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NormallyNeurotic

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They only function to gaslight the people who the systems in place have failed (which is most of us, because the machine only really benefits the rich) by convincing us that there is something wrong with our state of existence, which most of the time there is nothing inherently wrong with anyone.
I'm sorry your experience has been like this. My therapist helped me a lot with things that were causing me to struggle but never implied they were inherently "wrong." I don't find maladaptive things to be wrong, but there's no shame in pointing out when something is maladaptive.
 
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If autism could be eliminated (specifically as in no new autistic people are born) it should be
 
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NormallyNeurotic

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If autism could be eliminated (specifically as in no new autistic people are born) it should be
I can understand how horrendous the sensory symptoms are to live with, but for me I don't think I'd ve me without my autism. Sometimes as a kid I would feel bad for allistics. Their feelings seemed so shallow in compared to the autists I grew up around.

An allistic, especially those without ADHD, might have a new episode of their favorite show come out and just feel... sort of excited. Or they might get to eat their favorite food that they rarely get to eat, and still want to "switch it up" the day after. I always found it odd.

Expand more on your example, please?
 
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I can understand how horrendous the sensory symptoms are to live with, but for me I don't think I'd ve me without my autism. Sometimes as a kid I would feel bad for allistics. Their feelings seemed so shallow in compared to the autists I grew up around.

An allistic, especially those without ADHD, might have a new episode of their favorite show come out and just feel... sort of excited. Or they might get to eat their favorite food that they rarely get to eat, and still want to "switch it up" the day after. I always found it odd.
We non-autistic people do in fact have powerful, deep and overwhelming emotions. Quite often.
 
NormallyNeurotic

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We non-autistic people do in fact have powerful, deep and overwhelming emotions. Quite often.
I know. I used the term "seemed" (past tense) and said "as a kid" for a reason. Then I explained some examples of things that lead me to that conclusion. I know plenty of non-autistic people.
 
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