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Sai-50

Sai-50

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Nov 19, 2021
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I've been thinking about writing a separate note to my parents but I don't know what to put in it.
 
Bong-Hit-Transplant

Bong-Hit-Transplant

Member
May 11, 2021
84
I think I'm going to try and displace responsibility as much as possible. Like "this wasn't anybody's or anything's fault, no one's to blame. This is my decision and I'm happy with it." I feel like going into detail on your reasoning is just going to fall on the deaf ears of people who have fundamentally different understandings of life and existence and will just see any logical arguments for suicide as proof that you were "sick" or whatever.

But you do you. Most people don't even leave a note whatsoever, so the fact you're leaving one at all is bound to help at least a bit with giving them closure.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
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For me, my note will act as closure and will mean they are not left with unanswered questions. I will say things like there is nothing you could have done to stop this, now I am at peace and I am free from all suffering. It will aim to give them some understanding as to why I have chosen to do this. I wish you the best.
 
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