Help more nightmares, im scared

[moya117]

i always feel like im being watched, i dont know who.
i have 3 friend from a dream, they always come to me, but its random, they cheer me when im sad and such. but this one.. person?, he's creepy, very very creepy, objectively he's handsome but his actions and things, his demeanor, i hate it, i can feel him going mad as im writing this, when i encountered him he said im cute and have a very cute voice. im scared, very scared.
i dont want to be awake cause i always feel like im being watched by him, but sleeping is not the right solution either, im scared he will come to me, and what if im stuck? what if im stuck in that dream and never woke up.
i know, i just know for a fact that his "handsome face" is made up as to try not to scare me away too much but it's not working, i feel him and i can feel, i can imagine what he looks like, i don't know anymore. i have never felt something like this before, this is not me, am i acting? no this is real? right? help

 

[EdibleGasMask]

First I want to say your reactions are valid, dreams and nightmares can be difficult to deal with, ive certainly been tormented by my own mind for a bit when I wasnt doing well at all. Im not trying to be demeaning or rude but like, if this person is just a dream person or a figment of your imagination... why not just kill him? Get angry at him and dream him being thrown into a pit of hot lava or like spawn a tank of pirhanas under him?

 

[moya117]

First I want to say your reactions are valid, dreams and nightmares can be difficult to deal with, ive certainly been tormented by my own mind for a bit when I wasnt doing well at all. Im not trying to be demeaning or rude but like, if this person is just a dream person or a figment of your imagination... why not just kill him? Get angry at him and dream him being thrown into a pit of hot lava or like spawn a tank of pirhanas under him?

i can't, whenever im dreaming about him, he either tied me up or i can't move at all, i also can't control my dreams for some reason

 

[EdibleGasMask]

Well, it could help to try to not think about him. Don't force yourself to not think about him as thats as impossible as trying to not think of a pink elephant when being told not to. Genuinely try to distract yourself and forget about him, soon his face will fade.

Though, what it sounds like to me is that your subconsious mind is trying to tell you it feels trapped by something, something in your life... or just life itself is probably having you feel subconsiously trapped in an inescapeable situation. It would be wise to be mindful that your dreams arent really a manifestation of anything but your brain processing information and emotions it has through the day.

If that fails buy a dreamcatcher because that worked for me. I'll pray for you to have better and calmer dreams for you in the future.

 

[moya117]

Well, it could help to try to not think about him. Don't force yourself to not think about him as thats as impossible as trying to not think of a pink elephant when being told not to. Genuinely try to distract yourself and forget about him, soon his face will fade.

Though, what it sounds like to me is that your subconsious mind is trying to tell you it feels trapped by something, something in your life... or just life itself is probably having you feel subconsiously trapped in an inescapeable situation. It would be wise to be mindful that your dreams arent really a manifestation of anything but your brain processing information and emotions it has through the day.

If that fails buy a dreamcatcher because that worked for me. I'll pray for you to have better and calmer dreams for you in the future.

thank you thank you, I'll take my mind off as much as i can, probably watch yt or something
there's no dreamcatcher here unfortunately, as it't not common, maybe at online marketplace, but i don't really have any money so im just gonna stuck to yt

 

[Linda]

i always feel like im being watched, i dont know who.
i have 3 friend from a dream, they always come to me, but its random, they cheer me when im sad and such. but this one.. person?, he's creepy, very very creepy, objectively he's handsome but his actions and things, his demeanor, i hate it, i can feel him going mad as im writing this, when i encountered him he said im cute and have a very cute voice. im scared, very scared.
i dont want to be awake cause i always feel like im being watched by him, but sleeping is not the right solution either, im scared he will come to me, and what if im stuck? what if im stuck in that dream and never woke up.
i know, i just know for a fact that his "handsome face" is made up as to try not to scare me away too much but it's not working, i feel him and i can feel, i can imagine what he looks like, i don't know anymore. i have never felt something like this before, this is not me, am i acting? no this is real? right? help

Some part of your brain is producing him. He's not real. Knowing that might not make him go away, but just remind yourself that he can't harm you. You, on the other hand, can do whatever you want to him, so if you feel like kicking him in the balls, then do that. If you want to understand better what's going on in your brain, you would have to talk to a professional.
Have you always felt things like this, or have they started fairly recently? If the latter, has something happened recently that could have affected you?

 

[moya117]

Some part of your brain is producing him. He's not real. Knowing that might not make him go away, but just remind yourself that he can't harm you. You, on the other hand, can do whatever you want to him, so if you feel like kicking him in the balls, then do that. If you want to understand better what's going on in your brain, you would have to talk to a professional.
Have you always felt things like this, or have they started fairly recently? If the latter, has something happened recently that could have affected you?

if you're talking about "friends" from dreams, its not recent, i met them since im like on middle school so its a long long ago, the three of them is very kind and always cheer me up. but this one is strange, but for some reason i feel familiar with him, not bcs i feel like i met him before or his action remind me of someone, no it not bcs of that, but he still feel familiar to me. i don't know what his appearance meant or how.
recently i feel more numb, and im content with that, so that might be the reason?

 

[Linda]

if you're talking about "friends" from dreams, its not recent, i met them since im like on middle school so its a long long ago, the three of them is very kind and always cheer me up. but this one is strange, but for some reason i feel familiar with him, not bcs i feel like i met him before or his action remind me of someone, no it not bcs of that, but he still feel familiar to me. i don't know what his appearance meant or how.
recently i feel more numb, and im content with that, so that might be the reason?

He might "feel familiar" to you because he is part of you, or represents some aspect of you. Like I said, he is coming from your brain, not from outside you. But if you want to get to the bottom of this, I think you would need to talk to a professional psychologist or psycho-analyst.
You're not the only person who has "friends" from dreams or from other aspects of their life. I don't experience it myself, but I do know that it's not rare.

 

[moya117]

He might "feel familiar" to you because he is part of you, or represents some aspect of you. Like I said, he is coming from your brain, not from outside you. But if you want to get to the bottom of this, I think you would need to talk to a professional psychologist or psycho-analyst.
You're not the only person who has "friends" from dreams or from other aspects of their life. I don't experience it myself, but I do know that it's not rare.

i think that makes sense, i dunno about talking to psychologist tho cus mine is pretty suck but i don't really have a choice lol