ther person who died (how can death be an evil when it robs us of the very consciousness needed to feel pain and discomfort?) but because of the void that person leaves in our lives.

Sometimes I wonder why I still hang on when there are clearly good ways to leave this world as those who already left showed us. The thought of death is strangely alluring although ironically and paradoxically it's not a state one can experience. It's simply the end of everything: both good and bad.

Hope you hang on @Jean Améry. We lost one brilliant mind @Stan who helped me greatly. I'd hate to lose the other brilliant mind that gave me knowledge, the philosophy of what this reality is, you. I mean i obtained that philosophical knowledge a lot of which validated what i was thinking from reading your brilliant and eloquently written posts on this website.

Of course i learn from other members here too but you 2 are the top 2 for me that i learned from. This is the only place where i can discuss such issues as suicide ,methods, life , death, consciousness, etc.

 

[Jean4]

I wish you peace

Lots of love @Squiddy. I know you are in pain.

 

[Soulless_Angel]

this is what sucks about this amazing forum, you get to *know* people, are happy we have met people on our wavelength, then when it's their time to leave, its upsetting
Where ever you are now Stan I wish you peace

 

[Jean Améry]

Hope you hang on @Jean Améry. We lost one brilliant mind @Stan who helped me greatly. I'd hate to lose the other one that gave me knowledge, the philosophy and reality of what this reality is, you. I mean i obtained that philosophical knowledge a lot of which validated what i was thinking from reading your posts on this website.

Thank you for your kind words. I'm anything but brilliant though and I would take anything I say with a grain of salt. I'm only human and thus fallible/unreasonable at times. I do appreciate the sentiment and wish the same for you.

Something I wish it would not be possible for life to become so impossible and unbearable it forces good and kind people to take the short cut. Sadly that is not the case and it's a bloody outrage that people have to hide from society and their loved-ones as if they were preparing and committing a crime while there's nothing shameful about suicide in and of itself. That it used to be a crime is a dark stain on humanity's record and it's not even that much better now: the suicidal are no longer viewed as criminals but locked up none-the-less. In a way it's even more debasing and degrading than a criminal conviction and a prison sentence.

I will cease my endless, useless philosophizing now as this is Stan's memorial page. Apologies to those who might take offense.

 

[Jean4]

Thank you for your kind words. I'm anything but brilliant though and I would take anything I say with a grain of salt. I'm only human and thus fallible/unreasonable at times. I do appreciate the sentiment and wish the same for you.

Something I wish it would not be possible for life to become so impossible and unbearable it forces good and kind people to take the short cut. Sadly that is not the case and it's a bloody outrage that people have to hide from society and their loved-ones as if they were preparing and committing a crime while there's nothing shameful about suicide in and of itself. That it used to be a crime is a dark stain on humanity's record and it's not even that much better now: the suicidal are no longer viewed as criminals but locked up none-the-less. In a way it's even more debasing and degrading than a criminal conviction and a prison sentence.

I will cease my endless, useless philosophizing now as this is Stan's memorial page. Apologies to those who might take offense.

Nah. Stan's logical side would have liked it.

 

[jgm63]

This is sad indeed: the forum lost a prominent member. I appreciated his wit and his desire to help others. Here's to you Stan. Given the amount of research he did I'm sure it was smooth sailing and he's at peace now.

It's natural to be sad at the passing of someone we cared about. Natural and human but selfish none-the-less: we are sad not for the fate of ther person who died (how can death be an evil when it robs us of the very consciousness needed to feel pain and discomfort?) but because of the void that person leaves in our lives.

Sometimes I wonder why I still hang on when there are clearly good ways to leave this world as those who already left showed us. The thought of death is strangely alluring although ironically and paradoxically it's not a state one can experience. It's simply the end of everything: both good and bad.

Of course, each person must believe as they choose to, but I believe we do get to experience the death process.
My spiritual teacher has a wonderful audio recording where he explains the process :

Spoiler: Barry Long | Seeing Through Death (Facing the Fact Without Fear)

 

[Ark]

Rest in peace brother. I hope to see you soon.

 

[Loner]

A very sad day..... Goodbye Stan. May peace be with you. Thank you for everything...

 

[TowerUpright]

Farewell, Stan. Learned a lot from your posts. You'll be loved, still, here

 

[Jean4]

 

[Brick In The Wall]

We should keep this thread alive as the new SN megathread.

If I vomit should I abandon the regimen? How much SN should I take for X weight? Does X drug work with SN? So I've heard alot about SN, what is it?

 

[Jean4]

We should keep this thread alive as the new SN megathread.

If I vomit should I abandon the regimen? How much SN should I take for X weight? Does X drug work with SN? So I've heard alot about SN, what is it?

Thank you for that. I needed a laugh in between the crying lol.

 

[Dubs]

We should keep this thread alive as the new SN megathread.

If I vomit should I abandon the regimen? How much SN should I take for X weight? Does X drug work with SN? So I've heard alot about SN, what is it?

I was furious until I realized you were being sarcastic.

 

[Jean4]

I was furious until I realized you were being sarcastic.

All is good and I am still chuckling lol

 

[Brick In The Wall]

All is good and I am still chuckling lol

Stan would approve, trust me. He'd have one last laugh if this thread became the hub of all stupid SN questions.

 

[Jean4]

Stan would approve, trust me. He'd have one last laugh if this thread became the hub of all stupid SN questions.

I was thinking of doing a thread of stupid gifs and questions in Stan's honor.