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fawnfurever

fawnfurever

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Jan 14, 2025
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Saw the partnering forum, never thought I'd post there. I did, but I'm wondering what are the odds of actually finding a ctb partner? My instincts tell me that obviously it could be anyone who has plans worse than death for you. So , any stories on here of partnering gone wrong? Any experiences/ advice?
 
EvisceratedJester

EvisceratedJester

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Oct 21, 2023
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TennTrixie

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Aug 31, 2024
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I responded to a post of someone looking for a partner, but they never responded to my message. I gave up.
 
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foreverstardust

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Feb 5, 2025
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I do think I would like to find a partner, just to have someone in those last moments, but there is so much that could go wrong (as already has for those poor women) and obviously a site about suicide would draw some serious predators. I think if I was going to go for it I would make sure their account has a decent amount of history behind it, genuine interactions on posts and things that would make me more confident they were a real person, and then I'd follow general internet safety rules of meeting in a public place and gauging the vibes, and choosing a neutral location for the final deed so no one has the upper hand. I wouldn't ever go to someone's house alone, nor invite anyone to mine.

I do also think I would only meet other women/nb people, I know there are plenty of genuine men on here but I just wouldn't feel safe enough to go through with it.
 
Well_Its_Time

Well_Its_Time

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Jan 23, 2025
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Partnering up in what sense? CTB? Personal? I think that two broken people here cannot partner up personally and have a good relationship until each one is healthy and loves themselves so that they can love each other. For CTB, I think that it is a high risk that it could be a set up. Just my opinion.