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What is your Adverse Childhood Experience score? https://shorturl.at/xQZ89

  • 0 or 1

    Votes: 21 16.5%
  • 2

    Votes: 19 15.0%
  • 3

    Votes: 18 14.2%
  • 4

    Votes: 16 12.6%
  • 5

    Votes: 14 11.0%
  • 6

    Votes: 11 8.7%
  • 7

    Votes: 14 11.0%
  • 8

    Votes: 7 5.5%
  • 9

    Votes: 5 3.9%
  • 10

    Votes: 2 1.6%

  • Total voters
    127
ijustwishtodie

ijustwishtodie

I have finally found my ultimate bliss
Oct 29, 2023
5,795
My ACE score is 3
My PCE score is 0
 
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NoFutureAnymore

Student
Jul 4, 2023
182
My problems as a child were more in and outside of my household. Separately it was okay, together it was too much.
 
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Felodese

Felodese

Experienced
Mar 31, 2024
295
ACE 2
PCE 3
 
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AllMyDreams

AllMyDreams

Experienced
Dec 12, 2021
279
ACE: 5
PCE: 3

Edit: it's interesting how the balance of people with high, low and medium scores is about even in the poll.
 
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Lifeaffirmingchoice

deserved so much better
Mar 22, 2024
327
ACE: 5
PCE: 3

Edit: it's interesting how the balance of people with high, low and medium scores is about even in the poll.
Yes, I was expecting much higher ACE scores tbh
 
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4am

4am

there’s nothing for you (it/its)
Dec 14, 2023
3,329
ace 0 pce 3
 
lament.

lament.

the Immortal
Jun 28, 2023
223
ace 0
pce 2

My childhood was 'mundane' but I was depressed nevertheless.
 
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melancholymallory03

melancholymallory03

Do cats live nine lives ? Or do humans ⏰
Feb 20, 2024
358
I don't know if I got the right link? But I just screenshotted it

IMG 3803
 
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ferret-in-a-sock

ferret-in-a-sock

Member
Jan 25, 2023
72
ACE 8, PCE 2
 
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Lost Impact

Lost Impact

A Singular Atonement
Oct 31, 2023
281
ACE 10
PCE 2
 
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Pixelated_Otaku

New Member
Apr 14, 2024
2
ACE 2
PCE 8

Strange how that works, huh?
 
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Arachno

Arachno

oh no :(
Apr 10, 2023
267
ACE - 1
PCE - 2
 
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Mea Culpa

Mea Culpa

Mea Culpa, Mea Maxima Culpa, Kyrie Eleison
Sep 22, 2023
173
ACE-5
PCE-0
 
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Username1359751

Enlightened
Mar 14, 2024
1,330
ACE = 7
PCE = 0
 
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[..redacted..]

Specialist
Mar 12, 2024
392
ACE 5
PCE 2
 
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Forveleth

I knew I forgot to do something when I was 15...
Mar 26, 2024
3,958
I find this assessment interesting as it asks if those things happened "often" in childhood. For me, some of those things happened, but not often. However when they did, they put the fear of God in me so much so that I have lasting psychological issues. I've also gotten hints that a lot happened before I really started forming memories (before age 4) but I don't have details so I can't respond accurately.

My score is maybe a 3 but therapy has guided me to thinking my home life was very traumatic.
 
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bipbapbop

Experienced
Mar 7, 2024
276
ACE: 4
PCE: 1

I'm a bit surprised about the low ACE scores I'm seeing, but I also think the questions and entire format is too simple to really measure anything.
 
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Forest Fire

Forest Fire

Student
Jul 19, 2019
119
ACE 8
PCE 2
 
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kyuuketsuki

kyuuketsuki

weeb & neet ♡
Oct 8, 2023
188
ACE: 8
PCE: 4
 
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halleyscomet

halleyscomet

halley
Mar 26, 2024
307
ACE: 7 PCE: 0
 
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crystal_meth97

crystal_meth97

Nie mam zamiaru się poddać
May 1, 2024
154
My ACE score is 3. MY PCE score is 1. This screams emotional neglect, which I already knew. Everything was so... neutral.
 
ForgottenAgain

ForgottenAgain

On the rollercoaster of sadness
Oct 17, 2023
1,139
ACE: 2
PCE: 3
 
lostforever77

lostforever77

Student
Dec 13, 2023
102
Ace was a 6
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
21,408
ACE - 4
PCE - 3

Guess I should count myself lucky I suppose. Every day is a gift because I wasn't molested as a child and only one of my parents was awful. 🥶
 
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CouldaHvBeenARock

CouldaHvBeenARock

Farewell, My Concubine
Nov 16, 2023
147
ACE: 2
PCE: 2
 
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