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FindingHome

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Aug 4, 2023
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They say time heals wounds, but I have found that with time it has gotten worse for. Trauma doesn't go away; it becomes a part of you and changes you.
 
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Gloomislost

Gloomislost

Pet the bunnies for me Ā· 18
Jul 27, 2023
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They say time heals wounds, but I have found that with time it has gotten worse for. Trauma doesn't go away; it becomes a part of you and changes you.
I get that. My trauma has only gotten worse as I've gotten older because I can now process how shitty and horrible it was. As a kid, it was sorta like another day?
 
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CTB Dream

CTB Dream

Injury damage disabl hard talk no argu make fun et
Sep 17, 2022
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time = dtriort prblm worse, all terbl, time = age die
 
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outrider567

Visionary
Apr 5, 2022
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Agree, time doesn't heal severe loss
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
47,279
I think that saying is just an empty toxic positivity platitude that glorifies suffering, it's just an insult to how existence truly is so cruel.
 
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locked*n*loaded

locked*n*loaded

Archangel
Apr 15, 2022
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I feel that time heals some, but not all, wounds.
 
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brokeandbroken

Enlightened
Apr 18, 2023
1,195
I think it can heal you to an extent maybe close the wound some. But I think unless you are given closure and help it will always be angry and festering. Whether because of what happened, poor memory, or repressing the memories. I have forgotten a lot of what happened at PUMs. I still remember a lot. But occasionally I'll be like oh shit I can believe I forgot this happened...
 
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FindingHome

Student
Aug 4, 2023
175
I think it can heal you to an extent maybe close the wound some. But I think unless you are given closure and help it will always be angry and festering. Whether because of what happened, poor memory, or repressing the memories. I have forgotten a lot of what happened at PUMs. I still remember a lot. But occasionally I'll be like oh shit I can believe I forgot this happened...
I haven't gotten any closure. I will probably never get any closure and go to my grave that way.
 
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Unattainable666

Unattainable666

Enlightened
Mar 31, 2023
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Time is like putting a band-aid on an arm that has been cut off. The pain never goes away it remains with you forever and changes your life forever.
 
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MrDarkness

MrDarkness

Left sasu, to improve my life
Jun 18, 2023
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Depends on the wounds honestly, stuff like sa will never heal, that will stick with you forever, death on the other hand is sad but we can move on, I'm still a mess from my pass and shit I've done, and I doubt I'll never stop blaming myself
 
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brokeandbroken

Enlightened
Apr 18, 2023
1,195
I haven't gotten any closure. I will probably never get any closure and go to my grave that way.
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you are able to get some sort of closure. May I ask what for?
 
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FindingHome

Student
Aug 4, 2023
175
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you are able to get some sort of closure. May I ask what for?
Something traumatic happened to me for a long time, I rather not talk about it. Because of this I am seriously considering ending my life. Only me and "GOD" knows what I went through. I want closure but I don't think there ever will be any closure.
 
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brokeandbroken

Enlightened
Apr 18, 2023
1,195
Something traumatic happened to me for a long time, I rather not talk about it. Because of this I am seriously considering ending my life. Only me and "GOD" knows what I went through. I want closure but I don't think there ever will be any closure.
I'm very sorry to hear that. I understand.
 
Dead Already

Dead Already

Member
Jul 14, 2023
84
They say time heals wounds, but I have found that with time it has gotten worse for. Trauma doesn't go away; it becomes a part of you and changes you.
Time definitely does not heal any wounds, it just gives longer for them to sink in, whilst more are aquired.
 
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