Soulless_Angel
existence is futile
- Jul 10, 2019
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Brick In The Wall
2M Or Not 2B.
- Oct 30, 2019
- 25,158
I've had some serious anxiety from recent events. I thought I was over anxiety for good as I've tried to stop giving a fuck. How wrong I was hah! I'm always here for ya tho, much love to ya!
Hell yea, ex wife won't leave me alone to rebuild my life. She's fucking herself too cause if she keeps it up I CTB and there goes the child support.
Soulless_Angel
existence is futile
- Jul 10, 2019
- 2,225
right back atcha dude
as for the x wife, eurgh, the women species can be so evil when it comes to men and children!
@Brick In The Wall
Yeah! I've heard about it from a friend a few years back (IV or V, not sure) and I thought the premise sounded neat but I don't game much so I didn't play it till I saw your post about it being free. It's so exhausting though! I had like 40 cities at one point and I was killing myself to try to keep them all safe and happy while I went to war with the other countries.
On another note, how are you doing? You didn't seem too great late last week. Hope things are a little better this week.
Yeah! I've heard about it from a friend a few years back (IV or V, not sure) and I thought the premise sounded neat but I don't game much so I didn't play it till I saw your post about it being free. It's so exhausting though! I had like 40 cities at one point and I was killing myself to try to keep them all safe and happy while I went to war with the other countries.
On another note, how are you doing? You didn't seem too great late last week. Hope things are a little better this week.
Brick In The Wall
2M Or Not 2B.
- Oct 30, 2019
- 25,158
The thing is, I can't legally contact her tell Dec 2021 and she knows it. So for her to be following me and trying to talk to me feels like a setup.right back atcha dude
as for the x wife, eurgh, the women species can be so evil when it comes to men and children!
If she comes after me legally again I'm going to fuck her up with multiple felonies that I've not pressed charges on yet. I don't wana do that as she'll lose the kids but I gota lookout for myself too.
Thank you brother, I'm a huge gamer and an indie game dev even. But my mind has been too side tracked to enjoy it lately. I still appreciate the support though!
@Brick In The Wall
I feel. Hope you're taking care of yourself despite everything. Also, re the ex wife (sorry, not meaning to butt in), but maybe moving away might be a good idea? I know that's pretty hard with the lockdown crap but sounds like it might be something worth considering if she keeps after you. But I know nothing of such matters or your personal situation so maybe not such a great idea, but either way, I'm always here if you need to vent.
I feel. Hope you're taking care of yourself despite everything. Also, re the ex wife (sorry, not meaning to butt in), but maybe moving away might be a good idea? I know that's pretty hard with the lockdown crap but sounds like it might be something worth considering if she keeps after you. But I know nothing of such matters or your personal situation so maybe not such a great idea, but either way, I'm always here if you need to vent.
Brick In The Wall
2M Or Not 2B.
- Oct 30, 2019
- 25,158
No need to apologize! I always appreciate feedback! It would help to move in the short term. But hurt in the long run of seeing my kids again
Soulless_Angel
existence is futile
- Jul 10, 2019
- 2,225
Sometimes in order to put your children first, you have to be selfish, and there is nothing wrong with that, nothing at all.
Brick In The Wall
2M Or Not 2B.
- Oct 30, 2019
- 25,158
Coming from someone who really gets it, that means alot to me! Thank you for the continued support and advice!
sufferingalways
Avoiding flashing images, epilepsy.
- Apr 26, 2020
- 550
Hi brick in the wall, sorry to butt in but regarding your x wife, would mediation help at all? If someone else is trying to help they might see the negative within your situation and disempower any deliberate hurt from any one to the other in hard situations. I have used mediation for other issues and it helps to get an outsiders perspective. Just my 2p worth.
Something else i meamt to add, if you need to go to court at any point, the mediator can give evidence and if there's negative attitude towards you from your ex this can be extra support as you have an independent witness whose job means they are neutral. Not sure of costs, so shop around and see (when offices open of course) what you find.
Advocacy for all (ill search it in a moment) are advocacy so try them too?
If you're in the UK maybe ask WHICH? Consumer watchdog or try your local CAB, maybe even Shelter charity? These guys have helped me get a case to housing ombudsman so if they are not the right place they might have another to suggest?
I have found people on phone of various organisations plus liberty human rights for other issues, have been helpful if you arent sure whether they can help or not. They might have someone on their addresses list that joe public haven't heard of.
Bottom line its always worth asking. I wish you luck and hope you find the support you need!
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sufferingalways
Avoiding flashing images, epilepsy.
- Apr 26, 2020
- 550
That sounds horrible! So sorry for what you are going through. I have a few links for some possible helps but unsure if ghey be any help until you let me know if you're UK or other based. I have a nose for advocacy and im studying law. Happy to help if i can even just with a link or two.
Carina
Angelic
- Dec 22, 2019
- 4,005
Soulless_Angel
existence is futile
- Jul 10, 2019
- 2,225
what time is it were you are, its 10pm where I am I should be tired but meh! Ive fucked up again my mind is playing games with it, its not going to let me rest now :(
a.n.kirillov
velle non discitur
- Nov 17, 2019
- 1,831
Whats happening in the US has had a very bad effect on me. Bleak times are ahead of us and this crisis just shows how irrational and downright mad normal people are/ how fragile society is and the chaos that lurks just beneath the surface.
As a result I started drinking more booze again; falling into old habits. I've said "I'm done" too many times to still believe myself.
As a result I started drinking more booze again; falling into old habits. I've said "I'm done" too many times to still believe myself.
Lorntroubles
Photography by Haris Nukem.
- Jan 19, 2020
- 3,095
*Darts in SS lounge naked and plops on couch*
Ahhh! I'm comfortable!!!
Ahhh! I'm comfortable!!!
Soulless_Angel
existence is futile
- Jul 10, 2019
- 2,225
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It's really scary and has been a long time coming. Couldn't really have come at a worse time either, with the plague in town and Trump at the helm. There are dark days ahead.
Carina
Angelic
- Dec 22, 2019
- 4,005
a.n.kirillov
velle non discitur
- Nov 17, 2019
- 1,831
Just found an awesome comment on the German depression subreddit, that said talking to normies about depression is like trying to play porn in a kindergarden, lol.
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Soulless_Angel
existence is futile
- Jul 10, 2019
- 2,225
Brick In The Wall
2M Or Not 2B.
- Oct 30, 2019
- 25,158
Yea notifications have been wonky for a bit now. I get tagged and quoted and don't always get notified.
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Brick In The Wall
2M Or Not 2B.
- Oct 30, 2019
- 25,158
Maybe your highlighter ran dry.I can't highlight stuff anymore
Oh well, it's not like I have anything useful to highlight anyway
a.n.kirillov
velle non discitur
- Nov 17, 2019
- 1,831
Has anyone here read the man without qualities by musil?
what do you mean by highlightOh well, it's not like I have anything useful to highlight anyway
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I can no longer select/highlight text on this site, so I can't quote, cut/paste or reply, except to reply to an entire post. It's somewhat annoying.
not-2-b-the-answer
Archangel
- Mar 23, 2018
- 9,388
I can no longer select/highlight text on , so I can't quote, cut/paste or (I can add in the middle of yours, or delete words) reply, except to
You should at least be able to remove the parts of a post when you are in the reply mode. Maybe I'm not understanding correctly... if so I apologize.
I don't think I did that right or not the way I wanted to.
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Lol, I think I got it, and yes I can still do that but only by using backspace, I can't select text to cut. Well, I can, but I can't see what I've selected because it won't highlight. I get so frustrated messing about with it I just give up.I don't think I did that right or not the way I wanted to.
not-2-b-the-answer
Archangel
- Mar 23, 2018
- 9,388
Lol, I think I got it, and yes I can still do that but only by using backspace, I can't select text to cut. Well, I can, but I can't see what I've selected because it won't highlight. I get so frustrated messing about with it I just give up.
Hmm … I just tried and it let me highlight & cut and pate your post.
Hmm … I just tried and it let me highlight & cut and pate your post.
I think it's my browser, Opera, it's been playing silly buggers, some update will have borked it.
