I'm a male, and holy cope tbh. "It's your pERsonality."
Maybe my personality isn't the best but I mean it when I say I'm a short and ugly manlet.
When I say I'm ugly, it's like I'm ugly. People online have screenshotted my face in servers, and it got 9 laughing emojis. I went on monkey,app. People laughed at my face there. In real life, people laughed at and made fun of my face. On Quora app, on discord, on youtube (when I used to have a youtube channel).
You sound a bit older, and maybe you don't understand the new dating market, relating to hypergamy. Meaning now only the top 5% of men are getting matches on Bumble. It's a lot more hard for the average guy to find a partner, let alone an ugly and 5'6 manlet. The bluepill doesn't work, it's old news.
Being short and ugly. That may not seem like a big problem in itself because who cares about one's facial apperance? But it has a domino effect. Because of my face, I was bullied and isolated. Because I was bullied and isolated I don't have social skills. Because I don't have social skills, I don't have friends. Because I don't have friends, I don't have connections. Because I don't have connections, I don't have a job.
If I ask out a woman, I would get straight up rejected due to my face. That's why the incel movement is so big in the first place. If facial appearance didn't matter or "wasn't a big deal", so many people wouldn't be blackpilled, r/ugly wouldn't have over 25k members, etc.
Most of the ugly people I talk to have to get plastic surgery to even be considered normie. Like I would need a genioplasty, otoplasty and a rhinoplasty to even look normal.