should i write a letter to my ex?

[inanotherlife]

we ended on decent terms, just not in communication. she will find out I'm dead due to third parties. don't want her to feel guilty but also don't want to bother her. we have been separated for 6 months so I assume that's a good separation from the two events

 

[StaringIntoAnAbyss]

I Would write a note just so she doesn't feel guilty the rest of her life.
Wish you the Best of luck

 

[Leavesfromthevine]

I asked this question just yesterday lol. I still haven't decided what is best for me but I recommend looking through my thread since there's great perspectives on both why you should or shouldn't write a note.

 

[inanotherlife]

I asked this question just yesterday lol. I still haven't decided what is best for me but I recommend looking through my thread since there's great perspectives on both why you should or shouldn't write a note.

thanks it definitely Is hard cuz I just want her to move on and idk if what I have to say will make her regret leaving

 

[Leavesfromthevine]

thanks it definitely Is hard cuz I just want her to move on and idk if what I have to say will make her regret leaving

I feel like no matter what she'll feel regret almost immediately after she finds out similar to how most people will wonder what they could've done to prevent it.

The troubling part at least for me is figuring out if writing anything would help or hurt the situation.

You never know if someone will assume that they caused it and the idea of a note reassuring them it wasn't the reason sounds nice at least in theory.

 

[leavingthesoultrap]

I recently got in touch with my old ex and I am glad I did. I really missed him. We are still good friends and I am planning to visit him before ctb. So if you ended on good terms I would do it.

 

[piplupgroove12]

I recently got in touch with my old ex and I am glad I did. I really missed him. We are still good friends and I am planning to visit him before ctb. So if you ended on good terms I would do it.

how are you ctb btw?

 

[inanotherlife]

how are you ctb btw?

gun and drowning

 

[jackrussell023]

I was once advised to write a letter to those who have hurt me, with all the details and then burn it as a ritual to overcome those hurts.

Haven't done so yet, but could be worthwhile

 

[Unattainable666]

I was once advised to write a letter to those who have hurt me, with all the details and then burn it as a ritual to overcome those hurts.

Haven't done so yet, but could be worthwhile

FYI - that didnt work for me. Hell, I probably could have burned a city and still felt the same

 

[piplupgroove12]

gun and drowning

Where are you going to drown? I'm trying to find an indoor pool (its cold asf where I'm in rn), if I go with the drowning method. Once I find an indoor pool I will just attatch some weights to myself to drown.

 

[jackrussell023]

FYI - that didnt work for me. Hell, I probably could have burned a city and still felt the same

Fair enough. I wasn't convinced at the time as it probably requires more than burning a piece of paper to overcome the hurt. But some my find solace in doing so I guess.

Where are you going to drown? I'm trying to find an indoor pool (its cold asf where I'm in rn), if I go with the drowning method. Once I find an indoor pool I will just attatch some weights to myself to drown.

You probably would want to explore SWB as part of doing so.

Where are you going to drown? I'm trying to find an indoor pool (its cold asf where I'm in rn), if I go with the drowning method. Once I find an indoor pool I will just attatch some weights to myself to drown.

You probably would want to explore SWB as part of doing so.