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NoSentimentality

NoSentimentality

Member
Apr 30, 2020
37
Beautiful (to me) inwardly & outwardly, loyal, acceptably strong (not necessarily as much physically as mentally), brave (by female standards of course -but not the modern ones), acceptably intelligent i.e free-thinker (intelligence could be balanced out with funny though -as in; if I can't talk deeply with the person "at least" she can make me laugh) healthy, compassionate yet badass still.
 
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thx1138

thx1138

Student
Jun 28, 2019
160
Someone who sees me as a real human person instead of something to use and abuse, and someone who likes to have conversations instead of just waiting for their turn to speak. Someone compassionate and loyal to a fault, just like me. Someone who will never judge me and never leave me. They could be ugly as sin for all I care, looks don't matter to me at all, neither does social status, all that matters is a beautiful soul.
 
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NoSentimentality

NoSentimentality

Member
Apr 30, 2020
37
Someone who will never judge me and never leave me.

"Never judge you", might I ask what you mean by that?
As in you'd be almighty?
If you rape babies, steal christmas, cheat & never flush after no. 2, you're not to be judged?
Above all criticism? The person can never condemn you in any way regardless what you do?
Then I must tell you, you want a slave, a person without free will, lower than a dog (at least they only have Stockholm syndrome).
 
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K-O

K-O

FU(KOFFEE
Apr 16, 2020
1,462
im drawn to extremes.
ive had all sorts of partners but the ones (soulmate) i truly felt completely sure and was mentally physically spiritually emotionally elevated by us being together have both ctb, one not long ago and the other 13 years ago..
so i guess im instinctively drawn to close to death souls.. both our energies just exploded, and obv the sex was extreme and otherworldly x
 
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netrezven

Mage
Dec 13, 2018
515
I'm infected in my head and will never completely accept any partner. No matter all the proves for trust i can't fall for it. I think that even if i find my perfect partner it will only be temporarely and when my head switches it will be done again.
 
Bct

Bct

Disqualified from Being Human
Apr 20, 2020
419
Attractive, doesn't make me have to worry what I'm saying (because sometimes I unintentionally say something bad), respects my decision if I'm going to CTB, and of course she needs to love me back.
 
TheSoulless

TheSoulless

I'd like to fly but my wings have been so denied
Jan 7, 2020
1,058
It would probably be someone who shares my ideology, and who I feel comfortable with (that's a given, though). I feel like looks matter somewhat, but my ideal partner would be one who wouldn't mind not having sex, in the traditional sense at least. Then again, I'm not the most attractive person myself. I would be happy if someone expressed their interest in me, but I fear that I don't know how to return their affection.
 
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pete_x

Good god, let's eat !
May 9, 2020
340
My hand.
 
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woxihuanni

woxihuanni

Illuminated
Aug 19, 2019
3,299
My (ex-ish) partner minus the addiction and co-dependency they have.
 
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Gregorius

Better die with a smile than live with tears
Mar 16, 2020
50
My girlfriend is just perfect for me. We have been together since the beginning of 2020 and help each other through the depression. I met her in psychiatry, si It gives me a reason to continue living for the time being. Still have SN in stock haha.
 
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gymletethnicel

gymletethnicel

Ugliest man alive
May 16, 2020
27
I can't really say since I'm a kissless hugless virgin universally hated by women because of my genetics so I'd say no relationship would be the best for me.
 
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gymletethnicel

gymletethnicel

Ugliest man alive
May 16, 2020
27
Universally?
Yes, universally, as in all of them. Never have I seen a woman treat a very short and ugly brown man with even the slightest respect, rather hate and disgust instead. It's just biological I guess so I can't blame them tbh.
 
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mediocre

trapped here
Nov 9, 2019
1,442
Someone who understands me and knows my limitations/fears.
 
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not4us

not4us

Experienced
Sep 21, 2019
246
She (my ideal partner) would be vegan; childfree; honest and faithful; tall; 29-38 years old (I'm 34).
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
21,242
First they'd have to be someone who would actually be able to tolerate the real me, which already disqualifies at least 99.99% of all human beings who have ever lived
 
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Harriet

Harriet

Member
Nov 24, 2021
79
Someone who wants to fall down the rabbit hole of crazy with me
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
40,039
I cannot stand people. Personally I would prefer to be alone, far away from anyone else.
 
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Finis Autem Spero

Finis Autem Spero

Dec 30, 2019
259
Someone impossible, I think.

When I was younger, I'd say someone intelligent. Then I'd say someone faithful. Then someone who makes me laugh.

I think now, I would love all of that in a person. If I had to add to it, mostly someone who understands me, doesn't take life seriously and doesn't decide that they know what's best for me. Someone who gets that I prefer solitude over anyone's company. No matter how much I like them, they'll never compare to silence.

I think anyone with more than a few of those qualities would be wise enough to do much better than me.
 
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Manaaja

Manaaja

euROPE
Sep 10, 2018
1,382
Someone who is not from this planet, preferably from a good dimension
 
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motel rooms

motel rooms

Survivor of incest. Gay. Please don't PM me.
Apr 13, 2021
7,081
Having ideals is a really bad idea.
 
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youraffection

Member
Nov 16, 2021
19
Just someone that makes me happy to be around them.

I don't think I can bring myself to subject anyone to me as their partner though.
 
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quakociaptockh2

Member
Mar 23, 2021
31
Someone exlusive, not someone who dated a pool before settling.

Someone I knew since early, preferably before 20.

Someone "normal", who is in good/neutral mood most of the time.

Someone who treats me and other people with respect. (This ostensibly simple condition seems impossible in today's world.)

Someone from introverted / quiet / sensitive side of the spectrum.

Someone to have a family, children, a cat and lead simple and unsophisticated life.
 
Enigmatic Sailor

Enigmatic Sailor

vicissitudes of fate...
Oct 29, 2021
386
Someone who makes me feel welcomed and complete. Someone where we can both find our strengths and weaknesses to try and reach self-actualization. I hope love is real, but when I try to understand it; I become logical and can't fully grasp it. It's best to be alone at times to help you understand things better.
 
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CogitoMori

Specialist
Oct 21, 2024
369
One that doesn't hit me out of anger. One that makes me feel human. The only person that's ever made me feel that way is Jason, but he doesn't want to talk to me.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
10,527
I don't think I'm really built to have a partner now. I think I'd struggle adapting to them and, they to me and I kind of hate the thought of either of us putting in that amount of effort! Seeing as I've got through 44 years alone, I'm not really sure what the benefit would be either. It hasn't gone well in the past when I've relied on other people.

I think more, I can imagine having nice times here and there but, all the time- probably not! I think it's probably worked out for the best for me that I am alone.
 
foreverlanguish

foreverlanguish

┊ ┊ ┊ ┊ sleepy in a heaven's sprawl
Dec 7, 2024
149
A person who's caring and honest is a good start. besides that I'd love someone who's attractive, at least to me, someone who's funny and finds me funny, has a good heart and head over their shoulders, can support themselves, is preferably sassy and has a good sense of humor lol… I honestly always dream of finding a partner, it's always been the one constant thing I've always wanted even when I was a little girl, like, finding my Prince Charming, as silly as that sounds.
 
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Chinaski

Chinaski

Arthur Scargill appreciator
Sep 1, 2018
3,432
My ideal partner would be really hot, in fact she'd have massive tits, but also she'd respect the Right To Die and when i talk about this at length she would get horny in a big way even though my breath stinks and I'm boring as fuck
 
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