I'm a straight male. I don't like the fact that girls are not virgins once they reach legal age. That means you will never date someone who is a virgin. That means that whoever you are with, she has some other guys in her past. And they have fucked her before. Do other people feel this way?
I was a virgin when I was legal age. Not only a virgin, but also had never had my first kiss before either by the time I reached legal age. And I identify as a girl.
Im also 29, and I think at this point it's just going to be really hard to find another virgin that is our age. I think the majority are people that are just reaching legal age. Personally, I wouldn't want to be with someone who is just turning legal age and a virgin. I think it's unfair to be with them. Let them have fun and loose their virginity to someone their age and experience life. However of course there's people our age that are still virgins, but I don't think it's as common.
I also think even if there happens to be someone who is our age ranges and is a virgin, they probably have still a history, wether of falling in love with someone, even if it's platonic, they probably have a broken heart too at this rate. So I think avoiding romantic baggage with someone else is really hard to avoid .
I'm not sure how to help you with this, but I think it's worth experiencing this with another perspective.
Personally Ive had a lot of guys reject me because I've had a lot of sex with people. When they find out they freak out and feel dirty. No one wants to be with people who are used up multiple times. It's a sort of curse almost. Mentioning this as a side perspective too in case it has any relevancy.