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No way. That would be really mean.
If I have a child I won't CTB at all, bringing a kid into this world then leaving them like this, that's just not right
sadworld
existence is a nightmare
- Aug 25, 2020
- 3,868
I would probably never ctb if I had a child. That's also one of the reasons why I'd rather not have one.
BeansOfRequirement
Man-child, loser, autistic, etc.
- Jan 26, 2021
- 5,821
I would never bring an innocent soul into this meatgrinder moshpit. But if I had a kid I would at least take them out humanely before offing myself.
Blue Rose
Student
- Feb 6, 2021
- 156
No, Never. I have no children, but I can imagine my pitiful children who must endure their extreme agony until their death.
it would be ridiculous or two-faced someone. But I think. As a pro-choicer or mild & passive pro-mortalist, we should not break 'the minimum rules' in our life.
Our right and liberty are dignified. AND those who are pro-lifer and those who are not pro-choicer have their dignified right and liberty. We should not trample over them.
it would be ridiculous or two-faced someone. But I think. As a pro-choicer or mild & passive pro-mortalist, we should not break 'the minimum rules' in our life.
Our right and liberty are dignified. AND those who are pro-lifer and those who are not pro-choicer have their dignified right and liberty. We should not trample over them.
"take them out humanely" what does that even mean? oO
BeansOfRequirement
Man-child, loser, autistic, etc.
- Jan 26, 2021
- 5,821
Whatever you want it to mean :) Most likely "take them outside" before I kill myself.
I just hope the remaining family members are not miserable after that,
someone wrote that the timing might have been the point and that the person just had the mood and opportunity to do it that day
someone wrote that the timing might have been the point and that the person just had the mood and opportunity to do it that day
BeansOfRequirement
Man-child, loser, autistic, etc.
- Jan 26, 2021
- 5,821
Absolutely not. I considered ending my life on the anniversary of my mother's death, but after my eldest niece was born, almost to the day, I decided against that as it would hurt her - she's only eight now. If I couldn't do it to my niece, I couldn't do it to my daughter.
awfullife
Arcanist
- Nov 16, 2019
- 435
Friendly reminder not all of us on here have been suicidal / had awful existences our whole life. When I had kids my life was amazing. Fast forward 10 years and now it's time to CTB.
sorella santini
Member
- Jan 19, 2021
- 87
I would never ever even think about doing that. They are the only things keeping me alive right now..
olieolieoxenfree
Member
- Dec 29, 2020
- 46
I don't believe in morals too much, but that's f'ed up. Lol
UselessMF
Member
- Dec 4, 2020
- 82
Same thing here, constant fight in my mind between my love for them and my desire to end it all.
Exactly and to add to your comment is it more moral for a young person to ctb and leave parents and family behind or a parent ctb leaving is child behind ? Thats a question that no one have the real answer since moral is not the same for everyone.
imsorrythatimhere
They/He
- Jan 18, 2021
- 86
If I had a kid I'd never CTB. Leaving a child like that is horrible. (Unless I was that shitty of a parent and could somehow ensure that the kid would be happier without me)
UselessMF
Member
- Dec 4, 2020
- 82
Almost everybody that have that opinion actually dont have kids. No offense but depression and desire to ctb are not planned years before. Sometimes it's hard to understand others realty.
I agree that every dad or mom should keep fighting for the love of their children but sometimes mental illness is too much overwhelming and you enter some kind of a tunnel vision that no reasons are enough to keep you alive.
Shades of Grey
Student
- Jun 17, 2020
- 183
I've been suicidal since early childhood, and have always felt strongly that if I were to choose to have kids, I would also be choosing not to end my life prematurely... particularly while they're young.
I understand that not everyone shares my feelings on this, but ending your life on a child's birthday sends some truly awful messages and would most likely maximize the trauma experienced by that individual. It's a no from me.
I understand that not everyone shares my feelings on this, but ending your life on a child's birthday sends some truly awful messages and would most likely maximize the trauma experienced by that individual. It's a no from me.
Throwmyselfaway
Not gone yet but soon
- Jan 14, 2020
- 797
No I wouldn't. I'm trying to avoid birthdays in general.
W’ren
Worthless
- Oct 28, 2020
- 557
I have no children- but i am not going to ctb on anyone's birthday, (in my immediate family) out of respect- even though i was not always shown the respect i should have been shown by certain people...
The way i see it is if one can't avoid birthdays out of love, then at least avoid them out of respect.
Don't mar someone's day of celebration.
But that's my opinion, i understand that others may be seeking to get the person's attention and ctb on their birthday on purpose to cause grief or to prove a point... or to send a message.
The way i see it is if one can't avoid birthdays out of love, then at least avoid them out of respect.
Don't mar someone's day of celebration.
But that's my opinion, i understand that others may be seeking to get the person's attention and ctb on their birthday on purpose to cause grief or to prove a point... or to send a message.
You have 364 more days in a year. I don't know what kind of agenda would I have to have to select that particular day and ruin my childs birthday forever. Nah, if you want your own special day, pick your own special day. Don't hijack some other persons birthday. Do it on your own birthday. That seems more appropriate.
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x~Sophia~x
Always give 100% - unless you’re donating blood.
- Sep 10, 2020
- 1,360
I'm wondering if this is a trick question... like, - if someone answers that they wouldn't even consider ctb on their child's birth date, then why would they even ctb if they HAVE a child?
I can't think of any reason why you would ask this question OP?
I can't think of any reason why you would ask this question OP?
Sometimes, and dare I say it, quite often, you say the most ridiculous things!
Are you suggesting that you believe that every single member of SS, don't have children?
But that isn't what you meant, is it.
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DetachedDreamer97
Enlightened
- Mar 17, 2018
- 1,402
Now... I may be a selfish... but this is where I draw the line. It would really fuck things up for the child to have his birthday be associated with a relative's death... let alone if that relative is their parent. It'll be like a bad omen. I can only imagine the child would probably be blamed by grieving family members. The words that'll echo in his head is "YOU SHOULD HAVE DIED!"
x~Sophia~x
Always give 100% - unless you’re donating blood.
- Sep 10, 2020
- 1,360
Hmm, I don't think OP meant 'would you ctb on the day that your child is born', moreso the anniversary of their child's birth.
saltshaker
salt shaker, rule breaker
- Jan 29, 2021
- 402
DetachedDreamer97
Enlightened
- Mar 17, 2018
- 1,402
I know that part... Though either way, it's still about as bad, if not worse.
StuckAF
Member
- Apr 16, 2020
- 92
