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What the title says (you can select multiple items from the list)

  • No

    Votes: 14 40.0%
  • Yes (online friends)

    Votes: 11 31.4%
  • Yes (IRL friends)

    Votes: 11 31.4%
  • Yes (family)

    Votes: 11 31.4%
  • Yes (mental health professionals)

    Votes: 15 42.9%
  • Yes (other)

    Votes: 2 5.7%

  • Total voters
    35
A

AnonymousCat1

Member
Apr 17, 2026
29
Feel free to comment in addition to voting!

Anyway, in my case, no one else knows.
 
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Kanau_Nano

Kanau_Nano

Member
Apr 12, 2026
42
It was very hard to hide it when I disappeared for 2 weeks in the psych. People thought I was killed. They also made me call my family so someone could watch me. Idk how you would explain away being gone that long
 
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Lazuli

Lazuli

Member
Oct 26, 2020
36
Nobody knows and won't be able to guess. I'm a decent actress lol
 
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apearl

apearl

mitski fan
Sep 25, 2023
208
My therapist partially knows, but I only tell her what I can get away with (not trying to get 5150d)
 
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hurts2b

hurts2b

Member
Mar 14, 2026
89
Yes and no. Some people in my life know about my history. But I haven't really talked about it.
 
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_wishforwings

_wishforwings

Forever is such an unpleasant word.
Feb 4, 2026
78
People know I have depression and mental health issues so it may not be too surprising when I do CTB but not a single soul knows about any of my past attempts or ideations
 
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mikidagreen

mikidagreen

dismal enjoyer
Apr 14, 2026
24
people know i struggled with depression but as of recent ive been hiding my SI a lot since its looking like the more likely outcome and i dont wanna bother anyone with it
 
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SomeDude

SomeDude

Member
Apr 16, 2026
6
I am just wondering since no one has voted "Other" yet... what would that be? The only thing that comes to mind would be strangers
Is there even anything else besides that?
 
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A

AnonymousCat1

Member
Apr 17, 2026
29
I am just wondering since no one has voted "Other" yet... what would that be? The only thing that comes to mind would be strangers
Is there even anything else besides that?
Idk lol. Strangers? Police? A priest?
 
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Topaz111

Topaz111

I can feel this body in revolt
Mar 9, 2026
191
My parents and psychiatrist know about some of my past attempts, but nobody outside of SaSu knows that I am currently suicidal.
 
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SomeDude

SomeDude

Member
Apr 16, 2026
6
Idk lol. Strangers? Police? A priest?
Oh yeah 😮 Thats a good answer
I havent thought about the police ... but then again who would tell them?? A priest I could probably tell, maybe... but with the popo I guess you would just get admitted to some kind of mental institute or something like that
 
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AnonymousCat1

Member
Apr 17, 2026
29
Oh yeah 😮 Thats a good answer
I havent thought about the police ... but then again who would tell them?? A priest I could probably tell, maybe... but with the popo I guess you would just get admitted to some kind of mental institute or something like that
Yeah I'm thinking that if the police knows, mental health services also knows
 
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thinvy

thinvy

Woefully Yours, Luka
Aug 7, 2023
232
I am just wondering since no one has voted "Other" yet... what would that be? The only thing that comes to mind would be strangers
Is there even anything else besides that?
I mean by nature of me talking about being suicidal on here and not knowing any of you well enough personally to call you all my friends, that would be the "other", lol.

But yeah, I've told online friends and irl friends because I tend to only ever attract other mentally ill people and we sometimes confide in one another. I've probably told my mom in a fit of panic and disassociation, and I've alluded to it but never explicitly told a therapist "I plan to end my own life" because the one time I mentioned a med giving me the itch to SH again, she threatened to call the cops and 51-50 me. Not all pyschs or therapists are like that, but I'm not risking things anymore.
 
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