Discussion What would be your ideal partner?

[not-2-b-the-answer]

My ideal partner would be really hot, in fact she'd have massive tits, but also she'd respect the Right To Die and when i talk about this at length she would get horny in a big way even though my breath stinks and I'm boring as fuck

OMG !!!!
You are too funny.....

 

[Namelesa]

Someone whose appearance is androgynous or feminine and is preferable trans and autistic. I want them to be able to be empathetic and understanding to my problems and I can hopefully be able to do the same to them as well. I want to be able share each our interests together. I would like someone who loves physical touch as that's my strongest love language and especially love big long huggies. I want someone who can accept me for who I am.

 

[Chinaski]

Someone whose appearance is androgynous or feminine and is preferable trans and autistic.

This is literally everyone on the internet in the year of our lord two thousand and twenty four the floor is yours

 

[not-2-b-the-answer]

OMG !!!!
You are too funny.....

Ohhhh..... You were serious..... I'm so sorry. I think you are awesome.

 

[Namelesa]

This is literally everyone on the internet in the year of our lord two thousand and twenty four the floor is yours

definitely an increase of those types of people existing but its sadly not that easy for me to stay in a relationship cus of my fear of abandonment and other mental problems.

Also I can't handle online friendships or relationships that well cus I have more paranoia with interacting online.

 

[kitia973]

My ideal partner? Someone who doesn't judge me for having near-criminal thoughts and tendencies. It would be nice to live with someone who doesn't constantly want to report me to the police.

Also, hot.

 

[Chinaski]

My ideal partner? Someone who doesn't judge me for having near-criminal thoughts and tendencies.

Tbf you're more likely to find this person by getting a jail sentence

definitely an increase of those types of people existing

Nah it's the same cunts who existed twenty years ago but now there's an online aesthetic they can adopt in lieu of a fucking personality

 

[scottchy]

This is a great question as I've wondered this myself also.
I start by saying I currently have a gf and have cosistantly had gf's.
The dilemma is that this is as fas as it goes. I simply cannot find someone that I can call a partner.
The girls I date only lives for the right now. No goals, no ambition, no desire just immediate gratification.
This is never planned. I simply meet a girl i like and take her out and it's great but then we get serious and she becomes an unmotivated child.
I love food! period. But she only likes food in the shape of dinosaurs with a side of ketchup. Or tacos (meat and cheese only)
I want to travel, she wants to stay home.
I want children and a family, she wants to be the child.

I would KILL to find a person to call a partner. To build legos with, play video games, share experiences and enjoy new foods and have thrilling adventures and simply someone that I know has my back no matter what and I can happily call my best friend.

Unfortunately, I'm convinced these people don't exist. Or if they do, they are either already stuck in shitty relationships with a "bro" that cheats and treats them like shit and only thinks of his own needs (basically the male equivalent of my gf)
Or they have such low self esteem and they feel they will scare us away with their "weirdness" or that they are simply too afraid to put themselves out there and never have an opportunity to find us.

Codependency is a poison but its a comfort. It's slowly and painfully killing us but at least we're comfortable and don't have to be social, or be rejected, or reminded of my own low self esteem or simply risk getting old and being alone.

I suppose I'll just keep doing my thing and post on my forums feeling sad and alone while she naively browses Facebook and fashion trends right next to me.

 

[EternalShore]

My ideal partner would be really hot, in fact she'd have massive tits, but also she'd respect the Right To Die and when i talk about this at length she would get horny in a big way even though my breath stinks and I'm boring as fuck

You're not boring~ :) You're a jokester who likes to poke fun at things all the time~ :) They may not always land with me (altho I liked this one~), but I'm sure they will with someone else! ^_^

 

[princexhhn]

Someone understanding and actually loves/cares for me. I have someone like this but they aren't really a romantic partner, it's a queer-platonic relationship. And plus points, asexual because I'm asexual.

 

[death_bed221]

I just want someone I have a connection with. With every other person its like there are walls, No one is being their 100% self. I just want someone that can be their true self around me and I can also.

 

[Su Xin]

What is my ideal partner like?
I want someone who will play along with me when I'm being silly or mischievous and won't criticize me for being childish. (Of course, I'm good at reading the room, but if I sense something is wrong, I'll stop and think about what's going on with her.)

I also want her to take the lead in most situations, so I don't have to think too much. The most, most, most important thing is that she understands me and doesn't ignore me. I really fear being ignored. (I recently went through this, and being ignored felt awful; when something goes wrong, I can't fix it without communication.)

As for appearance, I don't want someone who is overweight, but her face doesn't have to be perfect. It would be great if she has a handsome or cool vibe. (Of course, if she's a little overweight, I'd like to work out together to change that. A bit selfish, haha.)
(Translated by Google,I don't speak English)(ó﹏ò｡)

 

[kitia973]

The most, most, most important thing is that she understands me and doesn't ignore me. I really fear being ignored. (I recently went through this, and being ignored felt awful; when something goes wrong, I can't fix it without communication.)

That does sound like an terrible experience. Feeling ignored and neglected in an relationship can destroy the affection and trust between two people.

 

[grungy自殺]

I would want one that isn't demanding with me and is very patient to allow me to learn and understand (since there's so much in relationships that i don't seem to grasp nowadays)

 

[render]

anyone who accepts me as i am and wont abandon me……. well, thats certainly not happening, so ill go eith tge runner up: a bottle of mango soju :P

 

[Su Xin]

That does sound like an terrible experience. Feeling ignored and neglected in an relationship can destroy the affection and trust between two people.

**Logically speaking, I also made mistakes. When I heard her say, "Don't come looking for me" (like chatting or playing games together—this happened during our long-distance relationship when we were on vacation), that message hit me so suddenly. The day before, everything had been so pleasant. I had even bought her a game package, and one for her cousin and best friend too (her cousin had previously suggested that I join them in buying it, but I had said, "I'm not a fan of spending money on games." Later, I felt that saying that was not very considerate, so I offered to buy it for them, even though I didn't need it myself). Everything was so joyful; she seemed so happy...

I often talk about these moments. From that day onwards, I have been constantly worried and doubting everything. Honestly, my recounting of events might be subjective; at least, to this day, I still don't know how much harm I might have caused her. I keep focusing on how she treated me poorly...

I should have trusted her, relied on her. If I truly liked her, I shouldn't have let my negative emotions affect her. Even though she later told one of her good friends in her class, "He's not handsome enough to spark any feelings." There was also a time when her class teacher talked about the standards for choosing a partner, and she said her requirement was "handsome." The teacher replied that "handsomeness is more of a feeling," so she changed her answer to "someone with a good personality."

Sigh, I don't feel like talking about this anymore. Both of us had problems; we both lacked sufficient understanding. Honestly, I haven't read enough books to properly manage my own negative emotions. Well, I've already tried so much to make amends.

Oh, I forgot to mention—when she was chatting with her close friend from class, she asked, "Isn't he good enough to you?" The reply was, "He's good to me, but not handsome enough."

 

[S like suicide]

Just my person,that one person that was made for me like i was made for him.
Someone with whom you never feel ashamed,someone you can be completely yourself with, who accepts you and makes you feel loved for who you are.
Someone with whom there is harmony, joy and love.
true love can create beautiful things and happiness.

 

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Virgin (or at least not with dozens previous loves :) ) suicidal vegetarian girl, who wears sneakers. :) Maybe with mental disorders, but with lively criticism. :)