Like it or not, you'll be remembered by anyone who dealt with you.
We're anomalies. Most people don't want to die. Even if we don't tell them, they know something is "off" about us. We'll likely be the most fascinating people they ever meet. That's probably not saying much, but it's true.
So they can piss on my ashes or whatever. They'll never be able to burn me out of their minds, no matter how much they wish they could.