Venting Moving out

[SplitInfrastructure]

Today is the day Im moving out, my friend and her dad is coming in less than an hour, Im so stressed I cant even begin to explain it, Im drinking a beer with my friend Im living with right now and Im all over the place, I made sure to pack everything up but Ill mis this place so much and Ill have to learn how to get around the new city
I feel like I should be happier about this, but I cant really feel anything but the stress, maybe it will get better once I see my bestie and well cuddle after the long road

 

[Valky]

May I ask why you are moving? It's a bit hard to cheer you up without knowing the reason.

 

[Forever Sleep]

It's bound to feel scary. Change is scary. It may well end up being better though. You may struggle at first- but, chances are- you'll be able to handle it while it's happening. I've found quite often the idea of something is worse than the actual thing. I'm talking from experience too- I've packed up three times now- moved somewhere entirely new- not knowing a soul. Either for a course (uni) or- for work. It may end up being the best thing you've ever done, or- it may have been a mistake- in which case- you'll need to work out what best to do next. Wheels are in motion now though. Just do your very best to go with the flow and accept the support I'm sure your best friend will give you. Good luck!

 

[Unattainable666]

Let us know how the move goes. Change is always hard, but think of this as an exciting experience. You will be fine!!!!

 

[hellispink]

Its okay to feel scared. Fear is part of the process. But you will rock it. Even if its scary go ahead for what you think its best for you. Best wishes on this new chapter.

 

[feder]

I'm also moving out in 2 weeks, feeling the same, like I should be happy but in reality I don't feel anything positive, its just scary. Change of any kind is always scary, even if its good. Hopefully its for the better and you quickly get accustomed to the new environment . Best of luck and safe travels!

 

[SplitInfrastructure]

May I ask why you are moving? It's a bit hard to cheer you up without knowing the reason.

mostly the fact that my mom is abusive, I was pretty much avoiding her for a longer while, so she cant reach me

It's bound to feel scary. Change is scary. It may well end up being better though. You may struggle at first- but, chances are- you'll be able to handle it while it's happening. I've found quite often the idea of something is worse than the actual thing. I'm talking from experience too- I've packed up three times now- moved somewhere entirely new- not knowing a soul. Either for a course (uni) or- for work. It may end up being the best thing you've ever done, or- it may have been a mistake- in which case- you'll need to work out what best to do next. Wheels are in motion now though. Just do your very best to go with the flow and accept the support I'm sure your best friend will give you. Good luck!

Let us know how the move goes. Change is always hard, but think of this as an exciting experience. You will be fine!!!!

Its okay to feel scared. Fear is part of the process. But you will rock it. Even if its scary go ahead for what you think its best for you. Best wishes on this new chapter.

I'm also moving out in 2 weeks, feeling the same, like I should be happy but in reality I don't feel anything positive, its just scary. Change of any kind is always scary, even if its good. Hopefully its for the better and you quickly get accustomed to the new environment . Best of luck and safe travels!

We got home late, so I havent had the chance to unpack yet, but Ill do it later today while we have some earrands to do, Im still stressed but at least I have someone on my side

 

[Valky]

That sounds great then!!
I am really happy for you :) I am sure that it hasn't been an easy decision but you got this!!

I really wish you all the best, you got this

 

[Rational man]

I admire you and anyone for having the strength to escape abuse. No-one should have to tolerate abuse. Its always hard when change happens but when i fled my narcissistic family, i found myself and it saved me. Best wishes.