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What do you identify as?

  • Man

    Votes: 31 41.9%
  • Woman

    Votes: 23 31.1%
  • Trans

    Votes: 10 13.5%
  • Other

    Votes: 10 13.5%

  • Total voters
    74
Nobody'sHero

Nobody'sHero

Lost in the world
Mar 24, 2025
238
What sex do you identify as? I identify as a man and have never had thoughts of being otherwise.
Also, do you think that your identity has somehow affected your feelings towards suicide? How?

Like I said, I identify as a man and have never had issues with that, I don't want to offend anyone, just trying to learn about the community. That being said, being a man and filling the traditional role can be tough and I feel like my suicidal thoughts have to do with not feeling like I'm there; with a view on life that I feel is under attack...
 
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EvisceratedJester

EvisceratedJester

|| What Else Could I Be But a Jester ||
Oct 21, 2023
5,158
I identify as a jester
 
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Halfhourdays

Halfhourdays

"Everything was beautiful and nothing hurt."
Mar 14, 2025
621
I keep wondering why so many trans people suffer so much.
 
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itsoverforme303

Burn my dread
Mar 3, 2025
128
I identify as useless.
 
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Nobody'sHero

Nobody'sHero

Lost in the world
Mar 24, 2025
238
I keep wondering why so many trans people suffer so much.
Men are pretty high up there... Hopefully someone who identifies as trans can share their pov
 
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davidtorez

davidtorez

Warlock
Mar 8, 2024
772
A depressed loser
 
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sspkky

sspkky

Member
Mar 27, 2025
13
What sex do you identify as? I identify as a man and have never had thoughts of being otherwise.
Also, do you think that your identity has somehow affected your feelings towards suicide? How?

Like I said, I identify as a man and have never had issues with that, I don't want to offend anyone, just trying to learn about the community. That being said, being a man and filling the traditional role can be tough and I feel like my suicidal thoughts have to do with not feeling like I'm there; with a view on life that I feel is under attack...
I'm a cis man, but i don't like the "man look", i would love to look more androgenous or even more feminine (not as a woman but more as a femboy?), i just feel it would be cool to be considered "cute", but my body is not really feminine, so it is what it is;
But i don't think this influenced my decision
 
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JesiBel

JesiBel

protoTYPE:cclxxv
Dec 5, 2024
1,112
Like the sad and unfortunate clown of theater comedies..

(Woman. I'm okay with my gender, I like it)
 
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music

music

i would live inside your womb, if you had one
Feb 1, 2023
105
im one of them/theys

i dont really know what i am or how i can possibly be anything i dont resent. causes or reasons or resolutions are .missing from my head unfortunately. i dont know whether this prevailed over my previous transfeminine self because of some genuine, innate non-binaryness in me or the perpetuated dp/dr over the past years making anyone talking about me as anything more than just a 'they' concept of a person sickening. i truly have no idea don't use this against anyone else, im just. i do not kknow . i haven't been able to reason myself out of this since 2016 no matter how much i keep wishing i could
 
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Anonymousa

Anonymousa

Get me Out
Sep 21, 2024
2,395
I identify as a sad abandoned puppy that wants love

I voted woman but more specifically I am trans girl. Being trans used to be part of why I was suicidal cus of gender dysphoria but thats been resolved thanks to social and medical transition. I am suicidal for reasons other than my gender now. I love being seen and treated as a girl as I like having a more feminine body, clothing and appearance and I more fit the traditional role of one cus of me being more emotional and sensitive and having other more feminine traits.

I would say you should add a specific trans woman and a trans man option
I keep wondering why so many trans people suffer so much.
cus of gender dysphoria making us feel uncomfortable with our bodies and how people refer to us. Us having these bodies and being referred to something other than the gender we feel just feels wrong. Also transphobia causing laws to made that go against us, our need for trans health care to be harder to get, most people going against us and hate us.

I identify as a jester
also cute new profile picture.
 
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Nobody'sHero

Nobody'sHero

Lost in the world
Mar 24, 2025
238
I identify as a sad abandoned puppy that wants love

I voted woman but more specifically I am trans girl. Being trans used to be part of why I was suicidal cus of gender dysphoria but thats been resolved thanks to social and medical transition. I am suicidal for reasons other than my gender now. I love being seen and treated as a girl as I like having a more feminine body, clothing and appearance and I more fit the traditional role of one cus of me being more emotional and sensitive and having other more feminine traits.

I would say you should add a specific trans woman and a trans man option

cus of gender dysphoria making us feel uncomfortable with our bodies and how people refer to us. Us having these bodies and being referred to something other than the gender we feel just feels wrong. Also transphobia causing laws to made that go against us, our need for trans health care to be harder to get, most people going against us and hate us.


also cute new profile picture.
I'm sorry... I can't even imagine what it must feel like... 🌻🌻🌻
 
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anonymouswebuser

anonymouswebuser

edgy attention seeker
Feb 27, 2025
96
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BloomingAzaleas

BloomingAzaleas

Full Bloom
Apr 13, 2023
98
I am a Blooming Azalea

I would say you should add a specific trans woman and a trans man option
I mean trans men are men and trans women are women so I don't even know why trans is even an option on this poll
 
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grapevoid

grapevoid

Mage
Jan 30, 2025
528
I'm a woman and it definitely plays a huge role in my depression. First because I have PMDD which causes me to become extremely irrational and deeply depressed to the point of almost ctb every single month for at least a week, over time that cycle really wears you down. Secondly, there are some societal pressures associated with being a woman that have negatively impacted me, it's hard sometimes to live up to the standard of being put together, pretty, polite and handle everything with grace all the time and I definitely feel the pressure of this.
BUT I am completely comfortable With my gender and I like being a woman.
 
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Hollowman

Empty
Dec 14, 2021
2,315
Subhumanoid
 
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Anonymousa

Anonymousa

Get me Out
Sep 21, 2024
2,395
I'm sorry... I can't even imagine what it must feel like... 🌻🌻🌻
You don't have to say sorry to me <3 Me being trans isn't a problem for me at all. Honestly I prefer being trans now. I am like the only trans person on SaSu that isn't suicidal being trans lol. I was just saying what most trans people face. I don't face much gender dysphoria cus I had a successful transition and I pass as a cis woman so and I don't face much transphobia as I personally stay ignorant to whats happening in the world and don't talk to much people physically anyways.
 
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grapevoid

grapevoid

Mage
Jan 30, 2025
528
I am a Blooming Azalea


I mean trans men are men and trans women are women so I don't even know why trans is even an option on this poll
That's true though I think it's relevant to know if someone is trans when discussing gender in relation to mental health.
 
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ma0

ma0

How did I get here?
Dec 20, 2024
667
I identify as the BiliBili default pfp
 
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Droso

Droso

Born, survive, reproduce, die.
Dec 23, 2024
257
I guess I would be under "trans" but I don't see gender as an identity. I only see myself as a male who is trapped in a female body. If that's how identity correlates to you, then I guess it works out.
 
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ForestGhost

ForestGhost

PFP by user ropeburns&migranes
Aug 25, 2024
262
Sad genderfucked autist who can almost see the right body if I squint into the fogged bathroom mirror when the lights are dim.
 
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divinemistress87

divinemistress87

Angelic
Jan 1, 2024
4,919
I identify as a Sloth
 
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Pluto

Pluto

Cat Extremist
Dec 27, 2020
6,735
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SilentSadness

SilentSadness

In somewhere else
Feb 28, 2023
1,553
In order for me to identify as something I would have to have an identity, no one cares about my existence though so there's no identification. I am an unreferenced spirit waiting to be purged.
 
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MathConspiracy

MathConspiracy

Trapped in a (prison) cell of organic molecules
Mar 25, 2025
245
I'm Just Ken.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
15,266
I'm a cis woman but I don't exactly strongly identify as a woman. I reject a lot of forms of femininity. I don't enjoy having periods. Given the choice, I'd probably opt to be male but, it isn't a strong desire either. So- I suppose I reluctantly identify as female although, I'm aware I don't make the cut in societies eyes.
 
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