ClairyFairy
Wizard
- Jan 22, 2021
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I'd say that as sometimes you're gay and sometimes your notSexual preferences can be fluid, meaning sometimes you're bi and sometimes you're not.
I'd say that as sometimes you're gay and sometimes your notSexual preferences can be fluid, meaning sometimes you're bi and sometimes you're not.
I'm bi and I'm so sorry for these kind of girls/women . To be part of LGBT is not simple because of prejudices and hate. I think it is dangerous to show everyone my sexual orientation.Wellll... all the girls I've talked to who claimed to be "bi" just stopped being interested...
I met a girl on tinder who said she was really serious about dating a woman.. she was being specific about being into me especially.. I'm really cautious about initiating romance with people so I keep my guards up until I know they're genuinely interested. Everything was going great until all of a sudden she left me for a guy. She just used me for insta pics to tell her followers she was dating me. We met twice and every time she was shoving her phone into my face taking pics of me when I'm not ready or comfortable yet. She posted it on insta and then 2 days later posted a pic of her holding hands w a guy she called "mi amor".. I asked who that guy was cus I was still giving her the benefit of the doubt (thought it was a relative) and she just laughed and said "I'm exploring my options" it was so cold and mean... felt like a slap to my face. Because we didn't agree to "explore" she gave me the impression that she was really serious about me.. the other girl I met after her said she had just broken up with her ex bf and was done with men.. I was really skeptical and I made it clear that I needed to know if she's seriously ready to date again.. she kept reassuring me she's completely ready and excited to start dating me... 3 weeks in and same thing happened with the pics and social media. she was all clingy and seems happy with me until she TEXTED me and said she was gonna give it a second shot with her ex.. I don't understand what I do wrong... I met them all through tinder.. so the attraction is mutual.. I even got to the point where I asked them if it was something I did??? Something wrong with me?? I don't think I'm doing anything wrong in fact, I made sure I treat them with love and respect just the way I want to be treated but still wasn't enough... I'm just tired of fake bitches tbh
People change all the time going back and forth from gay to bi, bi to straight, and every combination there is. Your statement might be true for some people, but also someone like me could have intervals of being bi at some stage and being completely straight the rest of the time.Someone bisexual could sometimes prefer men or women more but they will always still be bisexual.
HELLO and WELCOME to Sanctioned Suicide, our new global family member! It is wonderful that you joined everyone here, as all the folks here are, hands down, the finest group one will EVER meet. No matter one's path in life, everyone here is the most loving, caring people ever and combine that with lots of understanding, kindness, empathy and support, one has found one's home here. Everyone here has helped me so, so much and that is my wish for you also. Again, WELCOME!! Walter ( yep real first name, 65 years young, gray hair and never phony)I'm bi and I'm so sorry for these kind of girls/women . To be part of LGBT is not simple because of prejudices and hate. I think it is dangerous to show everyone my sexual orientation.
You got your answer through your own post, ironically.I don't understand what I do wrong... I met them all through tinder..
Damn it's been over a year since I posted this.. time is crazy!I'm pretty sure it has nothing to do with gender or orientation. You just met shitty people. I meet nonsensical straight guys like this all the time. Though I understand it must make you feel even more insecure but really it's not about you, it's about many people being trashy and not valuing others in a very disconnected society.
Tinder has plenty of decent people looking for a serious relationship - which is why I so wish I wasn't shadowbanned on there but whatever... But you could try OkCupid which is more LGBTQ friendly, Hinge or Badoo for instance.
Also you might want to try going to LGBTQ bars and associations.