BeansOfRequirement

BeansOfRequirement

Behind the guilt was compassion
Jan 26, 2021
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If a person is unhappy about being a virgin, or is unsatisfied with their physical appearance that does not make them an incel. Their thoughts could be due to past abuse, low self-esteem or a number of other problems besides taking on a hateful ideology. I understand the point that you have made; though I also think we must be careful not to throw around this word, because it is starting to lose its meaning.
The word incel barely has a "meaning". It means very, very little. Being an incel does not mean you agree with "blackpill" ideology. Most incels (maybe 90% or more) have never heard of it and a lot of incels don't speak English. All prison inmates that don't start "busting cheeks" are incels, for example. You could be the most anti-"blackpill"/"incel-ideology"/etc person on Earth, you could think that it's harder for a young woman than for a young man to get a date from Tinder and you'd still be an incel if you want (technically sex, but we are obviously talking about romance) "love" but don't have it. That's it.

I am an incel that believes that the biggest cause for inceldom are problems with social relationships, due to whatever the problem is. For me it's autism, for others it could be living in a very small village with no women, agoraphobia or being incarcerated. I also believe that your looks will matter to some extent but are not of importance when compared to never meeting any women at all due to not having a social life.

I believe that female incels exist. Straight women in prison and women that are so malnurished so that they don't have any biological resources for sex/romance are two solid examples.

The "ideology" (believing some statements are factually correct in certain contexts), from what I understand (been a while since I read about this, so might seem a bit boomer here) is just basically that some guys are fucked. There's nothing hateful about that, but it's more or less a natural law that gathering young involuntarily celebate men together won't exactly produce an atmosphere akin to a tea-party for the elderly.
 
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deflationary

Fussy exister. Living in the epilogue
Mar 11, 2020
529
I never said that. Calling women foids, advocating rape, celebrating mass murders, pedophilia, thinking laws and societal norms favor women to the detriment of men, tearing down other men's appearances, etc. Those are incels and they're a plague on humanity.
Does this really happen on this forum though? I've *maybe* seen it like once or twice. Maybe I just don't click on those threads.
 
MartyByrde

MartyByrde

Experienced
Mar 15, 2020
286
The word incel barely has a "meaning". It means very, very little. Being an incel does not mean you agree with "blackpill" ideology. Most incels (maybe 90% or more) have never heard of it and a lot of incels don't speak English. All prison inmates that don't start "busting cheeks" are incels, for example. You could be the most anti-"blackpill"/"incel-ideology"/etc person on Earth, you could think that it's harder for a young woman than for a young man to get a date from Tinder and you'd still be an incel if you want (technically sex, but we are obviously talking about romance) "love" but don't have it. That's it.

I am an incel that believes that the biggest cause for inceldom are problems with social relationships, due to whatever the problem is. For me it's autism, for others it could be living in a very small village with no women, agoraphobia or being incarcerated. I also believe that your looks will matter to some extent but are not of importance when compared to never meeting any women at all due to not having a social life.

I believe that female incels exist. Straight women in prison and women that are so malnurished so that they don't have any biological resources for sex/romance are two solid examples.

The "ideology" (believing some statements are factually correct in certain contexts), from what I understand (been a while since I read about this, so might seem a bit boomer here) is just basically that some guys are fucked. There's nothing hateful about that, but it's more or less a natural law that gathering young involuntarily celebate men together won't exactly produce an atmosphere akin to a tea-party for the elderly.
But have you seen scrambled porn?
 
stygal

stygal

low-wage worker
Oct 29, 2020
1,732
I really really hate blackbirds...noisy fuckers wake me up at the crack of dawn to listen to their shitty tweets
 
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motel rooms

Survivor of incest. Gay. Please don't PM me.
Apr 13, 2021
7,084
I really really hate blackbirds...noisy fuckers wake me up at the crack of dawn to listen to their shitty tweets

Blackbird singing in the dead of night
Take these broken wings and learn to ShutTheFuckUp!!! :))

 
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SleepDealer

Your Imaginary Friend
Aug 13, 2021
138
On that note, I never really liked The Beatles.
 
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Makko

Makko

Iä!
Jan 17, 2021
2,430
I really really hate blackbirds...noisy fuckers wake me up at the crack of dawn to listen to their shitty tweets
Even birds are on Twitter nowadays? Singularity is approaching faster than anticipated
 
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newave3

newave3

I want out
Nov 21, 2020
2,795
This is probably a popular opinion. I really hope the moronic shitheads that modify their exhausts in their cars and trucks develop tinnitus as time goes on. Some of the exhausts on these vehicles sound like explosions when they let off the gas.
Do they think they are cool? Do they make their cars loud just to annoy people?
It's not only cars and trucks but motorcycles too. Here in NYC they drive in packs terrorizing motorists and pedestrians. They like to drive their motorbikes and atv's on the sidewalks too. NYC is beyond third world. It has reached a whole 'nother level of chaos.
 
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BeansOfRequirement

BeansOfRequirement

Behind the guilt was compassion
Jan 26, 2021
5,745
This is probably a popular opinion. I really hope the moronic shitheads that modify their exhausts in their cars and trucks develop tinnitus as time goes on. Some of the exhausts on these vehicles sound like explosions when they let off the gas.
Do they think they are cool? Do they make their cars loud just to annoy people?
It's not only cars and trucks but motorcycles too. Here in NYC they drive in packs terrorizing motorists and pedestrians. They like to drive their motorbikes and atv's on the sidewalks too. NYC is beyond third world. It has reached a whole 'nother level of chaos.
"A man has fallen into peace and quiet in New York City! Build the exhaust modifications! Start the atvs, and off to the rescue!"
 
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Mentalmick

Mentalmick

IMHOTEP!!!
Nov 30, 2020
2,050
This is probably a popular opinion. I really hope the moronic shitheads that modify their exhausts in their cars and trucks develop tinnitus as time goes on. Some of the exhausts on these vehicles sound like explosions when they let off the gas.
Do they think they are cool? Do they make their cars loud just to annoy people?
It's not only cars and trucks but motorcycles too. Here in NYC they drive in packs terrorizing motorists and pedestrians. They like to drive their motorbikes and atv's on the sidewalks too. NYC is beyond third world. It has reached a whole 'nother level of chaos.
Bikers are the worst. Bunch of lousy scumbags. They should all be burned alive.
 
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Meditation guide

Meditation guide

Always was, is, and always shall be.
Jun 22, 2020
6,089
I have a question about if it's really N that is being sent from Mexico. I don't trust anything from that country.
 
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everydayiloveyou

Arcanist
Jul 5, 2020
490
Parents wanting to know where you are in the middle of the night, not wanting you to drink and smoke espec when underage, not allowing you to be in vulnerable situations with people they/you don't know, etc... is not being abusive or toxic. They're doing their jobs as parents.

I'm not referring to actual abuse (parents tracking you, invading your privacy, hitting and guilt tripping you) of course, I think the distinction is very clear.

I'm referring to kids on TikTok who will admit they get into a lot of trouble and think their parents are being abusive for being upset at their behavior and wanting them to be safe. It's neglectful and abusive if your parents encourage you to drink, don't care where you are at 2am on a school night, or put you in situations where you can get into danger. This is especially true when kids are 18 and younger, I really don't see how it could be a good thing if your parents let you smoke up their house and leave you alone with 25-year old boyfriends or whatever.

Once you're 18 and fully moved out, feel free to do whatever, and parents should give you that right.
 
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Kattt

Kattt

Ancient of Mu-Mu
May 18, 2021
800
People who are simply too scared of science to bother learning about the true dangers of the beer disease, deserve to die.....and have the names of their victims written on their headstone
 
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Kattt

Ancient of Mu-Mu
May 18, 2021
800
My entire neighbourhood hates me for establishing the first LGBTQ community
 
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settheory

settheory

Bundle of perceptions
Jul 29, 2021
457
An anime is a cartoon, a manga is a comic book.
 
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newave3

newave3

I want out
Nov 21, 2020
2,795
People with tattoos nauseate me. Most seem to get them because everyone else around them has one.
That's another thing I despise. People that follow trends or fads. I have to do it cuz the rest of the herd is doing it. They are sheeple.
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motel rooms

Survivor of incest. Gay. Please don't PM me.
Apr 13, 2021
7,084
People with tattoos nauseate me. Most seem to get them because everyone else around them has one.
I have a teardrop tat on my penis. How does that make you feel?
 
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motel rooms

Survivor of incest. Gay. Please don't PM me.
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newave3

I want out
Nov 21, 2020
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I have a teardrop tat on my penis. How does that make you feel?
It's fine, I guess. The only ones who are are going to see it are the people you are intimate with. Oy vey, why do I feel the need to take a shower whenever I read your posts?
 
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motel rooms

Survivor of incest. Gay. Please don't PM me.
Apr 13, 2021
7,084
Oy vey, why do I feel the need to take a shower whenever I read your posts?
Because your unconscious mind is telling you that you want to drop the soap in the shower for me :))
 
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BeansOfRequirement

BeansOfRequirement

Behind the guilt was compassion
Jan 26, 2021
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Because your unconscious mind is telling you that you want to drop the soap in the shower for me :))
Keep this up and you'll eventually have a hundred men armed with shivs gunning for your genitals.
 
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Survivor of incest. Gay. Please don't PM me.
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not-2-b-the-answer

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Mar 23, 2018
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People with tattoos nauseate me. Most seem to get them because everyone else around them has one.
That's another thing I despise. People that follow trends or fads. I have to do it cuz the rest of the herd is doing it. They are sheeple.
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Tats don't bother me but I don't want any for myself. Man-Buns, while they don't bother me. I think they are dumb as hell. Some dudes that have them say they hate following the crowd and I think WTF!!!
I have a teardrop tat on my penis. How does that make you feel?
Makes me feel like you aren't following a trend. :ahhha: Maybe starting one??? :wink:

Popular opinion... So glad you are still here with us. :heart::hug::heart::hug::heart:
 
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newave3

newave3

I want out
Nov 21, 2020
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Yes @hotelbeneathground, all kidding aside, I agree with @not-2-b-the-answer. Your posts are always fun and interesting and I am very glad you are still with us.
 
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motel rooms

Survivor of incest. Gay. Please don't PM me.
Apr 13, 2021
7,084
Sorry, but your gaydar is failing you.
Are you sure, Steve McQueen? :)) I know you know I'm just doing childish improv... I must admit I'm incredibly flattered that a New Yorker finds my posts filthy though :))
 
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