whar are some of the most valueable things that you have lost in life?

[whitefeather]

Greetings fellow Lupie! Is yours SLE as well?

Over the years I've had painful, swollen joints. On one hand I'm thankful there's no organ damage (came very close), but on the other hand I have no valid reason to apply for assisted suicide.

Several countries will now approve assisted suicide for such medical suffering- Canada, Switzerland, Belgium and other EU countries don't require a "6 month terminal prognosis from physician"

 

[JustAMatterOfTime]

. Person I thought I would be with forever
. My dear grandparents
. confidence / ability to behave normally
. 2nd try person I thought I would be with forever
. Whatever the opposite of shame is
. My chance at a normal life
. Best friends

 

[nightnightnitrite]

1. My father -passed when I was 16

2. My ex -broke up with me because he thought I cheated, I didn't and never would

3. The relationship between my living father -I still feel guilty even though it's not my fault

4. Kitten -My ex got me a kitten and nobody ever wanted to get an animal with me before.

5. Will to live -Obviously

 

[BlankUser]

My mother, my pets, my mental health...

 

[motel rooms]

The ability to trust anyone

 

[Wrennie]

My ability to move without extreme discomfort or pain

 

[filtfarfar]

My health. Those of us who lost our health have a front row seat in hell.

 

[Scribble Fan]

My family, my friends, my pets, my hobbies... I feel like I've lost everything.

 

[FuneralCry]

My health, I have ear problems as well as other health problems and I no longer have silence. My body will continue to deteriorate as I get older. Also my will to live and any hope. It can be argued that I never had that in the first place. This life is only temporary, when we die we lose everything. Death makes all life meaningless.

 

[arslongavitabrevis]

The life that I could've had were it not mired with so much pain, grief and ancestral trauma.

 

[heraclitus23]

Myself, in my marriage.

 

[Largeletters]

My Aunt who passed due to substance abuse, my other aunt, my maternal grandparents, my paternal grandfather and step-grandfather, my will to live, my hope.

The life that I could've had were it not mired with so much pain, grief and ancestral trauma.

I'm so sorry... I relate.

 

[Jer1188]

Free will - my father's respect

 

[Weary Soul]

~Family and other loved ones (including pets);
~Friends and babies due to sudden death or death that could have been prevented;
~Myself - although, I am not so sure if I ever truly knew myself;
~Trust in myself, my mind, and my body not to mention trust in others;
~Losing everything I shed blood, sweat, and tears over for decades in order to provide for other loved ones so that their life might be just a little bit easier than mine was. And then, to top it off - that loss? Well it happened at the very same hands of the same people I had shed blood, sweat, and tears over to provide for. Felt so incredibly betrayed, blindsided, and ultimately broken after that one. I built every thing I had from the ground up through my own hard work and it was ripped away from me by the very people who swore they cared from me.
.. sighs... feels like I could go on forever, but I will stop there.

I have learned a lot and grown from all of this - and that helps sometimes, but it does not necessarily make it better or 'cure' me cause other times? The pain is so incredibly eviscerating it drops me to my knees in agony.

 

[NothingElseMatters]

every single penny I had.

 

[Cherry Crumpet]

- my faith and my trust in my family sans my Mom, after having unshakable faith in them for 33 years (I think this caused some form of PTSD) - I'm 37 now
- my sense of reality (broken from the point above)
- my Grandma
- many dear pets
- my sense of purpose
- my chance at having a child
- my faith in myself
- my sense of self worth
- my childlike pure faith and comfort in Christianity

 

[Makko]

My comfyness

 

[Lady black]

My love