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fkyou

fkyou

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Oct 1, 2022
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Parents are responsible for what happens to their kids. If they doomed them with shit genes like ADHD and autism you don't have the right to have high expectations on your kid when they grow up. If they get bullied constantly in social settings and don't know how to defend themselves/they have a "weak personality" that's your problem too because you gave them shit genes (social anxiety autism panic disorder..) or didn't mentor them. When they grow up and feel like their life is meaningless and has no value it probably is and you have no right to tell them what's the right thing to feel when you aren't them. It just seems that parents have such misplaced authority power to judge how their kids turn out when they are the ones who determined the kid's quality of life from the start from genes to wealth to location of birth...so when a kid feels they failed to secure a financial future they are right and you are not there to teach them how/what to feel or shame them for not coping with this life.you can't really come up to me when I'm in the deepest level of misery to tell me I'm being irrational and that what I think is not true.

The funny thing is when they think you ruined their egoistical family imagine and call you a retard (for having a severe mental illness),well duh IAM a retard thanks to the genes you blessed me with, completely disregarding that their genes are the cause of this. Just a complete lack of understanding of mental illness.they believe they can play Russian roulette with you and still to turn out how they desire. If someone thinks they'd rather ctb than continue this life it's your fault yeah. We didn't want to say this but you wanted to so you get what you want/give. I know how to blame too.
 
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moonmuse

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Sep 30, 2025
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1000% i agree if parents are fcked they should not expect their kiddos to be einstien and mary curie
 
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Ligottian

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Dec 19, 2021
1,114
Amen! I'm fucked because of my mother's genes. Of course she was fucked because of her father's genes. I'm talking anxiety, depression. That type stuff.
 
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pomie

pomie

Sep 14, 2025
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this but also not even just genes, also if the parents are full on narcissists. dont have kids if youre a narc. Youre gonna give your kid a plethora of mental illnesses even without passing down genes just by failing to raise them right
 
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PropaneOctane

PropaneOctane

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Oct 10, 2023
26
This is why i'm heavily considering working on sterilizing myself in the future. I'm ace, never wanted kids, and my family's genes are immensely fucked.
 
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Off_Switch

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Aug 15, 2025
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This is 100% true, and any parents that cannot accept this, probably shouldn't have had children.
 
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davidtorez

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Mar 8, 2024
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Amen! I'm fucked because of my mother's genes. Of course she was fucked because of her father's genes. I'm talking anxiety, depression. That type stuff.
Same here
 
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_Gollum_

Formerly Alexei_Kirillov
Mar 9, 2024
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They'd still be responsible even if they gave you the best genes, because they needlessly brought you into existence in the first place, after which point the amount of suffering you can endure is endless.
 
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Off_Switch

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Aug 15, 2025
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They'd still be responsible even if they gave you the best genes, because they needlessly brought you into existence in the first place, after which point the amount of suffering you can endure is endless.
Every news article I read that reports about population rate decline warms my heart. I am so glad to see that people are starting to wake up to the idea that existence and procreation is pointless and stupid. We should be proud of ourselves for not perpetuating this madness by creating more and more needless bloodlines of endless suffering. The human race will never improve. It will only get worse. All the unborn children that will never have to suffer send their gratitude from the future.
 
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Terrible_Life_99

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Jul 3, 2025
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You are absolutely right! The genes a little child gets and also who his parents will be and ofc very important point how they'll raise him are so important aspects which form the personality of a human being. Many suicide scientists write about the reasons of suicide , they mention not belonging to a group, jobless, lonely, mental illness and so forth and so on but in my opinion this is probably the most important point! We couldn't decide who our parents will be, how they'll raise us etc yet our little brains when we were little children was forced to "learn" by our parents.
for example: a person is depressed and kill's himself, he's depressed because no friendships works, no partnership works and he isn't able to have a functioning career. Now lets consider the fact that this poor person has bad genes from his parents which increases the risk of getting depression and also the parents who were narcissists made him a narcissist without him wanting that and therefore because he's a narcissist none of his relationships works and his career doesn't work because he is mentally handicapped because of his family. So the actual reasons why he killed himself were his parents, their mistakes and the fatal consequences of their reckless mistakes…
 
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dontwakemeup

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Nov 11, 2024
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As a mother, I partially disagree to a certain extent. I think most parents are honest to their children regarding their upbringing. I never knew my mother's story until after her death. My mother was on drugs and didn't raise me. The person who raised me was a horrible person. My kids never will hear the hell I've survived.

Nature vs nurture. Just because your upbringing was bad doesn't mean you can't be successful and live a productive life. If you have disabilities, learn other methods to fulfill YOUR dreams. All parents want their kids to succeed BUT success to that child maybe just a manager at McDonald's, and that's ok. Long as it's what you want in your life.

If I could give any advice to people who are still at home with their parents is this: Tell them what you need. Tell them how they can help you. Help them understand what we understand on this site. Tell them it hurts they keep pushing you when you are unable to do something. Im sure a lot of you will be hurt if your parents told you their story. Of course its not an excuse, but i can bet you are just like them. Best wishes to you all.
 
vitbar

vitbar

Escaped Lunatic
Jun 4, 2023
512
I don't think it is fair to put all the responsibility on your parents. You have agency too, and keep in mind your parents also have parents. Which of your ancestors is to shoulder all the responsibility?

Don't get me wrong it sounds like your parents have been awful towards you. Probably their parents were to them.
 

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