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Boudika

Boudika

Trauma? Oh you mean reason why I'm hilarious
Aug 22, 2023
169
They live in different time zone so if I attemted for example at 1am, it would be for example 7pm for them. And I don't want to freak them out with goodbye letter that they will read as soon as I send it and freak out, trying to stop me. I'm thinking about getting my irl friend to notify them but I don't want to make him sus about my mental state.

At the same time I don't want them to think that I ghosted them.

Any ideas what to do? I think just texting my irl friend list of people to notify if something happens to me.

Uptade: I talked with my friend and quoted it "in case of emergency". He promised he will do it if something happens to me, so everything is good!
 
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MercenariesofMidgar

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Nov 30, 2024
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Was just going to have irl friends give them my messages tbh
 
nymphojuno

nymphojuno

total girlfailure
Nov 30, 2023
34
maybe irl friends or schedule a message? i know discord doesn't have an in-app message scheduling function but maybe you could do it via a bot?
 
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dexdbxtchthewxtch

dexdbxtchthewxtch

flirting with death đź–¤
Dec 31, 2024
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I'm thinking you'd need someone like minded who wouldn't attempt to stop you, and would be ready to notify a few users in the event you successfully pass. Someone on SaSu would probably be your best bet!
 
TheHolySword

TheHolySword

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Nov 22, 2024
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Maybe not the most ideal way to deliver news but if you know their emails you could schedule it that way. Otherwise a trusted 3rd party would be your best option.
 
Boudika

Boudika

Trauma? Oh you mean reason why I'm hilarious
Aug 22, 2023
169
I'm thinking you'd need someone like minded who wouldn't attempt to stop you, and would be ready to notify a few users in the event you successfully pass. Someone on SaSu would probably be your best bet!
Honestly it's great idea. If my friend refuses to do this I will look for it here
Maybe not the most ideal way to deliver news but if you know their emails you could schedule it that way. Otherwise a trusted 3rd party would be your best option.
Unfortunately I don't know their emails :/
 
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yehxlder.666

yehxlder.666

Paranoid Android
Sep 22, 2024
50
Honestly it's great idea. If my friend refuses to do this I will look for it here
Idk if trusting someone HERE to contact your close friends is a good idea tbh. You may know why.

You can schedule message your IRL friend to let both your irl and discord friends know.
 
Boudika

Boudika

Trauma? Oh you mean reason why I'm hilarious
Aug 22, 2023
169
Idk if trusting someone HERE to contact your close friends is a good idea tbh. You may know why.

You can schedule message your IRL friend to let both your irl and discord friends know.
Uptade: I talked with my friend and quoted it "in case of emergency". He promised he will do it if something happens to me, so everything is good!
 
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