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Blue Ocean

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Jan 26, 2025
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people say looks don't matter but they absolutely do and I am tired of hearing about it, it's so exhausting keeping up with the standards of the world after changing so fast

I wish i was someone else who could easily fit into standards of western society
 
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TheLastGreySky

Wizard
Nov 24, 2023
690
people say looks don't matter but they absolutely do and I am tired of hearing about it, it's so exhausting keeping up with the standards of the world after changing so fast

I wish i was someone else who could easily fit into standards of western society
So I've been told everything from I'm good looking to I'm ugly, and while I've never really had a problem finding a girlfriend so I assume I'm more on the good looking spectrum than the ugly spectrum... I will be the first one to admit I have body dysphoria. And that is something that you can go to therapy for, but in my personal experience I never really felt better about myself.
I don't like the way I look. I don't like my eyes.
I don't like my nose. I don't like me.

I mean this in only a complimentary way,
Whether you're a man or a woman you're beautiful just the way you are and I hope one day you feel beautiful.
 
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Sweetsinking

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Jul 30, 2023
47
Yes 100%. I'm not ugly, but I'm not attractive. I also don't look super mature for my age (in a bad way) and I don't have the same glow others my age seem to have too. My features contradict each other, etc. But it's just so so so painful to look at yourself and know you will be in this body forever. The only thing you can do it pay for surgery or workout, still lame in the end.

I also know this was just a tiktok troll, and it doesn't really hurt me, but they called me a trans icon... them for sure knowing I'm 100% a cis girl (might've been me accidentally drawing my eyebrows blocky...but still)
 
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kimcoffee_

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Mar 7, 2025
56
The internet has really screwd with our sence of worth as a society I think
 
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swell

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Oct 1, 2024
5
I can't stand my appearance every time I look in the mirror it makes me want to self-harm or kill myself, i just can't bear being in public, i just feel so disgusting and ugly and feel like everyone else looks normal except me, so i never really go outside anymore.
 

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