Reminder

[RedHates]

Earlier, my dad told me and reminded me that ctb "is not an option", his words. It made me feel bad that I have these feelings. It made me feel bad that I'm on this website. Rn my family is laughing, talking, and eating at the table. I'm laying on the sofa because we are short one chair. The exclusion never stops with these people.

 

[MatrixPrisoner]

Remind your dad that choosing whether or not you wanted to born was also not an option.

 

[RedHates]

Remind your dad that choosing whether or not you wanted to born was also not an option.

He wouldn't take that very well.

 

[jbear824]

He wouldn't take that very well.

If your housing is not threatened by saying that to him, I would. Tough shit if he doesn't take it well. But obviously, if expressing that endangers you, don't do it.

 

[RedHates]

If your housing is not threatened by saying that to him, I would. Tough shit if he doesn't take it well. But obviously, if expressing that endangers you, don't do it.

I moved out a while ago. I'm kind of on my own now. My family has no authority over me anymore but they think they still do. I'm 20 years old now and they still trat me like a child. Like I get I'm the youngest but come on.

 

[Rhizomorph1]

I moved out a while ago. I'm kind of on my own now. My family has no authority over me anymore but they think they still do. I'm 20 years old now and they still trat me like a child. Like I get I'm the youngest but come on.

Sounds like a red flag for potentially narcissistic parents. Gtfo asap.

I hope you're doing well on your own. In living or dying

 

[FuneralCry]

That really is such an insensitive thing to say, if one wishes to ctb then that's their personal decision, it's not something for other people to decide, we all have our right to die anyway.

 

[Kit1]

That is such a cruel, insensitive, uncaring thing to say. I recognise that this is probably the man tmwhi chose to create you (which you had bo choice over) - and responsibility of the parent to is to there for their offspring supporting them with their battles and demons. To try and shut a chapter down with space to talk, explore and look for possible support or solutions for a concern that will end up in death - that is callous and murderous. I am so sorry that he spoke to you in such a disrespectful and uncaring manner.

 

[RedHates]

Sounds like a red flag for potentially narcissistic parents. Gtfo asap.

I hope you're doing well on your own. In living or dying

I know my mom is super narcissistic and my dad a bit too. I might go no contact soon if I can.

That really is such an insensitive thing to say, if one wishes to ctb then that's their personal decision, it's not something for other people to decide, we all have our right to die anyway.

It's something he has told me a million times over the course of my life. He used to say, "it's an entirely selfish act."

That is such a cruel, insensitive, uncaring thing to say. I recognise that this is probably the man tmwhi chose to create you (which you had bo choice over) - and responsibility of the parent to is to there for their offspring supporting them with their battles and demons. To try and shut a chapter down with space to talk, explore and look for possible support or solutions for a concern that will end up in death - that is callous and murderous. I am so sorry that he spoke to you in such a disrespectful and uncaring manner.

Neither of my parents have ever bothered to check in on my mental health. My dad scared me away from therapy after one bad experience he had. Sometimes I feel there's no hope of recovery. But thats just how my family is. They are the most disrespectful, loud, obnoxious, selfish, and rude people you will ever meet in your life. They'll hide it at first but once you get to know them, they're all manipulative assholes.

 

[Abyssal]

Not an option? He makes a good point. Maybe I should try just being happy and cheering up as well?

 

[RedHates]

Not an option? He makes a good point. Maybe I should try just being happy and cheering up as well?

lmao i wish. he doesnt realise it but he does contribute to how shit my life is. not letting me transition and verbally beating me down by being an asshole through every word he says.

 

[R_N]

Remind your dad that choosing whether or not you wanted to born was also not an option.

Pulling out was never an option for our fathers.