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[kittymeow:3]

Hi, earlier this week I asked for friends..

I met this one guy on here and everything seemed all good and well.

Until earlier this morning He asked me if I had the chance to be able to painlessly and quickly ctb would I take the opportunity.

I said no, I told him I didn't think I would just because I wanted to make sure my family was financially secure beforehand. (My mom is a single mother and we are lower middle class) i personally don't want to ctb and leave my mom with financial worries.

I decided to stop answering his messages cause i was busy at work and didn't want to get into an argument.

He texted me later saying that he didn't think I would ctb, and I simply told him that I didn't want to continue talking to him because I felt as I wasn't being taken seriously and my feelings were being diminished.

Because I said that he threw a tantrum and proceeded to say
"you're literally impossible to take seriously, I mean just take a good look at yourself and your history and tell me I'm wrong. btw the only reason your bf is still willing to put up with you is bc you're a woman. Reverse the sexes and you'd have nothing. And you're most likely going to become a prostitute within the next 10 years lol"

I feel kinda bad because he's obviously suffering like the rest of us, and I feel bad about blocking him because I probably only made it worse for him.. but in all honesty I didn't want to put up with an incel who only thinks single minded like that. Am I in the wrong?

 

[Dot]

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[SASU-KE]

Some of the best people I have met have been on this site.

Cease contact with the ones who cause you grief. There are good people here too,talk to them.

 

[never mind me]

What a bastard. Just ignore this stupid incel.

 

[Pluto]

 

[VanillaCake]

I'm sorry you went through that... What a way to put someone down even more down.

I'm unsure whether his insensitive answer came from a place of pain or of hatred but the result's the same nonetheless for you. Reporting sounds fair.

I definitely relate to wanting to make sure you secure some money for your family before ctb-ing (it's very kind of you to care about them). It doesn't make your pain and struggles any less important.

Like @SASU-KE mentioned, there are great people on here. I hope you'll be able to connect with some of them, if you still have it in your heart to try

 

[thefirstluminary]

Hi, earlier this week I asked for friends..

I met this one guy on here and everything seemed all good and well.

Until earlier this morning He asked me if I had the chance to be able to painlessly and quickly ctb would I take the opportunity.

I said no, I told him I didn't think I would just because I wanted to make sure my family was financially secure beforehand. (My mom is a single mother and we are lower middle class) i personally don't want to ctb and leave my mom with financial worries.

I decided to stop answering his messages cause i was busy at work and didn't want to get into an argument.

He texted me later saying that he didn't think I would ctb, and I simply told him that I didn't want to continue talking to him because I felt as I wasn't being taken seriously and my feelings were being diminished.

Because I said that he threw a tantrum and proceeded to say
"you're literally impossible to take seriously, I mean just take a good look at yourself and your history and tell me I'm wrong. btw the only reason your bf is still willing to put up with you is bc you're a woman. Reverse the sexes and you'd have nothing. And you're most likely going to become a prostitute within the next 10 years lol"

I feel kinda bad because he's obviously suffering like the rest of us, and I feel bad about blocking him because I probably only made it worse for him.. but in all honesty I didn't want to put up with an incel who only thinks single minded like that. Am I in the wrong?

it's really a hit or miss at this point most are just gonna ghost, some are cool, some are weird, for your sanity sake don't bother adding anyone off of here I heard stories similar to yours and you are not alone on this

 

[SighCry]

Hi, earlier this week I asked for friends..

I met this one guy on here and everything seemed all good and well.

Until earlier this morning He asked me if I had the chance to be able to painlessly and quickly ctb would I take the opportunity.

I said no, I told him I didn't think I would just because I wanted to make sure my family was financially secure beforehand. (My mom is a single mother and we are lower middle class) i personally don't want to ctb and leave my mom with financial worries.

I decided to stop answering his messages cause i was busy at work and didn't want to get into an argument.

He texted me later saying that he didn't think I would ctb, and I simply told him that I didn't want to continue talking to him because I felt as I wasn't being taken seriously and my feelings were being diminished.

Because I said that he threw a tantrum and proceeded to say
"you're literally impossible to take seriously, I mean just take a good look at yourself and your history and tell me I'm wrong. btw the only reason your bf is still willing to put up with you is bc you're a woman. Reverse the sexes and you'd have nothing. And you're most likely going to become a prostitute within the next 10 years lol"

I feel kinda bad because he's obviously suffering like the rest of us, and I feel bad about blocking him because I probably only made it worse for him.. but in all honesty I didn't want to put up with an incel who only thinks single minded like that. Am I in the wrong?

Sorry this happened to you. Take care on here, don't share any personal information about yourself with anyone. There are safer ways to make friends IDK if Bumble still has this option but there used to be a Bumble BFF section you could make friends on.

 

[LongJacks]

Hi, earlier this week I asked for friends..

I met this one guy on here and everything seemed all good and well.

Until earlier this morning He asked me if I had the chance to be able to painlessly and quickly ctb would I take the opportunity.

I said no, I told him I didn't think I would just because I wanted to make sure my family was financially secure beforehand. (My mom is a single mother and we are lower middle class) i personally don't want to ctb and leave my mom with financial worries.

I decided to stop answering his messages cause i was busy at work and didn't want to get into an argument.

He texted me later saying that he didn't think I would ctb, and I simply told him that I didn't want to continue talking to him because I felt as I wasn't being taken seriously and my feelings were being diminished.

Because I said that he threw a tantrum and proceeded to say
"you're literally impossible to take seriously, I mean just take a good look at yourself and your history and tell me I'm wrong. btw the only reason your bf is still willing to put up with you is bc you're a woman. Reverse the sexes and you'd have nothing. And you're most likely going to become a prostitute within the next 10 years lol"

I feel kinda bad because he's obviously suffering like the rest of us, and I feel bad about blocking him because I probably only made it worse for him.. but in all honesty I didn't want to put up with an incel who only thinks single minded like that. Am I in the wrong?

Be careful and don't let anyone tell you when or how to CTB, it's your life and your choice you know your strengths and weaknesses and what you've gone through no one else does

 

[Aflame5926]

to be honest. everybody here is in some way fucked. in math 2 times a negative numbers makes it positive.

it only works in math and not with other stuff.
i know there are some people that have life time friendship here. but dont forget. we all mentally fucked here

 

[Fadenself00_]

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