rationaltake

rationaltake

I'm rocking it - in another universe
Sep 28, 2021
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So @TheBeautifulNightma is gone then.
 
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TheLastK

TheLastK

You can just call me K
Aug 6, 2022
109
Is @jossstick still around? I made them uncomfortable by accident and I want to apologize but I don't know if they ctb, if they see this I hope they understand and I'm sorry, and I really hope they haven't ctb.
 
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http-410

http-410

nowhere
Sep 12, 2020
1,043
Is @Flippy still around? They last posted in February.
 
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KuriGohan&Kamehameha

KuriGohan&Kamehameha

想死不能 - 想活不能
Nov 23, 2020
1,714
Has anyone heard from @Wrennie at all? Still nothing??
 
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DunnoWhyButYeah

DunnoWhyButYeah

~*-*~
Apr 3, 2020
385
Can anyone confirm what happened to @TheNorthernSilence ? He was my good friend since we both landed here in 2018, the last contact I had was 8 weeks ago, around the same time of his last activity here. It would help me know if he's gone and at peace. If you have any info please reply or dm. Thanks
He died. I send message for you
 
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not-2-b-the-answer

not-2-b-the-answer

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Mar 23, 2018
9,371
I don't know if this has been asked before.... maybe.
Can banned members still see their pm's?
 
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Smart No More

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May 5, 2021
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I don't know if this has been asked before.... maybe.
Can banned members still see their pm's?
No, I wouldn't think so. I don't think they're able to log in at all.
 
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Life_and_Death

Life_and_Death

Do what's best for you 🕯️ Right now, I'm stressed
Jul 1, 2020
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No, I wouldn't think so. I don't think they're able to log in at all.
could be wrong or maybe it was circumstances. i think youre right about the not logging on part but i think i remember someone whos name was crossed out that could, but like i said it could have been circumstances. it was a couple years ago and im not even sure how i got that info.
 
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Dead Meat

Dead Meat

DOOMED
Oct 10, 2018
18,395
Has anyone heard from @Wrennie at all?
 
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not-2-b-the-answer

not-2-b-the-answer

Archangel
Mar 23, 2018
9,371
No, I wouldn't think so. I don't think they're able to log in at all.
could be wrong or maybe it was circumstances. i think youre right about the not logging on part but i think i remember someone whos name was crossed out that could, but like i said it could have been circumstances. it was a couple years ago and im not even sure how i got that info.
Thanks for the info.
I know I've seen members with names crossed out still on here before, maybe that was family logging in after a member has passed.
 
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Smart No More

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May 5, 2021
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Thanks for the info.
I know I've seen members with names crossed out still on here before, maybe that was family logging in after a member has passed.
I think that's usually people who close their accounts/put them on private and log out. You can do it in the settings but it still allows you to log back into your account. People can put themselves on a kind of time out.
 
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Lost in a Dream

Lost in a Dream

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Feb 22, 2020
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I think that's usually people who close their accounts/put them on private and log out. You can do it in the settings but it still allows you to log back into your account. People can put themselves on a kind of time out.

So that's how it works. I've always wondered about that, but it's been a while since I've seen someone with a crossed out name come back.
 
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Smart No More

Visionary
May 5, 2021
2,734
So that's how it works. I've always wondered about that, but it's been a while since I've seen someone with a crossed out name come back.
That's one way but obviously some people don't come back and if they're banned by admin then they definitely wont. People often do it before they CTB for security reasons.
 
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Cathy Ames

Cathy Ames

Cautionary Tale
Mar 11, 2022
2,105
Is there anyone who has been in contact with @Pokèmon (aka Gabby or CTBus) outside of this forum?
 
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waitingforrest

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Dec 27, 2021
842
Is @Bootleg Astolfo okay? It's been a month :(
 
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GentleJerk

GentleJerk

Carrot juice pimp.
Dec 14, 2021
1,372
Has anyone heard from @Wrennie at all? Still nothing??
No, last time we were chatting in messenger was around the last time I saw her online too. Things had been tough to say the least. Really hope they're okay.

What about Judah / JustJudah?
 
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Myforevercharlie

Myforevercharlie

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Feb 13, 2020
3,100
No, last time we were chatting in messenger was around the last time I saw her online too. Things had been tough to say the least. Really hope they're okay.

What about Judah / JustJudah?
He changed his name
Bread with milk
 
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DunnoWhyButYeah

DunnoWhyButYeah

~*-*~
Apr 3, 2020
385
@Manaaja ?
 
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Molded foundation

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Sep 17, 2021
136
What happened to @Mendex ?
 
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Trilucid

Trilucid

Member
May 25, 2022
69
Not really here to look or ask for others at the moment.
But it does hurt like hell knowing how many have gone and passed.
Losing their battle once and for all on this cold as ice rock.
It's like that one lame joke nobody forgets...
 
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Interloper

Interloper

Jul 23, 2021
688
Has anyone heard from @dreadpirateroberts69?
 
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Disappointered

Disappointered

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Sep 21, 2020
1,283
Does anyone know what happened to Meditation Guide?
 
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Molded foundation

Student
Sep 17, 2021
136
Too many people I wonder about. Been here since May 2020, feels like I'm just watching a time lapse of people in a city. People just come and go.

Yes, I've been feeling this more intensely lately. There's always some old users who've stuck around, but new users check-in and check-out like crazy.
 
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chocolatebar

chocolatebar

Paragon
Jul 11, 2021
975
Do any of you know about @onlyanimalsaregood? She told me she was going to be away for a while, but it has been quite some time...

And about @PrincessInWhite? She disappeared all of a sudden and has been some time too.
 
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rationaltake

rationaltake

I'm rocking it - in another universe
Sep 28, 2021
2,712
Lots of coming and going atm. @StarryStarry was briefly back and has gone again. @catflowers has gone.
 
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Interloper

Interloper

Jul 23, 2021
688
And about @PrincessInWhite? She disappeared all of a sudden and has been some time too.
I wouldn't call it sudden, her condition worsens over time and there's only so much being here can do for her. She is in a lot of our thoughts but yeah.

I'm so desperate for mercy, hugs and being sad for me wont help me.

Lots of coming and going atm. @StarryStarry was briefly back and has gone again. @catflowers has gone.
@starry starry was just @StarryStarry and she had an argument with rain so she was probably banned. (sorry I just saw you did indeed tag her first account)
 
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chocolatebar

chocolatebar

Paragon
Jul 11, 2021
975
I wouldn't call it sudden, her condition worsens over time and there's only so much being here can do for her. She is in a lot of our thoughts but yeah.




@starry starry was just @StarryStarry and she had an argument with rain so she was probably banned.
Sorry for my choice of words. I don't know what she endures and how difficult it is to pass by and talk to so many users
 
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whatevs

whatevs

Mining for copium in the weirdest places.
Jan 15, 2022
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Too many people I wonder about. Been here since May 2020, feels like I'm just watching a time lapse of people in a city. People just come and go.

Tbf why would you extend you stay more than the bare minimum necessary. It makes sense that people leave, or leave here. If you get into the habit of checking out the forum daily like me it just means you're stuck in a personal hell that's not painful enough to push you to suicide but neither to stop thinking about It altogether.
 
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Julgran

Enlightened
Dec 15, 2021
1,427
Tbf why would you extend you stay more than the bare minimum necessary. It makes sense that people leave, or leave here. If you get into the habit of checking out the forum daily like me it just means you're stuck in a personal hell that's not painful enough to push you to suicide but neither to stop thinking about It altogether.

Some of those people may have decided to end their life already, but I believe that you are correct.

However, I also see a stay within this community as beneficial from an easy exit standpoint - meaning that it's beneficial just to have gone through the steps that may be necessary if push comes to shove, and have an easy step-by-step instruction for oneself if life gets too tough - much like preppers who buy a lot of food and other necessities in order to stay alive for long periods if a disaster strikes, but the other way around.

For example, one may not want to buy N or SN, but it's beneficial to know how to tie a proper hanging rope, in case life takes a turn for the worse. You could call it "suicide prepping".
 
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