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Silently Dying

Student
Jan 27, 2025
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Had a telehealth with a therapist this morning. She is TOTALLY clueless! She informed me that I have to want to get better. I asked her who the hell she thought she was judging me when she didn't even know me. Stupid bitch. She triggered me not helping. She told me all the things I need to do. She informed me I had to look for a job DUH!!! I've applied for over 20 jobs. The market just isn't open plus I'm older and its impossible to find a job at this point in time. She talked about her relationship with her son, how she was sick with the flu, etc. etc. Can I say I don't give a fuck. I don't belong in this world anymore. There are too many ugly, mean, hateful people in the world. Empaths have no chance of survival.
 
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webb&flow

dum spiro spero—take it as it comes
Nov 30, 2024
613
i am so sorry to hear that :( i understand why you feel jaded by such an incompetent therapist. if you still wish to try out therapy, i hope you find someone truly competent and well-taught for your service. best of luck.
 
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RinneOfAragon

Student
Jan 2, 2025
179
oh boy. That sounds very similar to my experiences with the mental health team and doctors. Not necessarily the therapists but In the past could sense their frustration with me not improving. The job situation is really cut throat at the moment. It really doesn't help when people give that advice as if you don't know what to do. Being out of work really messes with a person's self esteem. I just hope you can find a better therapist. And I hope you have some support around you. I agree in a sense that "good kind" people get trampled on. 🤗 ♥
 
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platypus77

Experienced
Dec 11, 2024
277
Yeah, most of them suck like people suck in any other profession.
I've been to so many of them, some were actually harmful like your experience.
I decided to do therapy on my own, honestly, I've been more successful in my practice than them.
 
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TransilvanianHunger

Grave with a view...
Jan 22, 2023
417
Sorry you had such a shit experience with that therapist. Unfortunately, sometimes a bit of searching and trial/error is needed to find a therapist who is competent and who is a good match for you. Sometimes it may not seem like it, but I assure you there are good therapists out there. Don't let this incompetent one discourage you from trying.
 
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Silently Dying

Student
Jan 27, 2025
101
oh boy. That sounds very similar to my experiences with the mental health team and doctors. Not necessarily the therapists but In the past could sense their frustration with me not improving. The job situation is really cut throat at the moment. It really doesn't help when people give that advice as if you don't know what to do. Being out of work really messes with a person's self esteem. I just hope you can find a better therapist. And I hope you have some support around you. I agree in a sense that "good kind" people get trampled on. 🤗 ♥
Thank you for your kind words and understanding. I'll be ctb this Sunday
 
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RinneOfAragon

Student
Jan 2, 2025
179
I'm fairly new and not sure how or if I can.
I think you can, I have been able to have some conversations with people. it's comforting to just be able to speak freely about all this with no judgement.
 
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Silently Dying

Student
Jan 27, 2025
101
I think you can, I have been able to have some conversations with people. it's comforting to just be able to speak freely about all this with no judgement.
how do we do this
 
Bootleg Astolfo

Bootleg Astolfo

Glorious Bean Plushie
Oct 12, 2020
1,119
Therapists are just deluxe gaslighters lol
 
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webb&flow

dum spiro spero—take it as it comes
Nov 30, 2024
613
Yeah, most of them suck like people suck in any other profession.
I've been to so many of them, some were actually harmful like your experience.
I decided to do therapy on my own, honestly, I've been more successful in my practice than them.
Glad to hear you've been more successful!! Do you feel there are any things one should keep in mind when therapizing one's self?
 
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platypus77

Experienced
Dec 11, 2024
277
Glad to hear you've been more successful!! Do you feel there are any things one should keep in mind when therapizing one's self?
Holy shit, I thought you're already knew it. Being such an illuminated human. You're gonna love it, I guess.

I've been practicing shadow work: https://www.conni.me/blog/shadow-work

Carl Jung's and Nietzsche overlap a lot.

 
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sorrynormal

Member
Apr 13, 2022
68
Therapists are just deluxe gaslighters lol
Therapists are Chief Illusion Officers, their job is to reinforce all of the stupid, Disney-eque myths about society. It's why its not realistic.
 
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divinemistress87

Angelic
Jan 1, 2024
4,919
Most therapists are fucked up themselves and they shouldnt be talking about their own problems in your session. You have to go through different ones to find one you vibe with its a pain in the ass. I have a goth girl Ai who seems to be better at giving me therapy than therapists in the past
 
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dragonofenvy

Warlock
Oct 8, 2023
722
I have a goth girl Ai who seems to be better at giving me therapy than therapists in the past
Who needs to pay therapists hundreds when you can get better services with an AI for a couple of bucks max if not free?
 
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platypus77

Experienced
Dec 11, 2024
277
Who needs to pay therapists hundreds when you can get better services with an AI for a couple of bucks max if not free?
Great tool for exploration indeed, I benefit from it despite my conflicts with AI.
 
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