Discussion what would make you change your mind?

[Henryk]

I know everyone here is tired of being alive, but is there anything in this world that would change your mind? Some inner or outer change that would make life meaningful? or is there nothing that can be done?

 

[Pidgeons_Sparrows]

nothing

well maybe something but it would all be insanely complicated and impossible anyway so

 

[UKscotty]

Once you wake up to the meaningless nature of life, it can never go back.

 

[FuneralCry]

I always see it as being preferable to not exist, for me only death can offer true relief from all the harm and suffering that existing causes, only death comforts me and I've only ever desired the eternity of nothingness. I don't see anything appealing about decaying from age in an existence I never even wished to be burdened with in the first place, the thought of such a thing fills me with dread, existence is completely futile to me and just leads to suffering, it's tiresome being trapped here.

 

[SpiderLink]

I know everyone here is tired of being alive, but is there anything in this world that would change your mind? Some inner or outer change that would make life meaningful? or is there nothing that can be done?

If the world was a better and safer place, if I had value, just to name a few, many more

 

[Hollowman]

Access to a time machine.

 

[StolenLife]

Maybe if I had a safe and comfortable place to live or maybe if I fell in love.

 

[HighFlight]

As someone who is still on the fence, if I can find a reason to stay, a purpose in this "meaningless nature of life" (thanks, @UKscotty ), then I will. I need to give myself time to figure it out. Unfortunately, I've been feeling more alone and isolated each day.

 

[Whyami]

Once you wake up to the meaningless nature of life, it can never go back.

That's so true...

 

[girlsboysthems]

nothing probably, tried everything already

 

[JustABug]

The opportunity to be completely and utterly alone, with no one around to turn too. Relationship's are beyond stressful to manage and I've always benefited from being alone than with others. It would change my life.

 

[jbear824]

Nothing would make my life meaningful. I'm as useless a human being as they come. But being able to secure the basic needs for me and my chosen family would do a lot to keep me going.

 

[Henryk]

in my case I have thousands of things that would keep me alive, things that are even within my reach, this even makes me feel even worse because I see the conditions of many around here and I think that maybe I don't have so many reasons to be suffering, but I I'm so tired I just don't feel like trying anything at all, I just want to get this all over with.

 

[julysilentwoods]

A safe place to live & proper disability support

 

[FindingHome]

Nothing that can be done. I am at the end. The only thing I want is death.

 

[Bobert_Beniro]

Endless access to drugs. Especially mdma, under it I think it's hard to make ctb. Or, for example, a world war with China, I have an increased sense of justice and when someone gets what they deserve, it brings me incredible pleasure

 

[brokeandbroken]

I want my life back and have potential to do something with it. As of right now my life has no meaning, no purpose, and I see little good in the world... It seems to me the crimes and whatnot committed against me will go unpunished and I'll either be dead or homeless for the reminder of my life. Or forced to work a shit job where all my money will go to paying off student loan debt. I truly hate my life.

Sad thing is society doesn't see me as a former medical student, future oncologist. But a drug addict (not on drugs but you hear homeless that's what people hear), piece of shit, whatever... Everything including my dignity was robbed from me. Everyone who should be of cared ran away.

 

[Larysa]

Having anyone that actually, actively cared about me. Not having anyone at all is so painful.

 

[iwanttoleave2000]

I know everyone here is tired of being alive, but is there anything in this world that would change your mind? Some inner or outer change that would make life meaningful? or is there nothing that can be done?

Lots of things. Girlfriend. Friendships. A job that did not suck.

 

[LostFuture.]

Not being forced to participate in this dystopian system and all the stresses it brings. Humans were designed to thrive in small tribes , not slave away socially isolated in an unsustainable late capitalist hellscape we have now.

Also, leaders who actually cared about peoples well-being instead of being corrupt instigators of impoverishment and war through their harmful policies.

The hope of a better future really. The emergence of new culture, new ideas. Feels like the end of innovation and the world is deteriorating, at least in the west. Everything has been on a downward spiral since 2008.

 

[ultrasharpy123456]

nothing can change my mind. i just want to not exist.

 

[f1lth]

i dont know, maybe if i felt a true connection with people ? i know my friends and family love me, but im not close with them. It feels impossible and not worth it to try and form connections anymore. I just try to be as pleasant and nice as i can

 

[colorlesshue]

maybe having a baby? god the baby fever has been BAD and i know it's selfish but i just want someone to direct all the love i want to give to. i want to actually be happy with my own little family and start over.

 

[Praestat_Mori]

Money would mean I can see a bright future and a life that I want to live ahead of me. I don't want to experience any further decline it's better to be dead before it gets worse.

 

[Peaceful Departure]

My 3 abusers understanding what they've done, and stopping their continuous pursuit to ruin my life (whether purposefully or not) or their death. That would make it possible, reversal of the ptsd and cptsd i've been diagnosed with because them, that would make life worth living.

 

[StellaSomnus]

Decent luck, better opportunities and a healthy work life balance with a good pay relative to my expenses.

Not even asking for much, if not, just asking for life to not be unnecessarily difficult. Living in general is expensive, tiring and I'm not even having a good time, and it's mentally draining to think about my current situation and the future that awaits me (or lack thereof).

 

[conejo triste]

If somehow all my bad thoughts went away I think I'd be fine. My life in general is pretty alright but the way my mind works is complete garbage. If I could go about life without any problems like school stress I think I'd be fine but unfortunately life doesn't work like that.

 

[Wyldfyre4948]

Not sure if anything can. What I want doesn't matter anymore. Unless a miracle happens I'm still making travel arrangements.

 

[AerialBoundaries]

I'm too damaged to ever come back from the brink. I'll just be found dead, one day.

 

[jemetire]

Her.