What makes you lose respect for someone?

[itsamadworld]

When they are dishonest with me.

 

[pete_x]

Just curious to see people's answers. I struggle with my anger issues, but I've learned not to show it to others when I'm angry or disappointed in them unless I want to blow up the relationship. For me, I lose a lot of respect to people if they're not honest with me or if they lie. I can spot a lie rather easily through inconsistencies or how things are said and it quickly undermines my trust in them. It also shows me that they underestimate me in figuring it out. Sure, not all lies are equal - and people lie routinely about many things. But some lies are just beyond excuse. I might be civil with them moving forward, but I won't look at them the same way again.

Unrealistic expectations and vanity. A slice of honesty as ordered.

 

[Eren]

Someone who constantly lies. I also hate hypocrisy. "Moralistic" people who later are bastards.

 

[RileyTanaka]

"Moralistic" people who later are bastards.

Thats pretty much everyone

 

[Eren]

Thats pretty much everyone

I would not say everyone, although many people do.

 

[Nyxx33]

Dishonesty
Not knowing difference between your and you're.
hah kidding. Sorta.

 

[TheSoulless]

Being against my ideology, plain and simple.

EDIT: To clarify – "doing things that my ideology deems wrong".

 

[terry_a_davis]

Deceit, hypocrisy, unfairness, 'haters' for no good reason, people who cause suffering to other people or animals.

 

[Nuclear Gandhi]

I think disregard for my personal boundaries when they are clearly vocalised. I am a firm believer of importance of personal space and assertiveness.

 

[madbananas]

When people use my struggles with my mental health as a 'confirmation' that they are always correct in every disagreement we have. They could outrightly be caught lying And hiding important things from me and turn around and say I shouldn't be upset about it, I'm supposedly overreacting etc. When they then don't listen to anything I say because they've already made up in their heads that I am in the wrong because I am the "depressed" one.

 

[in hell out soon]

Dishonesty, never telling me what problems they have with me and instead just avoiding me (I have trauma regarding ghosting), when I go from friend to "background npc" I guess.

like I'm not demanding to be treated like royalty or anything just want to be treated like a real friend and not a hinderance. I know I have problems and I'm stressed a lot of the time, but... at least treat me like a human. Please? I promise I can deal with being told where and how I've fucked up. At least one of my friends is open in telling me. The rest of them keep having to ghost and avoid me like the plague.

They claim a lot of convenient excuses. Bad timing and etc...

awful convenient though...