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Iwashereonce

Iwashereonce

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Apr 25, 2019
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I don't know because my family will associate my birthday and death the same time
 
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chloeburbank

chloeburbank

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Jan 30, 2026
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I would wait. I personally don't want to do it close to anyone's birthday so I don't ruin it for them.
 
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Aknu132

Aknu132

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Dec 25, 2023
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Better wait.
 
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isthisthingon

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May 16, 2026
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I don't think it matters. If it's time it's time.
 
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volo

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Apr 22, 2026
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Doesn't matter. It's your own life and your business. Unfortunately.
 
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DeathSweetDeath

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Some people actually choose to CTB on their birthdays so that their family will have one day of the year to mourn instead of two. But particularly if your parents are still alive, that may be tough for them since they have so many memories of that day. Ultimately, you should do whatever you feel you must. It's your life & your decision.
 

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