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RealHumanBean

RealHumanBean

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Aug 8, 2020
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Does anyone know of any sites/apps/etc for finding a specific person to connect with, kind of like a penpal? I prefer talking to one person who is similarly aged and has a common condition. I think my goal is a more personal connection and I-check-on-you/you-check-on me relationship. I know this is kind of a shot in the dark; searching online is tricky because the moment you put in "suicide" or "depression" you get inundated with hotlines and resources that aren't actually helpful.

Thanks for any time or input!
 
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Life_and_Death

Life_and_Death

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Jul 1, 2020
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i think thats kinda what the recovery partners section is for. although personally i found better people to talk to by just being apart of the community and making friends. idk maybe thats worked for others. theres a few people here that im friends with and we check up on each other now and again.
 
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Nature_is_God

Nature_is_God

The cause of suffering is the desire to exist
Jul 27, 2020
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i think thats kinda what the recovery partners section is for. although personally i found better people to talk to by just being apart of the community and making friends. idk maybe thats worked for others. theres a few people here that im friends with and we check up on each other now and again.

^ this and you should also join the general chat on this site.
 
Nymph

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Jul 15, 2020
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Either here or on Reddit there's a lot of subreddits where you could post something similar
Subreddits: suicide watch, depression...
theres a bunch
 
RealHumanBean

RealHumanBean

Student
Aug 8, 2020
102
i think thats kinda what the recovery partners section is for. although personally i found better people to talk to by just being apart of the community and making friends. idk maybe thats worked for others. theres a few people here that im friends with and we check up on each other now and again.
Thanks for pointing that out; I had not seen that thread yet. I will post in there and see if i can find someone. Thanks :)
Either here or on Reddit there's a lot of subreddits where you could post something similar
Subreddits: suicide watch, depression...
theres a bunch
Reddit has been tricky for me. There are SO many new posts that you can get buried almost instantly. Also, I don't consider Reddit a safe space; there seem to be a lot of people lurking there who have ill intents.
^ this and you should also join the general chat on this site.
Are you referring to the Discord or is there a different General Chat? I haven't been on the site long enough to get an invite to the Discord yet :\
 
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Nymph

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i see, that sucks. There's also this sites chat or the discord chat. I don't use this chat here that much so I can't say much about it but on the discord it seems pretty chill
 
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Nature_is_God

Nature_is_God

The cause of suffering is the desire to exist
Jul 27, 2020
150
Are you referring to the Discord or is there a different General Chat? I haven't been on the site long enough to get an invite to the Discord yet :\

You can join the general chat once you are here for 24 hours, I think. From what I hear, the chat is more active than the discord.
 
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RealHumanBean

RealHumanBean

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You can join the general chat once you are here for 24 hours, I think. From what I hear, the chat is more active than the discord.
Ahahaha, I'm like where the hell is the chat, then checked my profile and realized I have been a member for 23 hours and 58 minutes. I'll wait a few i guess!
 
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Life_and_Death

Life_and_Death

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Ahahaha, I'm like where the hell is the chat, then checked my profile and realized I have been a member for 23 hours and 58 minutes. I'll wait a few i guess!
i personally dont like the chat here. i find it better to avoid it. but maybe it fits you
 

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