What do you hate about sex?

[Brick In The Wall]

I've taken A LOT of emergency contraceptive. There's one called New Day that tops out at around 20bux and is exactly the same drug as plan b

Good to know, thank you. Hopefully I won't need to use that advice anytime soon though lol.

 

[stygal]

I sometimes felt like it was a chore or a performance act kind of...but mainly because I put too much pressure on myself to be "sexy".
Also not enough foreplay also sucked and kinda made it uncomfortable.

 

[sadworld]

It's disgusting and I hate people that only think about it. They are disgusting too.

 

[CyanideSoup]

I hate how anxious I get during it. I can't enjoy it because all I can think about is making sure the other person is having a good time. I also hate that I get dissociative alot of the time if it's not more "extreme". I just go numb

 

[not4us]

pregnancy risk/condoms breaking. Those damn Plan B aka morning after pills are expensive.

In case of pregnancy, I'm shit scared she will keep it despite promising not to, and I won't be able to do anything about it.

 

[Kramer]

That it gets boring with the same person. The passion isn't there any more. The excitement disappears. I don't like the saying "spice it up" because it doesn't matter what you introduce to your significant other, it's still a been there done that. Don't get me wrong, it's still good sometimes, but nothing beats the feeling of animalistic passion with somebody you've been craving.

When does it get boring?

 

[CyanideSoup]

When does it get boring?

I can't speak for hopeless but I can relate. I get sick of the repetitiveness of being with the same person. There's no spontaneity or thrill anymore. Being with somebody new gives me this amazing rush

 

[Kramer]

I can't speak for hopeless but I can relate. I get sick of the repetitiveness of being with the same person. There's no spontaneity or thrill anymore. Being with somebody new gives me this amazing rush

You replied but you didn't answer the question

In case of pregnancy, I'm shit scared she will keep it despite promising not to, and I won't be able to do anything about it.

That's when you disappear. You offered a solution. She refused it. You don't have to stick around out of some misplaced sense of duty.

 

[CyanideSoup]

You replied but you didn't answer the question

I sort of did. It gets boring when it's repetitive and there isn't any spontaneity or rush anymore. Plus in my case I get attactched to people very quickly but lose interest just as fast.

 

[Kramer]

I sort of did. It gets boring when it's repetitive and there isn't any spontaneity or rush anymore. Plus in my case I get attactched to people very quickly but lose interest just as fast.

So are you going to give a time range? Are we talking a month?

 

[Life sucks]

That people talk about in a weird way and make it controversial and sometimes stigmatize it while ignoring reproduction and make it looks like its an ok thing to do
Its alright that everyone has different preferences and its just a body function. Whats wrong is how this species is extremely hypocrite, they know that ignorant sex leads to reproduction so they make controversies, rules, religions or whatever to keep people ignorant and opress their mental capabilities so they continue reproducing without thinking. Societies specially the ones with traditions are disgusting because they pretend that sex is disgusting but then when reproduction happens and new human comes to suffering then its glorified and the fact that the disgusting sex they pretend to dislike is the cause of reproduction is ignored.

Like sex? Hate sex? Whatever is the opinion and preferences about it, keep reproduction out of it. Sex is stupid and insignificant compared to the lifetime suffering of a new person.

 

[Throwawaysoul]

Having to talk to the person afterwards or worse, have a relationship with them

 

[Kramer]

Having to talk to the person afterwards or worse, have a relationship with them

Lol why is that so bad?

 

[stygal]

Having to talk to the person afterwards or worse, have a relationship with them

It's actually the part I enjoyed most...haha.

 

[Kramer]

It's actually the part I enjoyed most...haha.

What does one talk about? It's always awkward. I remember last time I didn't want to take my coins with me because it could wake the roommates up with them jingling in my pocket, so i said she could have them. She got so mad lol

 

[Ghost2211]

You're a guy, so none of this will apply to you...

It can hurts during or after.
I have to take an antibiotic after every time or I get a uti.
It's messy during, but way more so after.
Usually the other person just wants to satisfy themself, and won't take the time and effort for me to finish too.

 

[stygal]

What does one talk about? It's always awkward. I remember last time I didn't want to take my coins with me because it could wake the roommates up with them jingling in my pocket, so i said she could have them. She got so mad lol

I don't know what your experiences are but I always felt that people tend to be very open and honest after sex. And talked freely about whatever was on their minds.
I found that interesting and a chance to get to know the person better.

 

[Ghost2211]

What does one talk about? It's always awkward. I remember last time I didn't want to take my coins with me because it could wake the roommates up with them jingling in my pocket, so i said she could have them. She got so mad lol

Maybe she felt you were paying her, but low paying lol

Also, just casual chat.

 

[Symbiote]

I'm a sex worker. The second you monetize something it sucks all the soul right out of it and becomes a chore

How much do you charge to suck the soul out of me? j/k j/k

Sex is physically demanding, it's like an extra long work out with emotions involved. I get her off, she wants more. She gets me off, I want sleep. Wrong position, dick goes soft. She wants it no matter what, whether groping me in public, or grabbing me when I get home. I have a low libido right now and I'm good without having sex for a couple of years. If my wife was born a man, she would have 30 kids from 20 different women by now or have several rape charges.

 

[WornOutLife]

The smell and condoms oh an also, faking orgasms from time to time! (Or that they fake orgasms with me too)

 

[Deleted member 17949]

It involves other people and other people annoy me

 

[Kramer]

Maybe she felt you were paying her, but low paying lol

Also, just casual chat.

She later became an escort actually lol

How much do you charge to suck the soul out of me? j/k j/k

Sex is physically demanding, it's like an extra long work out with emotions involved. I get her off, she wants more. She gets me off, I want sleep. Wrong position, dick goes soft. She wants it no matter what, whether groping me in public, or grabbing me when I get home. I have a low libido right now and I'm good without having sex for a couple of years. If my wife was born a man, she would have 30 kids from 20 different women by now or have several rape charges.

Lol

 

[kappa]

You're a guy, so none of this will apply to you...

It can hurts during or after.
I have to take an antibiotic after every time or I get a uti.
It's messy during, but way more so after.
Usually the other person just wants to satisfy themself, and won't take the time and effort for me to finish too.

Some women are more susceptible to UTI's, but you should always pee right after and then shower after sex.

If you are still getting them, they make cranberry supplements. Try drinking 100% pure cranberry juice. It can be hard to find, but you need the pure non-sugar added kind.

UTIs are definitely the worst thing I've experienced.

 

[Ghost2211]

Some women are more susceptible to UTI's, but you should always pee right after and then shower after sex.

If you are still getting them, they make cranberry supplements. Try drinking 100% pure cranberry juice. It can be hard to find, but you need the pure non-sugar added kind.

UTIs are definitely the worst thing I've experienced.

None of that works. I have to take one antibiotic pill every time or 100% for sure get one every time. It sucks, and it makes sex a chore.

 

[Kramer]

None of that works. I have to take one antibiotic pill every time or 100% for sure get one every time. It sucks, and it makes sex a chore.

So 200 yrs ago, what would've happened to you?

 

[fox21132113]

So 200 yrs ago, what would've happened to you?

Issues like this didn't happen 200 years ago. The body evolved in this case, and reacts to whatever doesn't mix

 

[Kramer]

Issues like this didn't happen 200 years ago. The body evolved in this case, and reacts to whatever doesn't mix

She would've gotten infections then too. Most people alive today only exist because of advanced medicine

 

[fox21132113]

She would've gotten infections then too. Most people alive today only exist because of advanced medicine

Exactly. If the natural remedies didn't work then, one would become septic. I'm a nerd for science and medicine

 

[Ghost2211]

So 200 yrs ago, what would've happened to you?

Infection would move up to the kidneys and kill me. One of many reasons I'm not meant to be alive. Medical science isn't doing humans any favors. Natural selection is getting shat on nowadays.

 

[Kramer]

Infection would move up to the kidneys and kill me.

And you'd have your wish but it'd be painful

I wonder what relationships were like. You could get a cut and die days later.