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RitaM

RitaM

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Aug 26, 2018
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She said on Monday that she was just out of a depressive episode. So if she really is bipolar, I doubt it's related to that. I was considering some of this could be explained by mania but that doesn't seem to have been the case.
 
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Soul

gate gate paragate parasamgate bodhi svaha
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She said on Monday that she was just out of a depressive episode. So if she really is bipolar, I doubt it's related to that. I was considering some of this could be explained by mania but that doesn't seem to have been the case.

Unless she's been in manic mode the entire time. I steered clear because of her tendency to mock or bully other people, but never suspected she was a scammer.

I'm sorry people got scammed.

For those of you using signatures to convey a message: I don't see them. Just so you know not everyone does.
 
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RitaM

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Aug 26, 2018
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Maybe, but her recent posts didn't strike me as manic (I'm bipolar). Who knows.
 
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LonelyLight

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May 31, 2019
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Unless she's been in manic mode the entire time. I steered clear because of her tendency to mock or bully other people, but never suspected she was a scammer.

I'm sorry people got scammed.

For those of you using signatures to convey a message: I don't see them. Just so you know not everyone does.
Yes!!! The mocking thing I've been noticing lately. Have to be honest I do not like it!!!!
Also, I seen the comments about signatures, I assumed it was the tagline under the username? Am I wrong on that one?
 
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Shamana

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May 31, 2019
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I think If you can rapidly make a few thousand dollars of scamming strangers it can be tempting if you're already living on the edge anyway.
 
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RitaM

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I think you can only see signatures if you're viewing on desktop?
 
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Soul

Soul

gate gate paragate parasamgate bodhi svaha
Apr 12, 2019
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Ah maybe so, I'm using mobile!

So am I. So that's probably the reason. In any case it limits the signatures' range. We probably need a "beware of scammers" message sent every month to all users.
 
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Berlin76

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Aug 18, 2019
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Ok listing up
One more victim just pm me.

He got also a false email of her.
She gave hime bobs email bob1175, she is fucking crazy.
So with one person the email was P.... @proton

And now bob1175 with this other person
 
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smirlap

smirlap

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Nov 4, 2019
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Ok listing up
One more victim just pm me.

He got also a false email of her.
She gave hime bobs email bob1175, she is fucking crazy.
So with one person the email was P.... @proton

And now bob1175 with this other person
Hi

I would like to send a PM to you as Mud advised me to do so but I cannot. Don t know why.
Could you send me a PM to start conversation?
 
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Berlin76

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Hi

I would like to send a PM to you as Mud advised me to do so but I cannot. Don t know why.
Could you send me a PM to start conversation?

Just did so check yoour box
 
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Haku

Walking ThePathOfSorrow, destination Denebokshiri
Oct 12, 2019
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I cant believe this, since I have been a member, Rachel74 has been a good friend to me, and not once has she tried to sell me anything, and I saw the screenshots, but I still cant believe it. I've been of the forum for a few days and then I see this, wtf
 
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MeltingHeart

MeltingHeart

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Sep 9, 2019
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Jeez bloody hell what have I come on too this morning? I spoke to her in PM loads, as she claimed she was from my neck of the woods, even sent photos and stuff? Would all that have been a lie? Was I too damned trusting, she never tried to sell me anything, it was all just general chit chat and stuff and talking about another user who was apparently in same area. Some of the thing's she said though in PM doesn't make me think she was lying about where she was too, oh hell my brain hurts and I am confused!!
I rarely talk in PM, conversation escapes me, I truely hope that one of the rare few I spoke too isn't really a full liar, just someone confused in a bad mental state?
Nr the South West, UK?
 
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CrushedHopes

Ex-narcissist that is looking to end himself soon
Nov 3, 2019
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Unless she's been in manic mode the entire time. I steered clear because of her tendency to mock or bully other people, but never suspected she was a scammer.

I'm sorry people got scammed.

For those of you using signatures to convey a message: I don't see them. Just so you know not everyone does.
Wow. I felt something was off when she hijacked my thread and started to shit on it. Now I don't feel so bad for fending her off by questioning how she is any different than a pro-lifer with all that provocation.
 
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Stan

Stan

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Aug 29, 2019
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Someone today showed me another communication regarding something else from this person. Not related to N and extremely worrying.

Was going to send SN to someone and sent them a picture of a bag of Sodium Nitrate.
 
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Santiago

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Mar 25, 2018
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Life rule number 1 is to never trust anyone. I thought the majority here knew tbf.
 
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CrushedHopes

CrushedHopes

Ex-narcissist that is looking to end himself soon
Nov 3, 2019
471
Dear god..... I feel very sad when people are tricked into buying the wrong materials for CTB. It makes me angry that Rachel has been screwing with the whole lot of us, especially the more vulnerable ones all this time. I'm livid. :angry:

As for me, I try to assume good faith towards other members here until they give me a reason not to.
 
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MeltingHeart

MeltingHeart

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Someone today showed me another communication regarding something else from this person. Not related to N and extremely worrying.

Was going to send SN to someone and sent them a picture of a bag of Sodium Nitrate.
why would anyone want someone else to send them SN, when so easy to get?! also that is v.worring that is was wrong stuff anyway. jeez its crazy. what the hell was going on...not like u can even make any money from sn..which makes it an even weirder thing to say u would do
 
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Shakespear's Brother

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Sep 10, 2019
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also that is v.worring that is was wrong stuff anyway. jeez its crazy. what the hell was going on...not like u can even make any money from sn..which makes it an even weirder thing to say u would do
Motives go beyond financial. This is predatory behavior aimed at causing physical harm to people.
 
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MeltingHeart

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CrushedHopes

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Nov 3, 2019
471
It's a done deal. Rachel was a faker and I am glad that she can't cause any more harm here. Just how vile could you get, trying to take advantage of vulnerable people? It goes against the core values of this community - to give support and comfort, and to help people find solace in their final moments.
 
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Are you lost too?

Are you lost too?

Operator, well let's forget about this call
Oct 18, 2019
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I've just come on to read all this.

I'm shocked and devastated. I've been in pm with Rachel74 constantly since I returned to ss in august. I got to know her and we became friends. Or at least I thought we did.

I thought I was good at spotting inconsistencies online and I didn't see any from her. Some up and down behavior but I assumed that was the bpd.

I confess, colour me niave but I'm really hurt. If she is a scammer (and from what I see here it looks likely ) then I'm appalled at her behaviour to befriend people in such an emotional position. She supported me. Now I'm devastated.

A part of me still hopes that she was genuine and her behaviour was part of the bpd.

If she was a scammer then she was a good one. I know you can't trust anyone online but my instincts told me she was genuine.

Now I don't know what to think and I'm questioning all the compassion I've been shown on here. I felt low before. Now...
I'm sure it was quite a hit. I know it is easier said than done, But please don't question everything here - there is real compassion and people who care. A real support system.

Sending you hugs and good thoughts.
 
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not4us

not4us

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Sep 21, 2019
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scammers tend to have more than one account, beware.
 
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CrushedHopes

CrushedHopes

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Nov 3, 2019
471
scammers tend to have more than one account, beware.
In that case, we'll just have to out them all. Predators get outed one way or another. That's coming from someone that thought he was the king of manipulation prior joining SS.
 
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ImsooDone1N

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Nov 22, 2018
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I think everyone is bit shocked at this. I certainly was. I recall seeing her name in posts, but never really paid much mind until I stumbled on a thread where she was involved a discussion about N & making arrangements with someone. I remember in the thread (I think) some user called another user their guardian angel for providing them with n. It seemed strange but I was happy that things seemingly worked. I still felt it was odd tho. Something seemed off. Guess I was unfortunately right. Truly Sorry to anyone who got deceived & lost money.
 
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WhiteDespair

WhiteDespair

The Temporary Problem is Life
Oct 24, 2019
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You never know. Someone can be friends with one person and torment another. It could be genuine in one case and fraudulent in another.
In that case, we'll just have to out them all. Predators get outed one way or another. That's coming from someone that thought he was the king of manipulation prior joining SS.

You're always the best until you meet someone better.
 
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Soulless_Angel

existence is futile
Jul 10, 2019
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It's a done deal. Rachel was a faker and I am glad that she can't cause any more harm here. Just how vile could you get, trying to take advantage of vulnerable people? It goes against the core values of this community - to give support and comfort, and to help people find solace in their final moments.

Maybe I am too kind, but speaking to others in PM, Rachel stayed true in her story to many ie location and personal circumstances. Maybe she was a faker, but I wouldn't say it was a done deal, I never saw her say a harsh word to another, but I have heard of it happening, but she never crossed me, for those times I spoke to her scammer or not, I thank her for taking the time to ask how I was doing and so forth
 
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CrushedHopes

Ex-narcissist that is looking to end himself soon
Nov 3, 2019
471
Legit N is very difficult to acquire - Rachel was able to scam so many people because a lot of us are vulnerable and we just want out of this hellhole very quickly. That makes it hard for a lot of us to think rationally. Seriously, fuck her and I'm glad she's exposed. Good freaking riddance.
 
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CrushedHopes

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Nov 3, 2019
471
Maybe I am too kind, but speaking to others in PM, Rachel stayed true in her story to many ie location and personal circumstances. Maybe she was a faker, but I wouldn't say it was a done deal, I never saw her say a harsh word to another, but I have heard of it happening, but she never crossed me, for those times I spoke to her scammer or not, I thank her for taking the time to ask how I was doing and so forth
That's a common goading tactic to make you let your guard down. I'd know - I've been doing this sort of shit for years. Never defend truly awful people. They don't deserve that courtesy.

For the last couple of years, I was "kind" to a lot of people outside of SS because I wanted to use them for my projects. I couldn't care LESS about their lives, or if they're struggling. All the "comfort" I provided to them was all fake. Not real. I only did it so that they'd think I actually cared, and hence, be inclined to continue providing their services.

I quit doing that because I am spending my final moments here. There's gotta be some good things that I could do before I'm gone.
 
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