I hate being ugly

[Mlifos & Sitoa]

Ugly and short. Even if god exists, I don't believe in him. I don't wanna believe in something this sadistic, this cruel that creates something this useless, ugly and short as me. Sometimes I wanna believe in because I wanna feel safe and content for once. But then I don't because how unfair life is.

 

[Oliver]

Incredibly sickening that some of the most important things in life (your genetics) is almost entirely out of your control.

 

[makebelieve]

being ugly is a nightmare. i dont want to live in this reality anymore.

 

[DivineSpark]

Sometimes, it is in your head. Low self esteem and such. Some people are never happy how they look, resorting to plastic surgery. I think I am average in every way, althoiugh I have been given compliments about my looks in the past.

 

[devils~advocate]

How do you know that you fit in this category?
I assume someone has told you this.....but how would they know?
This is all very subjective and highly variable.

 

[Hypocrite_]

How do you know that you fit in this category?
I assume someone has told you this.....but how would they know?
This is all very subjective and highly variable.

It may be precisely the subjective, negative evaluations of oneself that is inescapable. But of course barring full blown BDD, one is informed that they are physically undesirable by lived experiences, photographic evidence and peer comparisons.

If one truly deems oneself ugly and unlovable due to a myriad of circumstances/reasons, who can change their mind about it? Are y'all born loving your own reflection in the mirror?

 

[devils~advocate]

It may be precisely the subjective, negative evaluations of oneself that is inescapable. But of course barring full blown BDD, one is informed that they are physically undesirable by lived experiences, photographic evidence and peer comparisons.

If one truly deems oneself ugly and unlovable due to a myriad of circumstances/reasons, who can change their mind about it? Are y'all born loving your own reflection in the mirror?

What you have listed is a viable list to understand why someone might feel this way. The original poster didn't state the reasonings....hence the questions to find out where this coming from. Maybe them posting what they have, is a way of them reaching out to people to confirm or not their feelings.

 

[devils~advocate]

Im sorry you feel this way about yourself. I understand the feelings. For myself, it started in high school.....the place of infinite judgments and shallowness.
Its tough to see how people can treat others. We dont live in a nice loving world.

 

[sixthgun]

Ugly and short. Even if god exists, I don't believe in him. I don't wanna believe in something this sadistic, this cruel that creates something this useless, ugly and short as me. Sometimes I wanna believe in because I wanna feel safe and content for once. But then I don't because how unfair life is.

I feel you. I hate beauty standards so much. It feels like your only options when you're ugly are to either get plastic surgery, be smart and funny to make up for your looks, or be rich.

I genuinely cannot accept that the face in the mirror is mine. It doesn't feel like the true me. It feels like some shitty TikTok filter. At least with my body I can just lose weight/go to the gym, but there's no way to fix my face without surgery that rarely looks good most of the time.

And then I go on social media and see average people complaining about not being handsome/pretty. I would kill to have even an average face.

 

[softtodie]

I feel this I hate so much about myself my looks being one of them I wish so badly I could get surgery or something and it feels even worse when I feel like I have nothing else good about me instead to make up for it I'm just a lazy boring awkward waste of space