What do you think others say about you?

[deadgirlahsatan]

It's a vicious cycle too, because the less I talk to people the less I feel comfortable talking to them, and the more quiet and awkward I become. Someone just be my friend pls I'm not that bad lol

That is so true. The less i talk to people the more i get uncomfortable talking to people as well! I get so quiet and awkward. It never ends for sure.

 

[Angina]

F*ck those sheep losers. Let's go postal. ;)

 

[Despondent]

Who knows what people say about me behind my back. Most of the time it's people who are nice to me and then say some shit behind my back. It's very discouraging for me. I consider myself someone who's always welcoming and I accept everyone for who they are. They probably take that as stupidity and talk about that among themselves. Just general gossip I'd assume.

 

[Deleted member 17949]

Who knows what people say about me behind my back. Most of the time it's people who are nice to me and then say some shit behind my back. It's very discouraging for me. I consider myself someone who's always welcoming and I accept everyone for who they are. They probably take that as stupidity and talk about that among themselves. Just general gossip I'd assume.

I don't understand people. How can they be nice to me and then go and insult me behind my back? Why talk to me at all if they think so negatively of me? Crazy tbh

 

[Despondent]

I don't understand people. How can they be nice to me and then go and insult me behind my back? Why talk to me at all if they think so negatively of me? Crazy tbh

I don't understand them either. They can go fuck themselves for all I care. I'm sick of everything and I'm getting sick of everyone.

 

[ManWithNoName]

I know using others to judge your self worth is not healthy, but we're social animals and I can't help it.

Good point. It's not supposed to matter what others think but for the vast majority, it does factor in to a certain extent. Women are essentially judged by their youth and beauty, and men tend to be judged based on the amount of resources they commandeer (e.g.: money or hard assets, politcal resources). Indeed these are idiotic parameters, but we all know this still how people act.

 

[Aeathelina]

A failure who wasted everything gold in her life because she was woefully stupid, ugly and ignorant. Who by all means deserves to be dead.

 

[Deleted member 17949]

A failure who wasted everything gold in her life because she was woefully stupid, ugly and ignorant. Who by all means deserves to be dead.

ngl that exact description fits me pretty well

 

[bunny]

probably that i'm really skinny and weird. a lot of people don't know much about me. i'm really closed off and private. i guess people closest would say other things, but i'm not sure if they'd be good things or not.

 

[Brick In The Wall]

This seems more like a reflection upon myself vs what people actually say about me. I feel like I'm praised and admired at times when I definitely shouldn't be.

I have a low self esteem and judge myself harshly. Maybe I'm too hard on myself, maybe I'm not hard enough on myself. I've stopped caring what people think of me long ago.

 

[Melchoir]

Probably annoying. I get attached to people easily when they're kind to me and then I realize how much I wear them out.

 

[mathieu]

I have no idea what they say behind my back. I think I'm just not thought about or discussed, but that's just a guess.

 

[woxihuanni]

I don't think anybody talks about me much. Probably would say nice but sometimes a nuisance.

 

[TotallyIsolated]

I think people say that I'm a nice person, which cuts into me like a knife. I'm so inert and forgettable that 'nice' is the only thing that comes to mind.

I'm like plain vanilla ice cream. People like me, but noone ever gets excited about me. I'm never anybody's first choice.

 

[everydayiloveyou]

I think people who've only talked to me a couple of times would say that I'm very nice and shy. Irl I'm a very passive, "sweet" person. I try to do the most for others and be patient and considerate, but it's clear I have social problems.

But anyone who deals with me regularly, they say I'm quiet, strange, awkward, cold, things like that. Generally they're more aware of how inhibiting my anxiety is, and think that my shyness/anxiety causes problems. Some of my coworkers will joke that I only ask for help from certain people because I'm terrified of the others (which is sometimes true but not the whole story).

Similarly people I don't well seem to think I'm pretty smart. But once they get to know me it's clear that I'm very average. As for first impressions, I've had complete strangers call me fat and/or ugly so I guess there's that too.

 

[deadgirlahsatan]

It's a vicious cycle too, because the less I talk to people the less I feel comfortable talking to them, and the more quiet and awkward I become. Someone just be my friend pls I'm not that bad lol

It's true . The less i talk to people the more uncomfortable i am talking to people too. I can be extremely quiet and meek.

 

[Marchioness]

I don't care, I'm an attention whore. *deal with it shades*

If it's good, cool.
If it's neutral, cool.
If it's bad, cool.

My own thoughts about who I am are more interesting to me.

 

[lostangel]

I know some will make fun of me but I don't the majority mind me. I'm irrelevant, I won't cross many peoples mind.

 

[Crazy Squirrel]

I'm practically a living ghost, so it's extremely unlikely that anyone would ever think about me -- but if someone actually did, they'd probably just say I'm weird or something.

 

[RottenDeer]

That I'm chaotic and hard to get to know. I like it this way, to be honest. My friends would probably describe me as loyal.

 

[hersheybar]

Honestly, probably not even anyone talking about me...