decentraleyes
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- Jun 11, 2026
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I don't want to go into too much detail because I'm afraid someone I know may see this, I've been planning to ctb for a long time and I'm most likely going to do it pretty soon because I'm really at my wits end with my living conditions
I have talked to my (long-distance) partner about my plans and obviously they don't want to see me go, we've known each other for a long time and were planning to move in together in the future but I honestly don't see it as feasible given my situation and family and I really can't do this anymore for that long
I really don't want them to be devastated by my (admittedly selfish) choice, but it is final and i just want to soften the blow, I don't want them to think it was their fault or that they could have done something better to prevent it. I don't know if leaving a note afterwards is enough and I wouldn't even know what to write in it
Maybe some of you are in similar situations, I would like to hear what you would do
Sorry about the quality of this post, I'm not really sure why I'm even writing this
I have talked to my (long-distance) partner about my plans and obviously they don't want to see me go, we've known each other for a long time and were planning to move in together in the future but I honestly don't see it as feasible given my situation and family and I really can't do this anymore for that long
I really don't want them to be devastated by my (admittedly selfish) choice, but it is final and i just want to soften the blow, I don't want them to think it was their fault or that they could have done something better to prevent it. I don't know if leaving a note afterwards is enough and I wouldn't even know what to write in it
Maybe some of you are in similar situations, I would like to hear what you would do
Sorry about the quality of this post, I'm not really sure why I'm even writing this
