Venting Toxicity in gen chat

[juzuhz]

I know most of you may disagree with me, but I feel it's important to speak up before I leave. I've noticed an unfortunate pattern in this forum—teaming up and toxicity directed toward certain members. It's disheartening to see that some individuals, rather than fostering an inclusive environment, seem to alienate others, making them feel unwelcome and as if their presence is undesirable.

One of the more troubling aspects has been being gaslighted by other members. Despite presenting valid arguments, some dismiss or ignore what I have to say simply because a group mentality has taken hold. Instead of engaging in healthy debate, these members seem more focused on silencing voices they don't agree with.

This behavior doesn't only affect the individuals targeted but diminishes the quality of the community as a whole. Forums should be spaces for open conversation, where diverse opinions can coexist without fear of backlash. No one should feel pushed out or disregarded.

 

[EvisceratedJester]

The gen chat is toxic? I don't use the chat so I have no clue as to what goes on there.

 

[eden101]

i self banned in chat so idk what happened but sorry if someone was mean, juzuhs. you can report if you feel like it's justified

 

[Glenferd666]

The gen chat is toxic? I don't use the chat so I have no clue as to what goes on there.

Unfortunately I witnessed it. A group of people who I won't name were gaslighting him and making him feel unwelcome.

 

[EvisceratedJester]

Unfortunately I witnessed it. A group of people who I won't name were gaslighting him and making him feel unwelcome.

WTF? That's horrible. Someone needs to report them.

 

[juzuhz]

WTF? That's horrible. Someone needs to report them.

Everyone was teaming up against me for some reason

 

[EvisceratedJester]

Everyone was teaming up against me for some reason

Did you report them? I don't think that gasloghying is allowed on here.

 

[juzuhz]

Did you report them? I don't think that gasloghying is allowed on here.

I will do it

 

[-Link-]

Usually for forum-based chat services, staff will have access to retroactive chat logs. If you report or message staff, include the name of the room, the date, the approximate time (with timezone) this was going on. Names if you can recall them. Describe the problem in as much detail as makes sense.

If anything untoward is going on, staff can address it.

 

[Gangrel]

literally nothing happened in gen chat, not much goes there other people being depressed as usual. juzuhs and Glenferd666 were being weirdos most people had to put them on ignore

 

[Glenferd666]

literally nothing happened in gen chat, not much goes there other people being depressed as usual. juzuhs and Glenferd666 were being weirdos most people had to put them on ignore

And what exactly did I do ?

 

[juzuhz]

Anyway that et girl is weird ah
Professional gaslighter

 

[mrpeter]

literally nothing happened in gen chat, not much goes there other people being depressed as usual. juzuhs and Glenferd666 were being weirdos most people had to put them on ignore

what happened

 

[locked*n*loaded]

You're not incel, are you?

 

[juzuhz]

You're not incel, are you?

What do you mean? Of course no

 

[ETgirl]

Okay everyone, here's what went down because this is being completely skewed. On Thursday night, there was some banter and trash talking between me and Juzuhz, which he started by "insulting" my language skills. So I gave back what he dished out. It was all a joke. Then other members of the chat said we were like an old married couple and that they "ship us". He then proceeded to make comments such as "she's into me" and "damn you want me ". I have screenshots. I was disagreeing and saying things like "I'm leaving" and it was obvious I didn't like where the discussion was turning.

Red_sleep then stepped in and told juzuhz that he was being too much - juzuhz then stopped and later tagged me in chat and asked "so we good?". I didn't reply and logged off the site to watch a show.

Logged on today talked to others in gen, and juzuhz stated he felt unwelcome and ignored in chat by others. I had then just said in chat that I care about everybody on the site except for trolls etc., as I was unsure as to whether or not he felt bad about what happened on Thursday.

He then replied to me directly and said "the forum is all yours now" or something. I felt weird about this comment and that maybe he was mad at me, so I kept stating that I was confused. Glenferd666 then jumped in to attack me a bit in chat, as well as juzuhz, telling me to "leave it out" and stop saying that I was feeling confused because "nobody cares". Just being unnecessarily rude. I suspect it's an alt of juzuhz', and other members here do too, but that's for the staff to decide.

Juzuhz then claimed I had ganged up on him after he had "apologised" to me (which I never recall happening) and proceeded to call me a narcissist and said I was gaslighting him.

I have screenshots of what transpired both on Thursday and tonight. Mods can also look through chat archives. I'm not worried about how I conducted myself. This whole thing is bizarre. I'll leave it to the mods.

 

[juzuhz]

The mods can go back and check the context of the discussion that happened I'm chat. Stop misleading everyone and I will be happy to be judged by mods than to be judged by a liar like you

 

[Glenferd666]

Okay everyone, here's what went down because this is being completely skewed. On Thursday night, there was some banter and trash talking between me and Juzuhz, which he started by "insulting" my language skills. So I gave back what he dished out. It was all a joke. Then other members of the chat said we were like an old married couple and that they "ship us". He then proceeded to make comments such as "she's into me" and "damn you want me ". I have screenshots. I was disagreeing and it was obvious I didn't like where the discussion was turning. Red_sleep then stepped in and told juzuhz that he was being too much - juzuhz then stopped, tagged me later in chat and asked "so we good?". I didn't reply and logged off the site to watch a show. Logged on today talked to others in gen, and juzuhz stated he felt unwelcome and ignored in chat by others. I had then just said in chat that I care about everybody on the site except for trolls etc., as I was unsure as to whether or not he felt bad about what happened on Thursday. He then replied to me directly and said "the forum is all yours now" or something. I felt weird about this comment and that maybe he was mad at me, so I kept stating that I was confused. Glenferd666 then jumped on me in chat, as well as juzuhz, telling me to leave it out and stop saying that I'm confused because "nobody cares". Just being unnecessarily rude. I suspect it's an alt of juzuhz', and other members here do too, but that's for the staff to decide. Juzuhz then claimed I had ganged up on him after he had "apologised" to me (which I never recall happening) and proceeded to call me a narcissist and said I was gaslighting him. I have screenshots of what was said to me on Thursday and tonight. Mods can also look through chat. I'm not worried about how I conducted myself. This whole thing is bizarre. I'll leave it to the mods.

So because I told you to be quiet and stop escalating things. I'm somehow an alt of this guy ?

 

[Red_sleep]

This person is lying, don't believe anything he is saying. I was there the entire time and so were many others. He loves to take zero accountability, then play the victim and gaslight when people won't tolerate his bullshit.

There is a reason many people have him on ignore.

 

[locked*n*loaded]

What do you mean? Of course no

Some people here are. Just a general question. No disrespect intended. I know some incels enter chat occasionally and get a hard time by others.

 

[juzuhz]

This person is lying, don't believe anything he is saying. I was there the entire time and so were many others. He loves to take zero accountability, then play the victim and gaslight when people won't tolerate his bullshit.

There is a reason many people have him on ignore.

You weren't there when everything happened before. And now you're coming here to tell me. Anyway I only want the mods to decide on this not the people that were attacking me

 

[-nobodyknows-]

Guys please stop

 

[juzuhz]

Some people here are. Just a general question. No disrespect intended. I know some incels enter chat occasionally and get a hard time by others.

I know I'm not that kind of person . I didn't know what it meant days ago. I just asked about it in chat. I'm not stupid like that

 

[juzuhz]

If I feel attacked I'm gonna speak up I'm not gonna let them win

 

[ETgirl]

The mods can go back and check the context of the discussion that happened I'm chat. Stop misleading everyone and I will be happy to be judged by mods than to be judged by a liar like you

And they will confirm everything I have said to be true. As it is in my screenshots which I'll be uploading.

Your conduct is concerning and for you to call me a narcissist after it is fairly well known on here that I have literally just exited an abusive relationship with a narcissist makes me nauseous.

I never ganged up on you, nor did I ever tell you to "leave the forum" as you said you felt I did. It'll be in the logs. Stop embarrassing yourself now please.

 

[juzuhz]

And they will confirm everything I have said to be true. As it is in my screenshots which I'll be uploading.

Your conduct is concerning and for you to call me a narcissist after it is fairly well known on here that I have literally just exited an abusive relationship with a narcissist makes me nauseous.

I never ganged up on you, nor did I ever tell you to "leave the forum" as you said you felt I did. It'll be in the logs. Stop embarrassing yourself now please.

Wow you're very good at your job. I will decline to speak with you any further

 

[voc_89]

waiting to see the outcome/receipts

 

[EvisceratedJester]

Well, some people in the chat are now talking about this thread. I wonder if this thread will get locked or something...

 

[juzuhz]

Well, some people in the chat are now talking about this thread. I wonder if this thread will get locked or something...

I just hope that people would stop that behavior
Because u really felt bad and excluded . Even tho I apologized multiple times. Not talking about that member but also for multiple times

 

[mrpeter]

You're not incel, are you?

the poor incel is being attacked by the foids