houseofleaves
and this with thee remains.
- Jan 14, 2022
- 549
The dude, er, CTB'd. End of story .
When they refuse to communicate, it feels like a pretty one sided relationship. It sounds incredible frustrating to deal with especially when you're the only one putting in work. I'm glad you realized your worth and left. Do you miss him at all or have you either of you tried reaching out since breaking
When they refuse to communicate, it feels like a pretty one sided relationship. It sounds incredible frustrating to deal with especially when you're the only one putting in work. I'm glad you realized your worth and left. Do you miss him at all or have you either of you tried reaching out since breaking up?
We have talked after it happened. I still love him dearly but just as friends now. He is an amazing person. I wish I had met him at a different time where he already fixed his troubles with communication. I wish him the best though, but I can't stop feeling melancholic and sad about the breakup. For me it feels like a divorce, and my depression has gotten worse since he left. He was all I had.When they refuse to communicate, it feels like a pretty one sided relationship. It sounds incredible frustrating to deal with especially when you're the only one putting in work. I'm glad you realized your worth and left. Do you miss him at all or have you either of you tried reaching out since breaking up?
Sounds very much like my experience. Amazing guy, kind, smart, you name it. I tried so hard to get him to open up, and he did, but rarely, and it felt like only under duress. He started counselling, and so did I. His inability to communicate with me led to a couple of blowouts and I realised I was putting in all the work to smooth things over, every time. But because he never said much - and my probable BPD - I never felt like things were truly resolved. I sucked it up and tried to move on. But last week I realised all the journalling letters to him wasn't getting me any closer to having the emotional connection we were lacking, and, after almost two years, I ended things. I am distraught - he may not have understood me but he was patient and kind and thoughtful.my ex was a very difficult person to talk to. He would bottle up all his feelings and opinions to himself. If I asked if something was wrong or bothering him, he would say "nothing" or that everything was "ok". I can't be in a relationship where someone doesn't know how to communicate at all. Trying to get him to talk to me was a hard job. I think he wasn't mature enough and he has to work on himself. Our relationship statted to fail as I got tired of him not opening up. He started chatting with someone only over text, I saw it and I decided to end the relationship. I understand he could have trouble expressing but it is one own responsibility to communicate. If they don't want to communicate and expect us to guess them out, I prefer to just leave.