Venting My flatmate and her fwb are in the kitchen

[Miserable]

Get out of that situation if she's bringing people into your life like that
As for the sex stuff... have you people never heard of prostitutes? Seriously, try one!

I don't think that's accurate, I'm a pansexual woman and I've been attracted to a lot of different people for a lot of different reasons. I'm pretty sure I'm not brainwashed I can't speak for the other ladies here tho lmao

As a sociologist I have to insist that we are all brainwashed

 

[Eurus]

Sorry your thread went sideways, and sorry your roommate is inconsiderate.

How is your relationship with her? Would it be possible to have a conversation with just her where you establish some guidelines. For example, she gives you some heads up through text message or something that fwb will be coming over so you could find a way to busy doing something else, or atleast so you have time to mentally prepare for his rudeness towards you?

THANK you I was wondering when someone would mention the OP,I would have said something but I don't didn't know(and still don't) because I've never been in that situation and can't even fathom it,This got derailed oddly

 

[Final Escape]

I don't think that's accurate, I'm a pansexual woman and I've been attracted to a lot of different people for a lot of different reasons. I'm pretty sure I'm not brainwashed I can't speak for the other ladies here tho lmao

We have all been brainwashed, through media and other ways. If we weren't there would be no ruling class who sees us like cattle to farm. I know it may be hard to believe but that's in fact what is happening. I didn't mean to be insulting to u personally. My post isn't even relevant I might remove that post lol!

 

[Meretlein]

Thanks - lots of helpful and empathetic perspectives.

Most women don't get pleasure from sex with a stranger. So being able to get sex from random men who just want to use them as a fleshlight means nothing. And being used by someone you aren't attracted to means even less.

You are the one insulting people here and saying their response is proof of no empathy. Women are the majority in all caring jobs and you say they don't have empathy because we don't fuck people we aren't attracted too. Studies have shown that men considered sex good when they orgasmed but women consider sex good when there is no pain. You are the one who can't see anything except from your own perspective.

Not finding a partner must be terribly painful but you are just making yourself and other people like you look horrible right now.

 

[greenlight]

I kind of like all these women in this thread basically showing that they hate ugly autistic guys and laugh at our suffering. I respect honesty, it's refreshing

 

[sammii]

We have all been brainwashed, through media and other ways. If we weren't there would be no ruling class who sees us like cattle to farm. I know it may be hard to believe but that's in fact what is happening. I didn't mean to be insulting to u personally. My post isn't even relevant I might remove that post lol!

Dw hun, it takes a lot more than that to insult me its all good

 

[greenlight]

@EatingRawCocoa what happened to your posts?

 

[Meretlein]

You don't think it's at all offensive to assume that lonely men without sex just want fleshlight sex ? I couldn't think of anything less interesting. Women have lots of unsatisfying sex, I'm sure. It doesn't really have anything to do with anything I wrote though. Much of that unsatisfying sex is with the uncaring alphas they pick instead of the super shy loners, etc.

I was referring to you saying women can get sex at anytime. You and greenlight are trying to see the worst in what everyone is saying while ignoring what you did to provoke everyone's irritation

 

[gingerplum]

Studies have shown that men considered sex good when they orgasmed but women consider sex good when there is no pain.

Seriously? Holy shit, those are some depressing survey results. I feel compelled to form a support group for these women. Damn.

 

[DepressionsAHo]

I kind of like all these women in this thread basically showing that they hate ugly autistic guys and laugh at our suffering. I respect honesty, it's refreshing

Nobody said that. Not a damn soul nor would we ever and if someone did, I'd call them out on their bullshit in a heartbeat. As I'm sure all the lovely ladies on this thread would. I'm autistic too, high functioning but still. We all said something because that way of thinking is utterly toxic and does nothing to help you. Get that out of your head. None of us hate you but that way of thinking will get you no where

 

[sammii]

I kind of like all these women in this thread basically showing that they hate ugly autistic guys and laugh at our suffering. I respect honesty, it's refreshing

I'm autistic too, and honestly I tend to try and see the humour in most situations because it makes me feel a bit better mentally. I assure you tho i don't hate anyone and I'm not laughing at anyone's suffering. I stand by the fact that u need to get out of that house ur roommate's fwb sounds like a dick.

 

[DepressionsAHo]

@EatingRawCocoa what happened to your posts?

He deleted them all. Couldn't take the heat

 

[Final Escape]

You don't think it's at all offensive to assume that lonely men without sex just want fleshlight sex ? I couldn't think of anything less interesting. Women have lots of unsatisfying sex, I'm sure. It doesn't really have anything to do with anything I wrote though. Much of that unsatisfying sex is with the uncaring alphas they pick instead of the super shy loners, etc.

Yea that's the thing for women, there might be lots of guys willing to have sex with u but only a small percent will actually be truly satisfying partners. Friends with benefits does not exist for women although we go along with it for a little while. Mainly it's guys that benefit from that situation because men can leave their feelings out of sex easier than women can. Women tend to get attached through sex. Not saying men don't get attached but men are more wired up for casual sex in a way that women are not.

 

[sammii]

Nobody said that. Not a damn soul nor would we ever and if someone did, I'd call them out on their bullshit in a heartbeat. As I'm sure all the lovely ladies on this thread would. I'm autistic too, high functioning but still. We all said something because that way of thinking is utterly toxic and does nothing to help you. Get that out of your head. None of us hate you but that way of thinking will get you no where

Yeah, what she said.

I've never spoke to this many autistic people in my life btw, this is awesome it's good to know there's a bunch of us out there, I don't know anyone else who's autistic irl

 

[Final Escape]

I kind of like all these women in this thread basically showing that they hate ugly autistic guys and laugh at our suffering. I respect honesty, it's refreshing

I've never met one that I'm aware of in person. I'm sure they actually can be interesting guys. You just have to understand the disorder.

 

[DepressionsAHo]

I'm autistic too, and honestly I tend to try and see the humour in most situations because it makes me feel a bit better mentally. I assure you tho i don't hate anyone and I'm not laughing at anyone's suffering. I stand by the fact that u need to get out of that house ur roommate's fwb sounds like a dick.

Ayyyy
#AutisticGang?

 

[greenlight]

Nobody said that. Not a damn soul nor would we ever and if someone did, I'd call them out on their bullshit in a heartbeat. As I'm sure all the lovely ladies on this thread would. I'm autistic too, high functioning but still. We all said something because that way of thinking is utterly toxic and does nothing to help you. Get that out of your head. None of us hate you but that way of thinking will get you no where

The way you reacted to the point which @EatingRawCocoa made, that it would be moral and empathetic for women to give pity sex to lonely guys speaks for itself

 

[sammii]

Ayyyy
#AutisticGang?

Aaaayy

It probably says something about living with autism that there's so many of us on this site tho right? That's probably not a good thing lmao

 

[gingerplum]

The way you reacted to the point which @EatingRawCocoa made, that it would be moral and empathetic for women to give pity sex to lonely guys speaks for itself

Holy shit, greenlight. You are seriously your own worst enemy. I wanted to be on your side, but I'm gonna tap the fuck out now.

 

[sammii]

Holy shit, greenlight. You are seriously your own worst enemy. I wanted to be on your side, but I'm gonna tap the fuck out now.

That's probably a good idea.

I'm just gonna stay out of all the arguing that's going on I think I just want everyone to get along

 

[Morphinekiss]

Where are the moral, empathetic men giving sex to lonely girls!!! Two way street, equality, blah blah blah.

I actually know many autistic people, who are lovely and have great sex lives. They put in the work to be social and got what they wanted. I think sitting around assuming all women hate autistic men is what's gonna be the deal breaker for ya buddy.

Peace out, the theraflu is kicking in and your mind is obviously made up.

 

[Meretlein]

The way you reacted to the point which @EatingRawCocoa made, that it would be moral and empathetic for women to give pity sex to lonely guys speaks for itself

He said women not fucking guys they aren't attracted to is proof that women have no compassion. He ignores women being the majority in caring jobs because it doesn't get his dick wet.

People being disturbed by this is not hatred. I'm sorry you are so lonely but you are being willfully ignorant and making yourself look bad if you can't see why people are upset.

I have been socially isolated before, like left at home alone not in school for months at 13 and 14 years old. I know how bad isolation feels and people underestimate this which sucks. But rawcoco's attitude was gross and you shouldn't expect people to not say anything.

 

[DepressionsAHo]

Aaaayy

It probably says something about living with autism that there's so many of us on this site tho right? That's probably not a good thing lmao

Prolly not lLmao but we gotta take the piss from somewhere hahaaha

Yes, because women who are lonely really struggle with finding men to have sex with... There were some giid points above. That's wasn't one of them.

ya man. There's really nothing any of us can say to change your mind. That's evident. You know what else is evident? My diminished sympathy for your situation. That's all I gotta say about this anymore

 

[Alchemist]

He deleted them all. Couldn't take the heat

Guess deep down knows his opinions are so wrong that cannot stand by them for long.

 

[DepressionsAHo]

Guess deep down knows his opinions are so wrong that cannot stand by them for long.

Funny thing is, he messaged me and I told him this, he then said "fair enough, sorry". Then he comes on here saying this shit and this greenlight guy finally finds something he can hold onto while ignoring everybody else's reasoning. Pathetic. I'm not known for being nice but I think this one is WELL justified

 

[neilo99]

Guess deep down knows his opinions are so wrong that cannot stand by them for long.

Now he's deleted his posts it makes my post #2 look terrible!

 

[gingerplum]

Now he's deleted his posts it makes my post #2 look terrible!

Don't be silly, we all know how it went down. You're fine, don't give it a second thought .

 

[ScorpiusDragon]

Same.
Its been several months
Can he come over?

I second this lol

I really just want to know why people assume girls can get sex whenever we want? Is there a dick fairy that comes around every night checking if we're good, cause if so he's lost my address.

I'm dying

 

[DepressionsAHo]

I second this lol

I'm dying

Dick fairy? Hello? Hellllooo? Come through zaddy

 

[ScorpiusDragon]

Dick fairy? Hello? Hellllooo? Come through zaddy

I think the dick fairy lost my address too. Goddamn it.