Venting I'M IN A SOUR MOOD.

[CFLoser]

I feel bad. I just laid in bed all day and couldn't accomplish any of my goals for this weekend.

Why does the act of setting goals cause my brain to shut down? It makes no sense. To make myself do anything, it feels like I need to trick myself into doing it.

And u know what sucks? When ur bf says he is masturbating so he can't talk rn. He masturbates for like 1000 hours at a time

 

[Kyrok]

So, you can't find the energy to get out of bed and your bf would rather jerk off than talk to you? Any connection there?

 

[CFLoser]

So, you can't find the energy to get out of bed and your bf would rather jerk off than talk to you? Any connection there?

Probably... ur right my bad.

 

[netrezven]

I can say only what i would do (i'm a man) - after i break with this bf my first goal will be to find a new and better one. Chances are he stays only because he can't or is too lazy to find a new gf. Not because of love. No place for any guilt here.
If you partner can't excite you and you prefer to lay all day - what a partner is that? Same - if my partner is in good health and prefers to sleep all her life instead of doing something at least with me - she won't be my partner very soon.
If you want changes - do your day differently and in a way in which you totally lose your comfort zone. Adrenaline helps in such states and you won't even remember your routine anymore.
I'm just telling my way of solving such problems. I used to be like that a few months ago, just a period.

 

[Firecaste]

When ur bf says he is masturbating so he can't talk rn. He masturbates for like 1000 hours at a time

I can relate.

 

[leaps]

And u know what sucks? When ur bf says he is masturbating so he can't talk rn. He masturbates for like 1000 hours at a time

 

[Final Escape]

I feel bad. I just laid in bed all day and couldn't accomplish any of my goals for this weekend.

Why does the act of setting goals cause my brain to shut down? It makes no sense. To make myself do anything, it feels like I need to trick myself into doing it.

And u know what sucks? When ur bf says he is masturbating so he can't talk rn. He masturbates for like 1000 hours at a time

I had a bf like that, it's not healthy. Not when they are addicted to that degree. He was also addicted to other things too. We were both addicts I guess. I didn't even realize at that time how seriously the Adderall was impacting me. Looking back all my relationships were with people I shouldn't have been involved with. My life's been a complete waste.